r/polyamory

[Gingervitis]

Since polygamy is illegal in the US and most of the developed world, have any of these galaxy brained mega cucks got into legal trouble?

Adultery is a felony in 3 states and a misdemeanor in 14 states (and Puerto Rico). Honestly, these guys (and the amount of cheaters I see lately) make me think adultery should 100% be illegal in every US state.

 

[UncleTusky]

Since polygamy is illegal in the US and most of the developed world, have any of these galaxy brained mega cucks got into legal trouble?

Adultery is a felony in 3 states and a misdemeanor in 14 states (and Puerto Rico). Honestly, these guys (and the amount of cheaters I see lately) make me think adultery should 100% be illegal in every US state.

To add to this, the military has laws against adultery too and enforces them because it can undermine morale. Even generals have been court-martialed and convicted for adultery.

Then there are the consequences that come when these degenerates break up or die: Since plural relationships have no legal recognition, when one of the cucks breaks up with the rest or passes everyone else involved is essentially friends or roommates as far as the law is concerned.

Edit to Add: If two of the cucks are married to each other then the survivor if one dies is next of kin . . . but that leaves the rest with nothing unless there is a will specifically stating otherwise. The same basic principle applies to divorces, it would reach some kind of division of property + alimony without even considering the unmarried cucks in the picture.

 

[neverendingmidi]

Edit to Add: If two of the cucks are married to each other then the survivor if one dies is next of kin . . . but that leaves the rest with nothing unless there is a will specifically stating otherwise. The same basic principle applies to divorces, it would reach some kind of division of property + alimony without even considering the unmarried cucks in the picture.

Say a reddit post like this in one of the legal subreddits. A guy posted about how his dad died suddenly in a car accident and now his mom lost everything and she was a stay at home mom for 12 years, and “that bitch” took everything and his mom was even being evicted from her house. His younger siblings only got survivor benefits, which wasn’t much.

At first reddit was confused, normally the wife inherits everything if there’s no will, and doesn’t usually need to go through probate. This is very odd, did he have a will?

Oh.. well… it’s his stepdad actually. Oh, and they never married. Oh, and “that bitch” is the legal wife who inherited everything with her kids. Oh, and he never made a will.

At that point the redditors were pretty much like “your mom spent the last 12 years fucking around, and she has hit the find out stage. Sucks to be her and her kids.”

 

[Leni Riefenstahl]

an example of a beautiful & healthy poly relationship full of communication.

a unicorn woman in a triad realised that her bf gives her "the ick" so ofc she then turns to posting, asking her fellow poly enthusiasts if the relationship can be saved. other members of the household: deadbeat boyfriend who smokes weed and doesn't do any chores to dedicate his time to playing vidya all day instead. he and the other woman have two young children that he doesn't take care of. the mother has no job due to her poor mental health. OP is the only breadwinner, she pays for everything: rent, groceries, deadbeat's clothes.

https://www.reddit.com/r/polyamory/comments/1g5rxvk/my_partner_gives_me_the_ick/

My partner gives me the “ICK”​

Hey fam, I’m a 36(F) with a 33(F) and 32(M) nesting partners. We are in a closed triad and have been for two years. My partners were dating before I entered into the relationship. I came into the relationship not as a unicorn but as an equal (thought I should clarify). I am really struggling with my male partner. When the relationship started my male partner started a business and it has been profitable at times. It is not consistent work since he is an arborist. I have a 6 figure job and am able to support but going into the relationship my male partner is the main provider and I supplemented in one when he came up short. Our other partner we retired to a SAHM to take the kids to school and heal from current mental health issues related to a recent illness. We recognized her need to heal and we were able to give her that. Not to long after dating, he couldn’t pay their rent. I still had a mortgage at the time and was helping pay both. Then it turned into me paying everything, everything. Today, he pays rent sometimes but that is all he contributes. We have 2 children and there is 5 of us. Everytime we go out I pay. Everytime we go to dinner I pay. Every grocery trip I pay. His clothes, the kids clothes, toiletries, it’s me providing. Our first year was a struggle by the end of the year and I told him that I couldn’t do what we did last year because of him not working. This year he has only been working one job a month to pay rent. He knows it too. I’ve asked him to step up multiple times and 3 months ago we discussed him getting a full time or part time job to supplement. He says he’s working on it and he is sabotaging interviews saying he smokes weed. My female partner knows that I am struggling financially because of him and she got a part time job because he is refusing to step up. This has affected all of our relationships. I have the ick. I don’t find him attractive because I’m taking care of a 32 man child. He sits at home all day and smokes weed. Maybe does the dishes. Does nothing to add to our relationship. Any time he texts me it’s for money for gas to get him to work or to buy cones for weed.
My other partner and I had a sit down conversation about this and how it’s affecting me and my mental health. My relationship with my female partner has been rocky because she has been withdrawn. To find out she has the ick too and she just disassociates when he is around so she doesn’t have to deal with him. My sex drive is way down and I can’t even look at him without getting agitated. He sabotaged my dinner 3 nights in the row. I had plans to make the kids dinner after school and he consumed all the ingredients after I told him the day before what I was making. He is always home and does not allow me to have alone time with my female partner. I’ve talked to him how important it is to me to have separate time with them individually. He doesn’t put any effort into anything. He never buys Christmas gifts, birthday gifts, or help planning the kids birthday parties. Half the time he doesn’t go to their events and all he talks about if food. He consumes so much, both the boys combined. He literally is half my budget. I came to the realization that I am being used. I’m finding out he did the same to our female partner while they dated. She brought home the money and he sat on his ass. However this was not the expectation when I entered the relationship.
If you’re still with me, the real problem is, is this something I can get over? Like if he turns everything around, steps up, gets a job and contributes more and actually puts into the relationship emotionally. He just doesn’t try. Is this something that can repaired? I’m just struggling so bad bc he did make me happy, now I’m not sure. Am I putting off the inevitable? I just want to know if anyone else has went though this and if anyone has any input. I’m getting to have a low tolerance when it comes to him and the ick has taken over.

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[scathefire]

He is always home and does not allow me to have alone time with my female partner. I’ve talked to him how important it is to me to have separate time with them individually.

Idk man, didn’t you kinda trade that away when getting into a throuple? You can’t always expect to have your cake and eat it too.

 

[ItsaKnife]

She has a six figure job and that's how she chooses to spend her money? On a leech, a disabled woman, and two kids that aren't hers? Damn. Her boyfriend better be calling her Daddy.

Poly story from a Facebook mom group of all places:

Spoiler

(the cut off word is "boundary")
The replies are mostly normal people telling her to stop pressuring this lady.

TL;DR: a 40 yr old woman tries to pressure a 55 yr old divorcee into being her and her husband's sister wife, requiring her to move with them to Puerto Rico. Wife hopes that a mom group can help her come up with ideas to convince the 55 yr old woman to leave her brain at the door.

 

[UncleTusky]

She has a six figure job and that's how she chooses to spend her money? On a leech, a disabled woman, and two kids that aren't hers? Damn. Her boyfriend better be calling her Daddy.

Poly story from a Facebook mom group of all places:

Spoiler

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(the cut off word is "boundary")
The replies are mostly normal people telling her to stop pressuring this lady.

TL;DR: a 40 yr old woman tries to pressure a 55 yr old divorcee into being her and her husband's sister wife, requiring her to move with them to Puerto Rico. Wife hopes that a mom group can help her come up with ideas to convince the 55 yr old woman to leave her brain at the door.

The other part that jumps out is 'retiring in Puerto Rico in about 4 years' (i.e. when they would be 44, 55, and 59). Unless one of them is a trust fund baby, in an extremely high-income job, or both there is no way their savings would last the rest of their lives. These people found a way to do literally everything wrong.

 

[ItsaKnife]

The other part that jumps out is 'retiring in Puerto Rico in about 4 years' (i.e. when they would be 44, 55, and 59). Unless one of them is a trust fund baby, in an extremely high-income job, or both there is no way their savings would last the rest of their lives. These people found a way to do literally everything wrong.

Maybe that's the real reason why she was trying so hard to rope this woman in. One more person to split the bills with. Bonus points if whoever the 55 yr old was with before passed and left her something. I assumed she was divorced but she could be a widow.

 

[90 Day Beyonce]

deadbeat boyfriend who smokes weed and doesn't do any chores to dedicate his time to playing vidya all day instead

Damn, this guy is like the god of useless NEET slobs everywhere. All this and he has two girlfriends?

 

[74164978231]

Since polygamy is illegal in the US and most of the developed world, have any of these galaxy brained mega cucks got into legal trouble?

They almost never try and do a multiple marriage. Its always 2 are married to each other and the rest considered themselves married.

 

[David Glowie]

Damn, this guy is like the god of useless NEET slobs everywhere. All this and he has two girlfriends?

Well, I wouldn't want him as a full-time boyfriend either.

 

[Diana Moon Glampers]

He's basically achieved the life of those occasional cats that multiple neighborhood families believe is "their" cat, everyone putting out food for him, he just gets to go through life fat and strutting.

 

[Major]

Why are virtually all 'polyamorous' relationships one man multiple women? Isn't that just polygamy & reinventing the wheel?

 

[Gingervitis]

Why are virtually all 'polyamorous' relationships one man multiple women? Isn't that just polygamy & reinventing the wheel?

Are they really? The ones I see tend to be one dumpy looking woman and multiple beta males desperate for a sniff of coochie

 

[Major]

Are they really? The ones I see tend to be one dumpy looking woman and multiple beta males desperate for a sniff of coochie

All the ones in the last few pages are 2 women + 1 man. Do they not realise they're just a sex object?

 

[scathefire]

Why are virtually all 'polyamorous' relationships one man multiple women? Isn't that just polygamy & reinventing the wheel?

Because that’s probably the most stable poly arrangement, which is uncoincidentally similar to polygamy as you said. There’s a reason that practically all human societies are only able to do either that or monogamy on a large scale.

 

[Bussy Catalog]

Because that’s probably the most stable poly arrangement, which is uncoincidentally similar to polygamy as you said. There’s a reason that practically all human societies are only able to do either that or monogamy on a large scale.

It's because women don't sexually compete with each other the way men do. You get four guys orbiting around one woman and even if they're all low-T soyboys, they will eventually start jockeying for position and the weaker ones will be pushed out until only one remains.

Women are more inclined to be equitable so they'll share the dick as long as their spot in the harem is basically secure. Babies can throw a wrench in this arrangement though.

 

[AMHOLIO]

It's because women don't sexually compete with each other the way men do. You get four guys orbiting around one woman and even if they're all low-T soyboys, they will eventually start jockeying for position and the weaker ones will be pushed out until only one remains.

Women are more inclined to be equitable so they'll share the dick as long as their spot in the harem is basically secure. Babies can throw a wrench in this arrangement though.

Historically, men go off to fight wars and hunt and don't always come back. In times of low male population, some societies turned to polygamy just to make sure they had enough new kids coming in and all women were taken care of. There's also wealth and greed but that's more obvious. Men are the more expendable gender as women take care of society when the men are gone. They had to: they're the ones who stay at home with the family and kids. A man can impregnate several women, a woman can only do one at a time with a 9 month to 2 year period (ideally the later to let the body heal) of having to wait before procreating again. Men can treat women like objects but honorable men understand that women are the backbone to a functional community and should be respected for it, as women should respect men for doing more physical and dangerous work.

There's multiple gender arrangements of dumb in polyamory. Beta males after one female for at least a shred of love and coochie, women tagging along one man who's stringing along multiple women with low self esteem or using one for a stable house and one to be a manwhore with, multiple couples trading spouses, and of course a polyamorus web where there's a shitload of people of different or same genders just having an explosive time.



Anyway polyamory is dumb because it's playing with multiple people's hearts just so you can slut it up, take advantage of partners, and triggering emotional eruptions worse than being monogamous. Just be a normal non-committing slut or break up with people before going to new lands like a normal human being.

 

[⋖ cørdion ⋗]

Never seen an attractive 8/10 Stacy engage in polyamory. Closest I've been was this techno festival documentary in which 2 dudes and a girl got "married" by an actual pastor at the event. They were like.. 19-22; "Omg it's gonna last forever!". It was 100% just a sex pact as per any other polyamory 'relationship' with the woman at the center.

I think the issue is that poly shit is written off as patrician sexual self-discovery when in reality it's "I can't fathom a life where I'm tied down to not fuck anything I want", which is the most female-centric mindset imaginable. No fate worse than being PROPERTY of an exclusive, mutual bond.

It's like when you were 15 and saying you were bisexual based on nothing but an urge to be unique put you above the 'lowly straights', except now we're so deep in the rot hole that being straight and upfront about wanting children and marriage is considered borderline fetish fuel. I see women go "I'm looking for a husband to have kids with age 28" and almost catch myself being surprised when that's in reality the default mode for.. all humans. Partner and family, exclusivity.

 

[ItsaKnife]

Because that’s probably the most stable poly arrangement, which is uncoincidentally similar to polygamy as you said. There’s a reason that practically all human societies are only able to do either that or monogamy on a large scale.

I've seen zero stable examples in this thread or in the middle east. The women are always mentally unstable and miserable, while the man ocassionally sows more chaos in between bingeing tv.