Official Kiwi Farms Man-Hate Thread

"B-but I'm one of the GOOD guys!* This is just more feminist propaganda, men are protectors of women and have never ever hurt a woman ever!!!! I can't believe these stupid incubators won't take the word of ME, a random man on the internet!"

Source: Trust me bro*

They are tying themselves in knots trying to do anything other than admit that far too many of them are aggressive sex offending cavemen and we have no way of knowing this until they show us.
Men whenever women say that they feel unsafe around strange men because you never know who is a predator: "OMG you dumb bitches are HYSTERICAL! No man would even want to rape you!!!"

Men do their daughters: "You have a boyfriend? Let me just get my shotgun to intimidate this 14 year old high school boy and you better leave the bedroom door OPEN and come back before dark! Also here is some pepper spray and I will be tracking your location."
 
Men whenever women say that they feel unsafe around strange men because you never know who is a predator: "OMG you dumb bitches are HYSTERICAL! No man would even want to rape you!!!"

Men do their daughters: "You have a boyfriend? Let me just get my shotgun to intimidate this 14 year old high school boy and you better leave the bedroom door OPEN and come back before dark! Also here is some pepper spray and I will be tracking your location."
Remember: men are so not dangerous and not threatening that they themselves will arm themselves to the teeth in case other men chimp out on them. But women are supposed to trust them implicitly.
 
@bjarven I don't know what country you're in, in the UK we have non-molestation orders which get the ball rolling on stalking cases - basically any contact after one has been granted is already considered a legal violation. Police don't advertise them as much as they should because they're a lot of paperwork but they can be got through the police (will require evidence) or applied for privately (but expensive). Is there anyone you could ask to find out if anything similar exists where you are? Maybe ask when you make the report to the police - it won't just help you, it will attach to him and help whoever he goes after next. Stalkers don't stop they just change targets.

It does sound like stalking and the general recommendation is to keep contact as low as possible, and as indirect and formal as possible. It would actually be good to send something like a cease and desist so that you just come off as too much effort to stalk and un/fortunately he will drop you and go find an easier target. Parents are still pretty close to you, he might still be able to get narcissistic supply off of imagining you talking to your dad about it upset or imagining a scenario where your dad is keeping you two apart. I do hope it's enough and he's already given up.
 
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Lol men actually think that a virgin woman won't mind how terrible and selfish they are in bed. Maybe not at first (she will still be really disappointed but probably blame herself), but dudes, women talk to each other. She will learn why the sex with you is so bad from confiding in her friends and she will not be motivated to keep doing it with you because you SUCK! Plus she will learn from her friends that there are men who aren't as bad at it as you. That's how you end up in a sexless marriage or straight up divorced. Going for a virgin isn't the solution, you gotta get gud (and you don't get good by watching porn).
 
I wanted to complain about a male whos been causing me stress
im gonna PL just a little.
So, some random man who lives in this neighbourhood, walked up to me some weeks ago and try to chat me up while i was taking out the trash. And i decided to be nice about it, and say "no, thank you, but you seem nice, i am sure youll find someone" and then i listen to him talk about how he feels "hopeless" ect for about 5 min.

About 4 days later he messages me says he found my number online, and asked if would like to take a walk. Im still nice, and say "no, do not contact me, i am in a relationship".
And after that he started messaging again, many times a week , just going "whats up?" so i blocked his number. Some time later after that he came knocking on my door!! So i pretended not to be at home and shut the lights off, and this happend about 2 or 3 more times when i was at home, and he even said loudly outside " i know you are home, i just want to ask something". Appearently he had also called my workplace and asked for me.
At this point i dont even know what his name is, so i looked it up, via his number, and i had my dad and my uncle call him basicly "threaten" him, and he whined to my dad about the things he whined to me about.

the thing is, I feel that i should just have been really mean when this person first walked up, which would have spared me this whole headache, but it felt wrong since it was a neighbour, but now i regret not just telling him to kys, and i should have know better because man.


I would like to know, how you all deal with rejecting men? Should you be extra mean and aggressive or be nice so that the male doesnt fly into a violent tantrum?

I don't think the choices are limited to being a terrified mouse/sucker ("so nice that the man doesn't fly into a violent tantrum") and going pooner-level ham ("extra mean and aggressive").

Sounded like you did the right things, for less of a weirdo. There nothing wrong with being civil or speaking to someone, and with giving a polite and firm no. No guarantee that anti-bear advice would have prevented anything. I guess I wouldn't add "you seem nice & I'm sure you'll find someone," to someone who rambled on in a weird way, because they've shown they don't see normal social boundaries - but you didn't do anything "wrong" and no normal person would take what you said as encouragement. And you said no and more firmly as it went on, and then you took action, which seems to have been effective (I hope).

Most people will take the first or second no. There are weirdos in the world, sure, and you can't control for that. He's obviously very off. Maybe calibrate your crazy-dar a little and don't let some person impose on your time. Polite/civil doesn't mean you can't interrupt a crazy person and walk away. And don't give your name to people like that (if you did; just a guess since he was able to find your number online, but maybe not - in either case, not blaming you, just a cautionary point).

In most cases, a civil and firm no, thank you (with a firmer, clear no, end of story, after that, if required) is all that is needed. Most people - even men who speak to women they don't know, shocker - aren't bad weirdo stalkers with no boundaries, and even most weirdos are only mildly weird and will take a hike. You got a severe weirdo; sorry about that, and it is worth the advice you already got, which is to chat with the police to try to get a report written, or at least some notes taken, because the actions described are beyond even moderate weirdo. Go with times, dates, events and quotes. The sooner you write them down the better it is. And keep an eye out for him, avoid him if you see him, and document anything else he may do. Good idea telling your (non-weirdo) neighbors about him. Hopefully your dad (metaphorically, for now, anyway) knocked some sense into him and this is the end of this nut.
 
Remember: men are so not dangerous and not threatening that they themselves will arm themselves to the teeth in case other men chimp out on them. But women are supposed to trust them implicitly.
It’s been my experience that most men do have some sort of instinct that makes them less violent and confrontational with women, than with other men. There have been situations where two men look about to get into a fistfight, that I was able to diffuse simply by stepping in and assigning one of the men a task somewhere else, or moids that other men visibly fear to interact with, but will immediately switch to a friendly and cooperative demeanour when talking to women. The issue is with those damaged or ill men that don’t have this instinct, and that would be willing to strike a woman.
 
It’s been my experience that most men do have some sort of instinct that makes them less violent and confrontational with women, than with other men. There have been situations where two men look about to get into a fistfight, that I was able to diffuse simply by stepping in and assigning one of the men a task somewhere else, or moids that other men visibly fear to interact with, but will immediately switch to a friendly and cooperative demeanour when talking to women. The issue is with those damaged or ill men that don’t have this instinct, and that would be willing to strike a woman.
Yes most men aren't extremely violent and will not attack you or each other in public, they know there are social and legal consequences for that (unless they are black). The scenario with the bear is deliberately set in the woods with the implications that there would be no consequences for the man (nobody would hear, nobody would find you, nobody would know who did it). There are several studies where a scary amount of men admit they would rape a woman if they were guaranteed to face no consequences. The other issue is that it's a stranger so you don't know if he is "one of the good guys" or not. And even "good guys" will do horrific thing if given the opportunity. Most crimes aren't meticulously planned, they are crimes of opportunity.

Putting yourself in harms way when two men are fighting is supremely retarded btw. Just let them beat each other, lmao. Who cares? You're not their mother or paid to be their tard wrangler and women shouldn't be responsible to keep men in check and make sure they don't randomly break out into moidrage. Let them beat each other and face legal consequences instead, they won't learn otherwise.
 
You're not their mother or paid to be their tard wrangler and women shouldn't be responsible to keep men in check and make sure they don't randomly break out into moidrage. Let them beat each other and face legal consequences instead, they won't learn otherwise.
I was actually paid to be the moid wrangler at that time, I was one of the production engineers. Individually assigning tasks wasn’t my job, but if two skilled workers had to be suspended, substitutes and HR brought in etc, it would have been my problem. It saved me a lot of work to tell the one guy to go supervise something that didn’t need to be supervised just to get him away from the other one, and then telling the production manager to move them to separate shifts.
Watching men fight might be fun, but it would have made my numbers go down.
Yes most men aren't extremely violent and will not attack you or each other in public, they know there are social and legal consequences for that (unless they are black). The scenario with the bear is deliberately set in the woods with the implications that there would be no consequences for the man (nobody would hear, nobody would find you, nobody would know who did it). There are several studies where a scary amount of men admit they would rape a woman if they were guaranteed to face no consequences. The other issue is that it's a stranger so you don't know if he is "one of the good guys" or not. And even "good guys" will do horrific thing if given the opportunity. Most crimes aren't meticulously planned, they are crimes of opportunity.
Okay, thank you for contextualising it for me. In this case, I agree completely. I would never step in between a fight if there were any risk involved with it, in the situation I described there were other men standing around who would have stepped in immediately if they hadn’t backed down, and I could tell they were anxious I’d fire them on the spot or something (even though at most I could have asked the production manager to do that for me), so I did have the fear of authority in my favour.
 
Well damn I hope you got paid well, that sounds terrible.
It was my first job out of university and I negotiated very poorly, so no, I didn’t get paid well, but I still enjoyed it. Moid wrangling was a very small part of my job, mostly the production managers handled that, but if I were working night or afternoon shift, and something urgent happened, I would have to handle it. In this case I was working day and just happened to be in the wrong place at the right time to catch the situation.
 
The Twilight movies are awesome because you can force moids to watch them with you and enjoy their sufgering and seethe. :)

For some reason every single moid I forced to watch the entire Twilight saga was team Jacob, they really don't like the handsome vampire.

You would think they would like the 700 year old man dating a high schooler...
Jacob bonds for life at first look with a baby though.
 
Jacob bonds for life at first look with a baby though.
Ikr, and everyone on his "pack" can read his thoughts so they will all know what you look like naked. He is objectively the worst choice.

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"Women should avoid porn watchers"
>man shows up to proof her point

lolol they do it to themselves
 
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This post makes the rounds on social media like once every month, which never fails to remind me that rapeapes chimp out over thee Stayzies only wanting Chads when it's proof that as a man all you need to do is not be a roidrage pig and (probably) wash your balls. Women are socialised to have insanely low standards. Quite funny that the proboscis looking dude (i'm sure he has a nice personality, I watched the original video of him whining when it came out) managed to get a gf that's not "looksmatched" to him at all.

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"Wamen have life on easy mode" oh look, a homologus example with not the similar outcome. Her comment section is only women praising her dialog or other women relating to her. (her video didn't even focus on a boohoo i don't have a bf scenario). No memes to be made about ugly women reaching some profound enlightenment that life is more than looks or relationship.

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This post makes the rounds on social media like once every month, which never fails to remind me that rapeapes chimp out over thee Stayzies only wanting Chads when it's proof that as a man all you need to do is not be a roidrage pig and (probably) wash your balls. Women are socialised to have insanely low standards. Quite funny that the proboscis looking dude (i'm sure he has a nice personality, I watched the original video of him whining when it came out) managed to get a gf that's not "looksmatched" to him at all.
Things are already going sideways for them :story:


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What would be the girl equivalent of a ugly white guy getting with a Filipino woman
When I was 15 I worked at a KFC and my manager was this old creepy woman who had a Mexican husband half her age
(she had a young kid with the guy too and she was at least 50)
Old white British women and their Nigerian Facebook boyfriends that are half their age scamming them for money
 
Jacob bonds for life at first look with a baby though.
I mean he does, but that only happened because meyer was mad that anybody picked jacob over edward. He started the series an outgoing, outdoorsy, family-oriented guy. How dare anyone pick him over the 700 year old backed up virgin who watched Bella while she slept.
 
I mean he does, but that only happened because meyer was mad that anybody picked jacob over edward. He started the series an outgoing, outdoorsy, family-oriented guy. How dare anyone pick him over the 700 year old backed up virgin who watched Bella while she slept.
I would definitely participate in a mass debate thread about this because Edward waiting until he found a woman he truly loves to have sex (even if it was 700 years) is ROMANTIC as fuck and you are wrong!!!
 
Hey all
Bee is now Mama Bee

I went through a lot at the hospital. I had to be rushed into c-section and I lost a lot of blood. I needed 2 blood transfusions. Baby is thankfully healthy and strong and I am grateful for that.

I don't wanna share too much but, I had 1 male doctor who made me bleed and he hurt my body more than he realizes or cares to admit, but after he left I had a great team of doctors, both men and women, that did their damnest to make sure my body was okay.

I wish some doctors knew what they were doing though, it could've been avoidable. This is both a moid and a general statement.
 
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