You'll never believe the answers to this.
See, I enjoy taking classes and courses in my spare time. Not much of a time commitment (usually just a couple hours one or two days a week, depending on your "courseload" which is up to you), pretty cheap, and it's spiritually fulfilling to learn something new. None of the MeetUp faggotry, which tends to be a crapshoot unless you live in a big city, but actual classes. Diverse activities -- pottery, yoga, painting, karate, photography, writing, shooting, woodworking, archery, cooking, crochet, etc. The only thing they all have in common?
There are almost never any young men there.
Granted, most of my fellow ladies in the MHT will see this as a boon, but it makes me realize the depths of the retardation of the modern male whining online about being single. Some of these classes attract retirees, of course, but a large amount of my fellow students are young, attractive single women who were getting out of the house and trying to meet quality men irl, without clubbing or bar-hopping, and who are puzzled as to why they only ever meet other women at these things. Considering "take some local classes!" is the jewel of any "how to meet people irl" article.
Don't get me wrong, I don't need some autistic retard stinking up the classroom because he only came to find pussy and doesn't bother participating in the actual material because he's too busy humping a random girl's leg. But the very, very, very few guys who come, to actually learn a new hobby or skill get snatched up QUICK. And none are 6-6-6 chads. Almost as if being curious and receptive are attractive traits.
I've tried to seek out the mystery of why men don't bother showing up to these obvious venues for meeting people -- not just women -- and socializing while learning something new, and so far the answers I've gotten are:
- It's gay/stupid/useless/feminine to learn something that isn't MANLY or BASED like learning to become self-sufficient (but they're not serious about that either and can't chop one piece of wood or grow a single tomato)
- They assume they'll get hit with a false rape charge if they attend, because that's what they're always worried about, somehow
- They doooon't have tiiiiiime to attend these things because men work soooo hardddd (as he logs out of his remote job at 5pm to jack off and take a nap)
- They shouldn't have to come to women, men are le prize, women should learn about Warhammer and weed instead
In conclusion, these men are whiny faggots who deserve to be single. However these are great spaces to build new female friendships and I have a lot of gratitude about the women I've met through these classes.