Official Kiwi Farms Man-Hate Thread

[bjarven]

I wanted to complain about a male whos been causing me stress
im gonna PL just a little.
So, some random man who lives in this neighbourhood, walked up to me some weeks ago and try to chat me up while i was taking out the trash. And i decided to be nice about it, and say "no, thank you, but you seem nice, i am sure youll find someone" and then i listen to him talk about how he feels "hopeless" ect for about 5 min.

About 4 days later he messages me says he found my number online, and asked if would like to take a walk. Im still nice, and say "no, do not contact me, i am in a relationship".
And after that he started messaging again, many times a week , just going "whats up?" so i blocked his number. Some time later after that he came knocking on my door!! So i pretended not to be at home and shut the lights off, and this happend about 2 or 3 more times when i was at home, and he even said loudly outside " i know you are home, i just want to ask something". Appearently he had also called my workplace and asked for me.
At this point i dont even know what his name is, so i looked it up, via his number, and i had my dad and my uncle call him basicly "threaten" him, and he whined to my dad about the things he whined to me about.

the thing is, I feel that i should just have been really mean when this person first walked up, which would have spared me this whole headache, but it felt wrong since it was a neighbour, but now i regret not just telling him to kys, and i should have know better because man.

I would like to know, how you all deal with rejecting men? Should you be extra mean and aggressive or be nice so that the male doesnt fly into a violent tantrum?

 

[bjarven]

While this is possibly a joke, be careful if you do actually carry that with you since it's illegal to deploy against humans. I doubt most cops would ask any questions if you were attacked but still worth considering downgrading to the stuff meant to be used on humans. Bear spray is at max 2% capsaicin and you can get up to 1.4% human spray.
Plus the human stuff can be deployed from a neat gun that's easier to conceal carry and safer for you

I made my own stungun from a flashlight. I dont think it is legal, but i rather be safe than sorry.

 

[Generic Anime Girl]

>debating online with a retard about how oppressed men are or whatever moid shit he's yapping about
>I say "You know most sex crimes are committed by men, right?"
>he asks me for a SOURCE

Are moids actually this fucking stupid and disingenuous? The source is the fucking history of our society

 

[w4vy_gr4vy]

Are moids actually this fucking stupid and disingenuous?

Yes.

 

[Justa Grata Honoria]

I would like to know, how you all deal with rejecting men? Should you be extra mean and aggressive or be nice so that the male doesnt fly into a violent tantrum?

this is not about rejecting men this is about you being stalked . I cant stress this enough to go and see a lawyer . I just hope you dont have pictures of you on the internet right now revenge ai porn is been made as a final fuck you as a response to rejection and sendt to the womans workplace. Talk with your workplace to lie about you not working there and move. This is escalating and you are undereacting . This man has figured out your workplace , phone number and place of living. Like for real lawyer and police like yesterday

 

[Doctor Shopper]

This young girl secretly wants to fuck these bodyguards:
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What do people get out of calling children whores? It's bad optics, you're retarded, and you out yourself as a pedophile.

I would like to know, how you all deal with rejecting men? Should you be extra mean and aggressive or be nice so that the male doesnt fly into a violent tantrum?

Dudes like this only ease up when they get checked by another male or they find mental health services, because in his mind he's either ignored your no and thinks he can still convince you, or he's somehow mentally stunted enough to not get the hint that he's been rejected. He could've also just ignored your no and thinks you'll "give him a chance". Stay armed. Can't even count how many dudes that start like this escalate.

 

[Lidl Drip]

I would like to know, how you all deal with rejecting men? Should you be extra mean and aggressive or be nice so that the male doesnt fly into a violent tantrum?

There's not really a perfect way to handle this because as you figured out, if you are nice about it then they think "Oh she's just playing hard to get, I just need to be more insistent!" and if you are mean about it then they start getting angry and call you a bitch and might get violent. That's why so many women just ghost, but it's not really an option when it's your neighbor. I agree that you should go to the police, even if they are gonna be useless it's good to have a report on file.

 

[Ruined by the Rain]

I would like to know, how you all deal with rejecting men? Should you be extra mean and aggressive or be nice so that the male doesnt fly into a violent tantrum?

In your case, get a guy you trust to threaten him. Good chance he's going to scurry away after.

What do people get out of calling children whores? It's bad optics, you're retarded, and you out yourself as a pedophile.

Your first mistake was thinking subhumans like this have any rational thought

 

[Red flag]

I think simply being empathetic goes a long way, but too many guys get way too defensive when women talk about their bad experiences with men and why they have a hard time trusting them and are like, "But not me! Why would you stereotype men when I'm not like that at all?"

It just struck me, that this is the moid version of how would you feel if you didn't have breakfast.

But I did have breakfast don't abuse women!!

 

[Herr Flick]

I wanted to complain about a male whos been causing me stress
im gonna PL just a little.
So, some random man who lives in this neighbourhood, walked up to me some weeks ago and try to chat me up while i was taking out the trash. And i decided to be nice about it, and say "no, thank you, but you seem nice, i am sure youll find someone" and then i listen to him talk about how he feels "hopeless" ect for about 5 min.

About 4 days later he messages me says he found my number online, and asked if would like to take a walk. Im still nice, and say "no, do not contact me, i am in a relationship".
And after that he started messaging again, many times a week , just going "whats up?" so i blocked his number. Some time later after that he came knocking on my door!! So i pretended not to be at home and shut the lights off, and this happend about 2 or 3 more times when i was at home, and he even said loudly outside " i know you are home, i just want to ask something". Appearently he had also called my workplace and asked for me.
At this point i dont even know what his name is, so i looked it up, via his number, and i had my dad and my uncle call him basicly "threaten" him, and he whined to my dad about the things he whined to me about.

the thing is, I feel that i should just have been really mean when this person first walked up, which would have spared me this whole headache, but it felt wrong since it was a neighbour, but now i regret not just telling him to kys, and i should have know better because man.

I would like to know, how you all deal with rejecting men? Should you be extra mean and aggressive or be nice so that the male doesnt fly into a violent tantrum?

Just because you are home, outside, existing etc doesn’t mean you owe him your time or attention. You don’t owe him shit, and he should go fuck himself for being such an entitled little faggot.

Get the police involved because he’s behaving like a stalker and has demonstrated that he does not possess the ability to respect basic boundaries. In the meantime, ignore him. Literally don’t give him any response at all. Act like he doesn’t exist and his brain will shut down in confusion because you’ve given him no attention and he’s literally fucking with you because he’s bored and has nothing better to do. He perceives you as nothing more than a temporary alleviation to that boredom, like the stunted sociopathic retard he has demonstrated himself to be.

If he walks up to you just walk away without making eye contact. If he knocks again turn your tv on really loud and if he starts trying to knock or yell over it call the cops.

 

[Grace Cock Soup]

I made my own stungun from a flashlight. I dont think it is legal, but i rather be safe than sorry.

Neat! Like one of those heavy duty Mag-Lites or what? You think it's strong enough for a man?
The cheap ones they sell in gas stations are only good for breaking a man's grip and really only if you hit them in the side of the neck since it makes that muscle group seize up

 

[bjarven]

this is not about rejecting men this is about you being stalked . I cant stress this enough to go and see a lawyer . I just hope you dont have pictures of you on the internet right now revenge ai porn is been made as a final fuck you as a response to rejection and sendt to the womans workplace. Talk with your workplace to lie about you not working there and move. This is escalating and you are undereacting . This man has figured out your workplace , phone number and place of living. Like for real lawyer and police like yesterday

Ah, i suppose that would be a good idea. Its just that he has not been violent, threatening or trespassed or anything, just been very weird and annoying. I also think my dad scared him off. I quit my job about a month ago, and i dont have any pics or social media online. The manager of the customer support-team sent me a msg saying the guy called the customer support and said he was my friend and something was wrong with my phone, also asked them if i was russian, which im not.

Dudes like this only ease up when they get checked by another male or they find mental health services, because in his mind he's either ignored your no and thinks he can still convince you, or he's somehow mentally stunted enough to not get the hint that he's been rejected. He could've also just ignored your no and thinks you'll "give him a chance". Stay armed. Can't even count how many dudes that start like this escalate.

Yes that is the impression i got, which is why i regret now being nice. My dad got pretty mad, and he has a scary accent, and i think that did the trick, i told the family next to me about, and the parents said they tell him off if they see him.

There's not really a perfect way to handle this because as you figured out, if you are nice about it then they think "Oh she's just playing hard to get, I just need to be more insistent!" and if you are mean about it then they start getting angry and call you a bitch and might get violent. That's why so many women just ghost, but it's not really an option when it's your neighbor. I agree that you should go to the police, even if they are gonna be useless it's good to have a report on file.

I will inform them just in case. i havent heard from him for a couple of days since my dad called him. Since he has not done anything illegal, i doubt they do anything. They are often quick to this area in emergencies tho, so if there are any more shenanigans it will we good if they know.

 

[Lidl Drip]

I will inform them just in case. i havent heard from him for a couple of days since my dad called him. Since he has not done anything illegal, i doubt they do anything. They are often quick to this area in emergencies tho, so if there are any more shenanigans it will we good if they know.

Even if they don't do anything, it's good to file a report because if his behavior escalates it is already known to the police and you have established that it's repeated behavior and they are more likely to act on it. If they ever prosecute him in the future or if he does it to other women it can also be use against him to show that he has a history of reports. He might even be known to them already, these dudes are usually repeat offenders.

 

[demicolon]

I would like to know, how you all deal with rejecting men? Should you be extra mean and aggressive or be nice so that the male doesnt fly into a violent tantrum?

To scare him away, make loud noises by yelling, banging pots and pans or using an airhorn. Make yourself look as big as possible by waving your arms. If you are with someone else, stand close together with your arms raised above your head.

 

[Inside your walls]

OC cahntent for the whole "man vs.bear" discourse.

 

[Lidl Drip]

OC cahntent for the whole "man vs.bear" discourse.
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Kek, men are so fucking dumb. They hate read this thread all day long as rope fuel but they still don't understand the difference between the women here and a liberal feminist on tumblr talking about micro aggressions and how troons are totally valid. "Feminism is just the screeching harpies from Goober Gate and the blue hair memes from /pol/!" And ofc niggers live in their head rent free all day.

 

[Sweetie Kitty]

Kek, men are so fucking dumb. They hate read this thread all day long as rope fuel but they still don't understand the difference between the women here and a liberal feminist on tumblr talking about micro aggressions and how troons are totally valid. "Feminism is just the screeching harpies from Goober Gate and the blue hair memes from /pol/!" And ofc niggers live in their head rent free all day.

Literally half this thread is dedicated specifically to shitting on black and brown men because they’re so notoriously shit to women and little girls and these faggots still can’t parse out anything worth a damn. They’re preaching to the choir when they point out libfem idiocy, it’s not the glorious own they think it is. Logical sex is gonna logic, I suppose.

 

[Big Miss Steak]

One further point, you argue “distinguishing fantasy and reality” as if there is a meaningful separation between the two.

Fantasy is simply a reality unrealized and yet dreamt.

The fact that an utter sperg like you does not understand the concept of fantasy vs reality isn't surprising. You might fantasize about bashing your boss over the head with your keyboard. Why don't you? Because in REALITY, you will be arrested for assault and maybe do time. Your boss might overpower you. Another coworker might step in. None of this happens in your fantasy. Fantasy and reality are not the same.

whoever said fear and attraction are entirely separate things?

They are literally opposite ends of the spectrum; the only time they mix is in FANTASY scenarios and in trauma/survival responses as the scholarly Herr Flick explained.

"Ripped gymbro" is women-speak for "steroid abuser" - everything I've seen and experienced shows 15% or so bodyfat, with a BMI above 25 to be the highest.

I know what you're saying, but the "Dad-bod" is spectacularly difficult to achieve. The average "dad-bod" has "dad-strength" - in terms of actual weightlifting potential, the "dad-strength" is equal to, or more than the typical "gymbro"

I know the difference between low body fat and high muscle mass. I am not talking about men with big muscles who juice (although women typically don't love that either). Studies show women favor men with a higher body fat percentage than most men would think. By dad bod, I (and pretty much any other women) means a man who has some softness but isn't a total lazy lardass. The aesthetic(s) that men pursue in the gym are for other men. Not for women. I spend a lot of time in the gym so I can recognize a good physique and admire the work that goes into it, but it doesn't get me drooling like men expect.

Cardio kills gains - it's an either/or deal. Power, or persistence.

Not if you have your calories and protein in order. If you're really pursuing peak performance then sure, you'll eventually have to choose between being a ultra-marathon runner or a powerlifter. If you're just trying to be fit and healthy then you will probably never reach that fork in the road.

I wanted to complain about a male whos been causing me stress

This is a dangerous situation. Since he's your neighbor it's not beyond the pale that he would come over and knock on the door to talk, and the persistence with "I know you're in there" is overtly creepy but kinda a grey area when it comes to the law, but him tracking down and contacting your previous place of work is stalking. Your previous coworker is a fucking idiot for admitting you ever worked there--even my druggie grocery store coworkers from high school would have known better--although thankfully you no longer work there. Tell them to ignore any future calls from this guy. Your dad and uncle gave him a talking to and he seems unaffected, which is a bad sign.

Avoid him as much as possible and if he catches you outside, be a bitch. Change your phone number. Get the police involved so there's a record trail but know that even with a restraining order the police are retards and this is more a legal way to cover your ass if you have to protect yourself. Arm yourself (a gun or mace, not some dinky pocketknife) and do not leave your house without carrying. Call a family member/friend/bf every time you leave and enter the house. Get an alarm system (Ring or commercial, doesn't matter). If you live alone, consider asking someone to live with you temporarily.

I have dealt with stalkers before. If he becomes violent or comes sniffing around your house when you're not home, you do not want to be caught on the back foot.

 

[Justa Grata Honoria]

OC cahntent for the whole "man vs.bear" discourse.
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that thread created so much salt that young women would rather take chances with a bear than get raped touched by a scrote , even like men who have daughters asked about this were like IDK , and sat there with defeated face. Is just telling how bad things has come.

Kek, men are so fucking dumb. They hate read this thread all day long as rope fuel but they still don't understand the difference between the women here and a liberal feminist on tumblr talking about micro aggressions and how troons are totally valid. "Feminism is just the screeching harpies from Goober Gate and the blue hair memes from /pol/!" And ofc niggers live in their head rent free all day.

the women asked on tik tok were not danger hairs and obviously young naive looking women and every single one of them was answering with bear . Its just final confirmation that the western society is so bad at keeping men accountable that normal run of the mill women would take their chances with a bear at least the bear will eat a bullet for what it have done. I genuinely want to see this repeat across countries to see if this is universal or cultural.

 

[w4vy_gr4vy]

"B-but I'm one of the GOOD guys!* This is just more feminist propaganda, men are protectors of women and have never ever hurt a woman ever!!!! I can't believe these stupid incubators won't take the word of ME, a random man on the internet!"

Source: Trust me bro*

They are tying themselves in knots trying to do anything other than admit that far too many of them are aggressive sex offending cavemen and we have no way of knowing this until they show us.