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This here is Abby Hoy, she originally appeared in the Fat Acceptance thread:
Abby Hoy, aka: The Penny Darling has started a YoutTube. Abby has been mentioned her before, mostly for having pictures of serial killers on her walls. Abby does not understanding, why that is distasteful. She makes her Husband follow her around, in order to take pictures of her dressed as a five year old.

This is her sponsored video for Panty Drop. It's an underwear subscription service for women. In the video, Abby sits in her underwear telling people how to love their bodies naked.

This is a picture of Abby and her wall of serial killers.
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Link to her blog post about being a "Murderino": https://pennydarlingtheblog.com/2019/02/01/13-things-i-learned-from-being-a-murderino/

She also gained some attention for being in a fat poly relationship:

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Well, checking in in 2024, surprisingly the guy is still around:

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But 90% of her content is her and the girlfriend:

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Anyway, I got absorbed into this friend group of like 20 couples and when we'd all get together for a party or a BBQ or whatever, this one black guy would sit on this throne like chair in the middle of the room, while all the women basically worshipped his dick, while the men were running around doing stuff like getting food ready for everyone.
Do you think we're your friends, faggot? Shut the fuck up. I don't want to hear about your weakness, it makes me want to puke, you weak pussy.
 
"Some people won't grow unless they are forced."

This is a sickness.
That's the giving up the game though with these "people"; their understanding of humanity and emotions and relationships are bugman tier and post-modernised down to the atoms where nothing means anything. My spouse is sick at the thought of me fucking around with other people, how do I convince him/her/xer to abandon their feelings entirely for my own selfish gain?

Treating the self-destruction of personal boundaries and relationships as naturally as trying to convince someone to get over their dislike of olives on pizza is something to behold.
 
He shouldn't be wanting to cross boundaries but I'm not sure what the wife expects. It was already a type of open relationship and she got with a bisexual she gave the okay to fuck around with other dudes. I'm not sure what one would expect out of a situation like this lmao. I wonder if she's secretly some sort of fag hag that is into him being with other guys but feels competition with women? She's crazier than someone who lets their husband bang other chicks because she's at a very significant increased risk of catching something really bad.

Bi people are gross and I dislike them more than gays at this point. Gays keep their deranged behavior to their own circles and are on the same page at least.
 
That OP is an extremely unreliable narrator and it makes me wonder how ok she actually was with him sleeping with men.

He painstakingly lists all the different kinds of people and groups she's allowed to fuck, and then mentions that she has never been with anyone else as though that's some kind of minor detail. And this seems to be the part he has latched onto, all these hypothetical other lovers she could, but doesn't, have.

The weird way he goes about downplaying his wife saying she doesn't want to have this conversation again and that she said no is skeevy as fuck, too.

This relationship sounds weird and bad even if we take everything he writes as the truth but I suspect he's being a little bit... flexible with the facts based on the things he emphasizes and the things he glosses over.
 
I've seen a few poly dating bios at this point and it's always funny how they're written like normal bios. "Looking for someone to do this and that with". Uh okay, how about doing any of that with your fucking spouse?
They won't, even if they'll be happier in the long run, because getting a divorce isn't as easy to be smug and intellectually superior about on the Internet.
 
>have you point blank asked her why it is okay for you to have done the hard emotional labor required for her to have secondary partners of any gender while she will not do that for you?
It's not often that redditardation catches me off guard, but I was genuinely bewildered reading this. "You went through so much mental anguish by telling her she hypothetically can do that thing she has no interest in doing if she ever changes her mind, but she has holdups on letting you actually do something that will massively impact your relationship, something's she already half-lets you do anyway? It kind of seems like you're a giver and she's a taker here... How selfish."

I'm genuinely struggling to formulate any sort of response to the incredible feats of mental gymnastics on display here. I guess the only thing I can add that isn't "what the fuck" is that letting her have partners isn't a concession, it's clearly something he's trying to pressure her into as some sort of fetish of his. It's not something he did out of generosity, it's something he did to try and paint himself as being "fair" at best, or something he's outright forcing on her for selfish reasons at worst.
 
They won't, even if they'll be happier in the long run, because getting a divorce isn't as easy to be smug and intellectually superior about on the Internet.
It would be much "cleaner" to say they have an open marriage if they are staying in one for convenience sake and their spouse is okay with it. It's still wrong, but not going through the whole poly farce would mitigate trouble. A lot of these people seem to get into it because it's sold as an identity that they feel they should try on for one reason or another.
 
Well, I feel like I missed my window, as I only come on once every few weeks, but to all the people who wanted to hear more/told me to stop talking for my sake on the last page, I still feel like admitting I had a Sonic hat ala DarkSyde Phil's funky hats is a way more embarrassing thing to do on here than admitting to polyamory as a minor where I wasn't the one cucked
 
Well, I feel like I missed my window, as I only come on once every few weeks, but to all the people who wanted to hear more/told me to stop talking for my sake on the last page, I still feel like admitting I had a Sonic hat ala DarkSyde Phil's funky hats is a way more embarrassing thing to do on here than admitting to polyamory as a minor where I wasn't the one cucked
Coming to kiwifarms to try to convince the posters that we don't find you embarrassing enough, and giving us more reasons to think so, is pretty weird! Especially needing to do this in the thread for a specific subreddit!

Edit: LMFAO this is apparently not the first time you have posted about your sonic hat. I think you should figure out why it is so socially important to you to tell Internet trolls about your sonic hat instead of just being normal

Listen I sound way meaner than I intend to. I think you're a well meaning person who can laugh at yourself. But I don't think this is the place to do that.
 
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