Well I would disagree that tumblr is "neat and clean" but if you really want to know where all these ideas come from, you should check out the poly bible, "The Ethical Slut". Just like if your partner tries to troon out, if your partner comes home with a copy of this book or tries to get you to read it, RUN. Fast and far. Don't look back. Just keep running.
they remind me of the guys who are like 'my girlfriend/wife is soooo irrational, she gets so mad when I play video games for 16 hours a day/wear cargo shorts and anime tshirts to church/spend all my money on altcoins, unlike me, the paragon of being LOGICAL and RATIONAL', and it's the same demographic too
I don't think it's their hearts.
We have toxic masculinity, toxic monogamy...is toxic heterosexuality a thing yet? How long before we have toxic normality?
We already have that tbh. That's why all these people keep making up all these stupid labels and "identities" so they don't have to be normal.
Everyhing monogamous hetero white male and aything tangentially related to that is toxic. I think that is the rule.
What do you think coercive heteronormality is? Or at least a modern translation of it is easily toxic heterosexuality.
I've seen some people get mad at the word normal. They say that if you identify something as normal that means that something can be out of the norm, and that's like saying it's not valid. That's why things like cis and other labels have popped up. That's why they say "You're valid" and not "You're normal", normal means there is a standard.
It serves a similar purpose when lesbiancels whinge about all straight women secretly being gay/ better off gay, or when plain old regular incels whinge about all women being attracted to Chad and Tyrone only- mono people are off limits to them, so they cope with the idea that the mono people are lying so they can pretend more people want to fuck them than there actually is.
'I'm such a great sexual partner, totally open minded, NOT AT ALL like those cishet white mayuls you love. You should date me'
When you put it that way, polyamory could be seen as a type of emotional and mental abuse. People buy into for fear of looking like a closed minded bigot, case in point using words like toxic monogamy. The same cycle of abuse can be seen with spouses of troons. Love me as I am and don't leave me, or I'll call you a closed minded Nazi.
Wow check that chick's post history. Her life is a mess! For one she was raped the first time she had sex(or so she claims):
There's no such thing as a sane, emotionally-balanced troon. Or poly, for that matter. Anyone who troons out or gets into the poly lifestyle has already gone off the deep end.
She needs therapy, not Reddit.