Off-Topic Random Trans Thoughts, Musings, and Questions - For all your armchair psych and general sperging

[deermeat]

maybe I am in the minority who believe this, but man. I feel like trannies and their obsession with parties/clubs reflect their immaturity in a lot of ways. Much like how they obsess over aesthetics relating to teens. When we are younger, parties/clubs seem like the coolest thing ever. Being a drunk fuck, doing drugs, and overall being a mindless hedonist seems cool. But as you age, you realize how dumb all of that shit is. Yet with a lot of these people, it's like they never age. They are always posting about going to concerts and parties, acting like its the coolest thing ever and bragging about taking poppers and all that.

Theres nothing fun about a downtown neon dark lit club full of over 20+ loud ass people unless you plan on drinking a lot or doing drugs, and if you think thats fun idk what to tell you. Try fishing, maybe? Try having actual friends, maybe? Inviting like, 3 to 5 people together or something and playing Wii or the Switch while drinking a couple beers if you really want. Cook stuff together. Watch a movie together. Go hiking. Go explore a small town youve never been in.. Yaknow, theres a bunch of stuff.

Maybe since I grown up poor and lived in the hood for a while as an adult, maybe I am in the minority who sees this for what is is and thinks this behavior is lame as shit.
They act no different than people like KingCobra and his homeboys/homegirls, it's just a different aesthetic. If anything, its even more pathetic considering the average tranny came from a well off background yet fucked it up all up compared to your average trailer trash /hoodrat junkie.

Hedonism isn't cool. Huge ass parties where people are dressed like whores and you can't hear/see shit is lame. Doing drugs and drinking excessively to "have fun" is retarded. The only people act like this in their early 20s and look back on it later on as if they miss it are retards who fucked up later on in life by accidentally getting pregnant/getting someone pregnant during that time. They never grown from that immature mindset and don't appreciate the things they have in life, hence why a lot of these same people are obese and still struggling from the bad habits they cultivated in their early 20s.

When I grow older, I am not gonna be in my 30s like "wow I regret not going to the club and getting blackout drunk surrounded by a bunch of strangers who could've hurt me or have AIDs" or "Damn, if only I risked permament brain damage by doing poppers".

It's like when these people post shit like "There's still time" and try to tell people who are young that if they don't transition, they'll regret it once they are older. Oh yeah guys I'm totally gonna regret not adopting a hednoistic lifestyle where I obsess over how others percieve me and rely on a drug for my sense of happiness when I'm in my 30s. Because that's totally what mature responsible adults feel at that age.

 

[Paper Machete]

Maybe since I grown up poor and lived in the hood for a while as an adult, maybe I am in the minority who sees this for what is is and thinks this behavior is lame as shit.

There's a lot of immature, maladaptive behavior in the LGBTQ+2-5 community (and a lot of lolcows in general).

There's no real "missing out" to a lot of such behavior if you're well adjusted. And you can technically still do these things as an adult, it's just, as you said...not very appealing to the average person over the age of 25. A lot of people go through a go stupid go crazy phase and experience it for what it is, maybe even have a few memories while they're at it, but ultimately do away with childish things and realize it's not all that.

It's no coincidence that immaturity and the personality disorders of trans and their ilk go hand and hand. Ultimately a lot of personality disorders are just excessively overblown reactions to not being able to grow up and disorders of attachment. Their thinking literally is stunted in child like stages. Which is why it's so difficult for a lot of them to "get over it" because you're essentially dealing with a road block that isn't going to become unblocked and that level of immaturity is what you're basically dealing with into the foreseeable future.

 

[Super Mario Brothers]

If anything, its even more pathetic considering the average tranny came from a well off background yet fucked it up all up compared to your average trailer trash /hoodrat junkie.

This is probably understated but its part of what turned me off from TRAs. It's not just that they're likely to be wealthy, but they are the type to have to make themselves the center of attention and how they experienced the worst in life despite experiencing almost nothing, or inflict it onto themselves. Have you noticed how they have to make trans lowest on the totem pole, even more than blacks? It's almost as if mentioning class puts a wench in the theory that they experience the worst oppression. It's no wonder Contra became the face of champagne socialism.

As a side note I sort of realized there's more of a contrast between "aap" and "hsts" pooners. The former seems to be more numerous, more vocal about having to announce IM GAY IM GAY and will convince themselves that rats or goblins or whatever are totally masculine and fail. The latter seems more quiet, less likely to talk about their sexuality, if not confused about their sexuality, and sometimes will be better off presenting as masculine. I know less about the hsts ones, I'm still researching.

 

[deermeat]

i mentioned how trannies stay away from self improvement but I think its funny how they won't even try to appropriate the That Girl aesthetic.
Thank God though because that would be insufferable seeing a troon try to act like they got their shit together, as that is all it would be, an act.

It is disappointing finding out in another thread that these people are starting to invade spaces like Digital Minimalism, though at least its obvious to spot someone faking that type of mentality.
Its an oxymoron to be both a troon and a digital minimalist. But I think its hilarious how the pooner in question always talked about reading outside while also using a Kindle to do so and then taking a picture of the fact:


Then again Reddit is an insufferable hellhole, I wouldnt trust any community on there.


Imagine seeing this in public. Whats with trannies being obsessed with Arch Linux? Its a meme at this point. They ruined it.

 

[オプセック]

I just read a few spergings about men's fashion and all that rape by deception stuff.
Rape by deception is bullshit: You fuck a tranny, you're a fag, easy peasy.
As for that other stuff:
It seems that the concept of the men's man and the lady's man has been lost over the past 30 or so years.
Let met explain:
So, you like and fuck women, huh?
Yeah, then your are heterosexual®.
You can either ensnare girls with gibs and security and a good helping of domination to their submission - or - you can ensnare the fair sex by having smooth moves, a pretty face and the newest drip - basically mirroring what the women do themselves, which is why most of us call these guys fags, even when they don't swing that way.
That's it.

You want stuff up the butt? Not matter how angry and buff you are or how "real" that tranny looked (past tense, because "she" ded, obv.), you're gay. The faggiest looking mfers, like those mentioned azn pop singers, are often straight as an arrow, BECAUSE they reel in bishes on easy mode - they're often highly defensive homophobes too, because of the aforementioned witch hunt tactics us normal ones like to level against them.

 

[Ruined by the Rain]

maybe I am in the minority who believe this, but man. I feel like trannies and their obsession with parties/clubs reflect their immaturity in a lot of ways. Much like how they obsess over aesthetics relating to teens. When we are younger, parties/clubs seem like the coolest thing ever. Being a drunk fuck, doing drugs, and overall being a mindless hedonist seems cool. But as you age, you realize how dumb all of that shit is. Yet with a lot of these people, it's like they never age. They are always posting about going to concerts and parties, acting like its the coolest thing ever and bragging about taking poppers and all that.

Kind of true, same with the gay scene. You meet them and you come to realize they're the most immature people you ever met. I felt like more mature people who use would keep it to themselves and avoid getting caught in the first place.

Maybe it's also one of the reason there's so many groomers. I have to use all my brainpower to sustain a conversation with a teenager because we have nothing in common but if it's one of those trannies that never aged past their teenage years and still hang around tumblr they would probably be able to talk to each other on the same level. Kids think I'm lame but some of them probably see degens as super cool. Like in a "rebellious" way

 

[soup peddler]

Rape by deception is bullshit: You fuck a tranny, you're a fag, easy peasy.

I mostly agree that it's unlikely for a straight man to confuse a tranny for a woman, but like was mentioned, they often target very drunk, desperate men. I guess they also take advantage of society's double standard of "drunk men consent", unlike women. "Rape by deception" might be men going like "well, I actually like having sex while drunk and don't want to fuck it up with wokeism, so let's make a new term for male sexual predators violating men out of their minds"?

But yeah, that's the "secret" of HSTS fags who post in /r/mtf about fucking lots of guys. It works on falling-down drunk men, and it only works on falling-down drunk men. And then more troons see it, think "yes qween men can't tell the difference!!", and get their dicks cut off. Flies in honey trap.

 

[オプセック]

But yeah, that's the "secret" of HSTS fags who post in /r/mtf about fucking lots of guys. It works on falling-down drunk men, and it only works on falling-down drunk men. And then more troons see it, think "yes qween men can't tell the difference!!", and get their dicks cut off. Fly in honey trap.

I don't buy it, I knew enough guys who would load up before provoking fights in front of clubs, because they KNOW this is how your are let off easy by the cops and just thrown in drunk tank for the night. Don't trust men like that. I know you mean well and it's appreciated. But just don't, it's just a premeditated alibi.
They're just fags juiced up on liquid courage.
And if they really thought the dude's a chick, tough luck - they nutted, they had their fun - I don't see any harm in it, except if they got aids from it or some shit.
I mean, if the tranny really looked like a woman, it practically was one for the purpose of that encounter, it's not like they were talking kids and home making.
I fail to see the wrong-doing there. Somebody who got played like that, has to demonstrate the harm this "ruse" wrought him - I don't see anything - a victimless crime at best.

 

[bouquetnine]

The people who are pro trans never consider this perspective and that's really frustrating.

Almost all trannies are narcissists. They can't step out of their own shoes for even an instant to understand why anything they do might be disliked. Which is why enabling them is so damn annoying. If they get confident they won't get smacked around their delusions quickly get out of control.

they are the type to have to make themselves the center of attention and how they experienced the worst in life despite experiencing almost nothing, or inflict it onto themselves. Have you noticed how they have to make trans lowest on the totem pole, even more than blacks? It's almost as if mentioning class puts a wench in the theory that they experience the worst oppression.

The result of a decade of oppression olympics. Victimhood is currency. One reason why troons are so insufferable is they won't fucking shut up about how awful they have it because if they talk about anything positive they might lose their rank in competitive victimhood.

 

[オプセック]

Doing drugs and drinking excessively to "have fun" is retarded. The only people act like this in their early 20s and look back on it later on as if they miss it are retards who fucked up later on in life by accidentally getting pregnant/getting someone pregnant during that time.

Saying "I don't do xyz anymore, because I'm a true and honest ADULT NOW!" just means you never got good at it.

News flash: partying like ghetto or trailer trash, just makes you either ghetto or trailer trash - nothing to do with young or old.

And now riddle me this: who are the people you most often hear "partying past 25 is le cringe?" from?
That's right, fat, greasy, peaked in high school specimen. Don't let people meme you out of your fun, esp. not if you feel like you've missed out - like many here seem to have. Don't sabotage yourself, get fit, take dance classes, seek out proper events, in proper venues with proper music and have a blast.
It is, admittedly, easier said than done, I suppose, since I never had these issues...

But I do believe in my fellow dweeb and dweebette kiwis.

 

[EllenDrawsRapeOfHerHaters]

I disagree. There were things I grew out of. Clubs are targeted towards young adults who want to hook up. Bars are for sad old men. Overintoxication is only glorified by underage drinkers and college kids. It's not really a skill.

Saying "I don't do xyz anymore, because I'm a true and honest ADULT NOW!" just means you never got good at it.

News flash: partying like ghetto or trailer trash, just makes you either ghetto or trailer trash - nothing to do with young or old.

And now riddle me this: who are the people you most often hear "partying past 25 is le cringe?" from?
That's right, fat, greasy, peaked in high school specimen. Don't let people meme you out of your fun, esp. not if you feel like you've missed out - like many here seem to have. Don't sabotage yourself, get fit, take dance classes, seek out proper events, in proper venues with proper music and have a blast.
It is, admittedly, easier said than done, I suppose, since I never had these issues...

But I do believe in my fellow dweeb and dweebette kiwis.

 

[オプセック]

I disagree. There were things I grew out of. Clubs are targeted towards young adults who want to hook up. Bars are for sad old men. Overintoxication is only glorified by underage drinkers and college kids. It's not really a skill.

You missed my point, bars exclusively for people overintoxicating for entertainment were never cool and are trashy regardless of age bracket.
And if you never noticed that many people just danced and drank little, it says more about YOUR way of partying than anything else.
People always generalize their shit behavior to excuse themselves.
I am wary and long tired of people who always tow muh "we wuz young" line before anything else.
Good clubs have lots of different age coded events going - pertaining your valid point about dating, where age DOES matter.
But really, if you are fit and attractive 25 - 40 is all the same - it gets tricky on the lower end of that, but as we know "these" people self select out of the good stuff.

Partying IS a skill, which is what I was talking about. Keywords: Dance classes, Good music, etc

 

[Paper Machete]

I disagree. There were things I grew out of. Clubs are targeted towards young adults who want to hook up. Bars are for sad old men. Overintoxication is only glorified by underage drinkers and college kids. It's not really a skill.

There's also a difference between clubbing and going to events where drinks are available. There are a lot of get togethers and events that are fun and may involve some level of being under the influence. Those are fun to go to in moderation. But there is nothing mature or fun about being the person who routinely gets trashed around increasingly younger and younger cohorts. That makes you an alcoholic and a creeper.

 

[オプセック]

There's also a difference between clubbing and going to events where drinks are available. There are a lot of get togethers and events that are fun and may involve some level of being under the influence. Those are fun to go to in moderation. But there is nothing mature or fun about being the person who routinely gets trashed around increasingly younger and younger cohorts. That makes you an alcoholic and a creeper.

My point just was that getting trashed is always bullshit and the youth excuse for being trashy itself is a meme that has to be snuffed.
And not all young people are like that.

 

[Paper Machete]

My point just was that getting trashed is always bullshit and the youth excuse for being trashy itself is a meme that has to be snuffed.
And not all young people are like that.

I don't think we're exactly arguing different things here but you're misinterpreting what people are saying. No, not all young people go through the phase. But it's a phase for some people when they're young that doesn't really have anything to do with their background or character, thus why it's something they grow out of pretty quick after trying it out for a short while. That's the entire point of why it's usually a bad sign when someone is super invested into thinking it's "cool" to be able to "party hard" past their due date.

 

[オプセック]

I don't think we're exactly arguing different things here but you're misinterpreting what people are saying. No, not all young people go through the phase. But it's a phase for some people when they're young that doesn't really have anything to do with their background or character, thus why it's something they grow out of pretty quick after trying it out for a short while. That's the entire point of why it's usually a bad sign when someone is super invested into thinking it's "cool" to be able to "party hard" past their due date.

Fair enough, I've just seen this line of argument used in bad faith against all "partying" too many times online and offline.

 

[Stan]

Women don't need to perform femininity any more than a tiger needs to touch up its stripes. I'm tired of troons making this false equivalence between things some women do, like wear makeup or hose or sexy clothes, and make that the sine qua non of femininity. Real women can do none of this and they still have no problem being read as women, same as how you wouldn't mistake a tiger for a housecat.

 

[Izdaja Slika]

That’s retarded. Do you think the Y chromosome is the locus of moral behaviour? You know it’s a tiny bit of genetic information that exists to turn maleness on, right? And that the rest of our genome is shared?

I once read that humans share 50% of our genome with broccoli. But I was never able to believe it. I haven't made hundreds of millions of children sad.

Women don't need to perform femininity any more than a tiger needs to touch up its stripes. I'm tired of troons making this false equivalence between things some women do, like wear makeup or hose or sexy clothes, and make that the sine qua non of femininity. Real women can do none of this and they still have no problem being read as women, same as how you wouldn't mistake a tiger for a housecat.

Here's an easy test. If you come home from work and the first thing you do is take your bra off, you're probably a woman. If the first thing you do is put a bra on and get a boner, you're not.

 

[deermeat]

I am on my period, load and behold this is the second time Ive gotten severely sick because of it since being on your period lowers your immune system.
Thank God I didn't have work yesterday and feel better enough today to go to work. Shit came out of nowhere.

Whenever its that time of the month, I hate trannies more than usual and knowing they have ruined their life makes me a little bit happier. Womp, womp. This is what happens when you are an ungrateful little shit and bite the hand that fed you (God).

 

[Jacques1194]

I posted this on the main thread but wanted to post here as well. I know a lot of people are celebrating the pushback against transgenderism and I'm glad support has dropped. However, I fear that nothing will get done about the amount of teenagers and young people that are still into this shit because of the amount of online influence that trannies still have. I know people here will say it has to be bots and I agree that its very likely it is but regardless, the fact that this tweet from a 14 year old boy who thinks hes a girl got 152k likes with 2.3M views on it feels messed up. I refuse to believe this many kids are into this shit and are that online to be obsessed about this. Even if it turns out to be bots, a lot of easily influenced kids will convince themselves that 152,000 people agreeing with this tweet will only encourage them to troon out as well.