You told us why you did it. Tiny hats and trashcans hurting users' feefees.
No, that is how you interpreted "don't feel safe" to mean. I guess, if you're particularly mentally inflexible, the word 'safe' has a meaning to it that is politically charged.
My interest was in flushing DM chats out into the main forum where they belong. I asked why people preferred DM chains. I got responses from several users that indicated two things: (1) they don't want to be doxxxed, which I've discussed earlier and have no remedy for, and (2) they don't like their casual conversations contributing to their reaction scores.
It's not that they literally "don't feel safe", or that their "feelings are hurt", it's that there is a subtle psychological pressure conditioning people into using the site in a way that is counterproductive. This is very reddit-like. You have a running tally that is your score, and since your score is present on the front page and on your user card visible to everyone, there is some expectation (regardless of what I've done to undermine this) that the reaction score is meaningful. In other words, users
don't feel safe to post because it could harm their reaction score, which may sound (and is) stupid, but when it's literally the only prominent feature of your profile besides your username and post count, I can understand it.
The reaction score trained users to use the site wrong - to avoid posting. This is identical to the issue of the reaction notifications training users to use the site wrong - by clicking random notifications to navigate the site. Hence, I am in a
zugzwang. I either leave this weird meta game as it is and permit it to continue to negatively influence users as it has, or I remove it and deal with the unending howling of severely autistic people who are afraid of change.
I feel it's better to remove it because to leave it up continues to train people to use the reaction notifications as their primary locomotive for navigating the site, which is apparently more detrimental than the original issue to begin with.
It has no value TO YOU but it clearly does to at least 900 of your users
If you told me eating shit meant a lot to 900 people I also would not care or use this information to feed people more shit. You're just going to have to deal with it.
It is not coming back.