In some cases, it may be that. I got the sense that they were incapable of healthy relationships or love due to autism and/or fucked up childhoods, and went for relationships that require no real commitment or are doomed to fail. Or they're centered around a fetish.
no, not equally capable. The difference in average libido between men and women is about the same as difference in athletic ability, which makes sense since testosterone mediates both libido and muscle mass and men have about thirty times as much testosterone as women do. It is good that things work this way because the excess of either group in a sexual community leads to dangerous degeneracy (gay men) or bed death (lesbians), and both these arrangements are bad for any children raised near them. I won't argue any more after this to try and keep the thread on topic
I was not referencing libido but ability and desire to be promiscuous or have multiple partners which is not the same thing. Poly people argue there is a "need" that most people artificially keep themselves from fulfilling so it's tangential.
Oh fat little pooner. Men your age looking new friends just join beer league softball. I'd put a Jackson on the current gf having a dick.View attachment 7067512
32 [T4R] North NJ Transmasc seeking Masc
Hello!
I'm a transmasc in North NJ living with my gf. I currently only have one partner and am looking to form a relationship with another masc person who's in the general area (NYC included).
If it matters, I'm 5ft and a lil chubby.
I exhude funny little guy energy. I love the whimsy of clowns, magic shows, juggling, puppetry, etc. I'm in the process of building my own puppet.
I also love playing TTRPGs, MTG, watching anime, cooking/baking, music (currently looping Midwest emo), long walks through the thrift store, and browsing used book shops.
I'm looking for someone who's nerdy in some capacity/enjoys similar things as I do (love of clowns not required), has a good sense of humor, and is just generally kind and patient. Would love someone to pebble silly videos and cute animals to throughout the day.
Ideally would like a Dom for a D/s relationship as well, but not required. If interested we can chat further.
Aside from a partner, I would also love to make local friends. My current friend circle is small and I would love to meet more people who are also nerdy and/or who like to meander shops with a little beverage.
Nah, everything about clown pooner screams NLOG lesbian to me.
I assume she meant "peddle".
Why do they talk like this? It makes me want to crawl up the wall.
Because it makes them unique and quirky like all their friends.Why do they talk like this? It makes me want to crawl up the wall.
The worst part of this isn't the polyamory. It's not even being a pooner. It's being this much of a Redditor that offends me.View attachment 7067512
32 [T4R] North NJ Transmasc seeking Masc
Hello!
I'm a transmasc in North NJ living with my gf. I currently only have one partner and am looking to form a relationship with another masc person who's in the general area (NYC included).
If it matters, I'm 5ft and a lil chubby.
I exhude funny little guy energy. I love the whimsy of clowns, magic shows, juggling, puppetry, etc. I'm in the process of building my own puppet.
I also love playing TTRPGs, MTG, watching anime, cooking/baking, music (currently looping Midwest emo), long walks through the thrift store, and browsing used book shops.
I'm looking for someone who's nerdy in some capacity/enjoys similar things as I do (love of clowns not required), has a good sense of humor, and is just generally kind and patient. Would love someone to pebble silly videos and cute animals to throughout the day.
Ideally would like a Dom for a D/s relationship as well, but not required. If interested we can chat further.
Aside from a partner, I would also love to make local friends. My current friend circle is small and I would love to meet more people who are also nerdy and/or who like to meander shops with a little beverage.
I can't stand the "silly little guy" pooners. Thry think they're funny, but they never are, beyond laughing at. I can't stand the clown pooners. They all think they're so cute, and quirky, when they're not. I will never understand the clown obsession that so many pooners have. Lmao, and so many of the social media "sex workers" love ones to try to be hehe uwu silly and make disgusting "clown porn". Most of these types are poly, and so many of them have one actual relationship or fuckbuddy, and just do a bunch of edating; go figure.View attachment 7067512
32 [T4R] North NJ Transmasc seeking Masc
Hello!
I'm a transmasc in North NJ living with my gf. I currently only have one partner and am looking to form a relationship with another masc person who's in the general area (NYC included).
If it matters, I'm 5ft and a lil chubby.
I exhude funny little guy energy. I love the whimsy of clowns, magic shows, juggling, puppetry, etc. I'm in the process of building my own puppet.
I also love playing TTRPGs, MTG, watching anime, cooking/baking, music (currently looping Midwest emo), long walks through the thrift store, and browsing used book shops.
I'm looking for someone who's nerdy in some capacity/enjoys similar things as I do (love of clowns not required), has a good sense of humor, and is just generally kind and patient. Would love someone to pebble silly videos and cute animals to throughout the day.
Ideally would like a Dom for a D/s relationship as well, but not required. If interested we can chat further.
Aside from a partner, I would also love to make local friends. My current friend circle is small and I would love to meet more people who are also nerdy and/or who like to meander shops with a little beverage.
They’re all in a state of arrested development. Clown pooner is well over thirty and what does she have to show for it? A puppet, repressed homosexuality and the vocabulary of a woke Valley girl, I guess.
Nah, "pebbling" is one of those faggy new slang words a la "nibling". It means sending people little things that made you think of them, like cute videos. Like a penguin bringing its mate a pebble.
Without powerleveling too hard, from what I've seen it's mostly the 30+ crowd into this sort of thing. Most people are aware of the dangerhairs, but there's also a weird mix of middle age/old lolbert dudes with money and extreme body mod addicts. Hard overlap with weird kink shit and faggotry, but you probably could have guessed that. Also a surprising(?) number of tattoo artists. Zoomers are by and large too awkward and atomized to want to share partners. Millennials are just oversocialized enough to agree to tangling themselves into such arrangements and contemptuous enough of tradition to try to justify cheating. The only successful groups I've seen are the aforementioned moneyed lolberts who treat these polycules as less "le heccin valid new age romance" and more as harems to be ruled with an iron fist. Despite what your average BP poster would say, there are absolutely women that get off to getting beaten by the little league equivalent of an Iron Age warlord because they find it exciting. A sign of mental illness? Yeah, but that's basically everyone who gets into polyamoury.
In my life I certainly haven't met any women into this sort of thing, and who actualizes it, who wasn't incurably nuts. So, yes.
One can only imagine how nuts this chick is at work.
She's good at her job but she doesn't have half the credentials she claims and has just been brute forcing her way through things because she's clever and is willing to work more than what she's paid. Meanwhile her grandiosity is getting her in trouble with admin. Just the other day she told me she was in an art show and she shows me her art and well...I didn't know what to say. It was bad but she was pretty impressed with herself.
She hits literally all the cluster B checkboxes. Good luck and hopefully she doesn't slander your workplace if you send her packing.
I've got my Grey Rock ready and I'm not afraid to use it!
