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- Feb 3, 2013
It certainly wasn't because of any hang-ups about divorce, considering both Bob 'n' Barb are divorcees.I think that is exactly right. Firstly, they come from a generation with defined male and female roles running a household. Where being married was the default option.
Also, why would they get divorced or separate? Both of them had reached the point where finding someone else was unlikely. They didn't have a lot of money between them so the additional costs would have been a burden. They had a son who would have been a lot of extra work for whichever one he lived with.
They seemed to find the best possible solution, given their limited alternatives. Remain living together, but stay out of each others way a lot of the time. Do occassional things like going out for lunch to stave off loneliness.
Which is a little strange, if you think about it. Both the Chandler parents' behaviors have been, to an extent, rooted in a twisted suburban paranoia ("What will the neighbors think?"), so that divorce - a social stigma during their formative years - was okay by them stands out.