Off-Topic Random Trans Thoughts, Musings, and Questions - For all your armchair psych and general sperging

[missnaptime]

i used to be in the troon pipeline. awful abusive home situation, rebranded my whole identity, was taken advantage of by troons on social media. thought that a double mastectomy and a hystorectomy would solve every problem in my life. used they/them pronouns. got a twink haircut. it was bad enough being bi in an all girls' school in a very conservative town, but man, when i came out it really stepped its pussy up, and in a way, i'm glad it did.

it didn't heal my mental health issues, or my low self esteem. it worsened everything. i was in a cycle of constant depression and not feeling good enough, not feeling like myself enough. growing up i was always more masculine to other girls, because my favourite things were reading books, and hanging out with my dad. when you're autistic and can't make social connections, when you have someone who genuinely cares about you and can see past that, it really means the world.

recently, at my shul, a very good friend of mine who had a double mastectomy and had a long history of abuse and drug misuse opened up to me about how she's felt cheated out of her motherhood. she and her husband have been trying for a child for god knows how long. fertility issues, the whole shebang. you can never hate troons enough. what do i say to this woman? who's sobbing, mourning that she can never breastfeed her children? how testosterone has irrevocably fucked her body up? holding my hands and praising god that i got out of the pipeline before i destroyed my body like she did?

they're a fucking deranged cult. every single transgender should be fucking shot in the head for taking advantage of innocent, vulnerable people. i'm so happy i'm free of it. there's beauty in defining exactly what woman you want to be - and even if that looks a bit different for me than other women, its still just as valid an expression of womanhood.

this subreddit gave me a little hope recently, i hope it gives you all a little bit of a boost.

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[DenseDeerFather]

The suicide rate is one thing, but the main reason that this will all collapse is because trannyism is a state-mandated religion that demands access to children. Gone are the days of these people just being transvestities, whose demands amounted to little more than 'I want to dress like a woman and don't give a shit what anyone has to say about that'.

We're now firmly in the era of 'I'm an actual woman, if you disagree you lose your job', and 'Your son is now your daughter because she told me she's trans, if you dissent to that in any way the state will take her off you'.

If there's any sense left in the West, this shit wont see out the decade.

Don't forget trying to enforce changes to definitions of words.

No, it's no longer women. It's "AFAB". It's no longer man. It's "AMAB".

And women don't menstruate or give birth. "Birthing and menstruating bodies give birth"

This to me all feels rather dehumanizing and sexist, referring to women as "bodies". Trans women trying to prove they don't hate real women challenge impossible.

It's interesting looking at the troon community and how trans women specifically seem to dominate and be the most toxic, even hating on their trans men counterparts. Something something sexist men dominating supposed women's spaces. Even if it's a make-believe space.

this subreddit gave me a little hope recently, i hope it gives you all a little bit of a boost.

I like to look at truscum because at least the people over there won't dance around how much it fucking sucks being a tranny and they will call out the cult aspect too.

Then again, they are trannies and they did sperg out during the election. Yeah I'll stick with the detrans sub now.

 

[SnergenFlergen]

its still just as valid an expression of womanhood

Careful- you still sound like one of them.

This might just be a me problem, but I've seen the word 'valid' be used in conjunction with 'expression' and 'womanhood' on troon Subreddits so many times that it's basically become trannycoded.

 

[missnaptime]

Careful- you still sound like one of them.

This might just be a me problem, but I've seen the word 'valid' be used in conjunction with 'expression' and 'womanhood' on troon Subreddits so many times that it's basically become trannycoded.

i disagree, respectfully. i refuse to let troons change my lexicon or devalue my femininity and womanhood - which i define as being born as a biological female - in their deranged insistence that i must be one of them and 'it just makes sense'. etc etc "its transphobia if you don't agree." i refer to it as such because i am generally a very masculine woman, and i engage in typically masculine oriented things which i struggled with reconciling my identity with for a long time.

because of this i will forever shout from the rooftops:

 

[FATTESTCUNT 2.0]

I've been trying to find a video from a "Let Women Speak" event in the UK. I wonder if anyone can help me find it.

It was of 2 very agitated male TRAs in balaclavas screaming at the woman that was filming them and shouting stuff like "You're dinosaurs! You're extinct! You're dying out!". Based on their accents, they were from the north of England, maybe Sheffield or Manchester.

It was circulated on X last year, but I can't find it via searching and I don't have an X account, so I don't follow any of the people that shared it.

EDIT.....

I found it!

 

[DenseDeerFather]

i disagree, respectfully. i refuse to let troons change my lexicon or devalue my femininity and womanhood - which i define as being born as a biological female - in their deranged insistence that i must be one of them and 'it just makes sense'. etc etc "its transphobia if you don't agree." i refer to it as such because i am generally a very masculine woman, and i engage in typically masculine oriented things which i struggled with reconciling my identity with for a long time.

because of this i will forever shout from the rooftops:

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Agreed on all fronts.

A therapist once told me that "expressions of feminity and masculinity don't mean you're not any less of the gender you were born as. It's a spectrum of expression."

And note, she hated everything LGBT so she wasn't talking about troons. She was talking about how you can be born as a dude and call yourself a dude but you like dresses or whatever. That does not automatically make you any less of a man than the Chaddiest Chad that ever Chadded.

You're not a troon because you're not a walking stereotype and that's something I've spent a lot of time teaching myself when I had those crises.

 

[SnergenFlergen]

A therapist once told me that "expressions of feminity and masculinity don't mean you're not any less of the gender you were born as. It's a spectrum of expression."

I guess my issue is that ^ this ^ is a truism. Nobody denies it. Nobody worth paying attention to, at least.

The most masculine and physically imposing woman on the planet is and always will be more of a woman than every troon combined. We all intuitively know and understand this- it's only troons that go around throwing out phrases like 'my womanhood is valid' in order to compensate for the falsehood that is inherent in their identity. You don't need to claim validity when your validity is self-evident.

I don't disagree with you or missnaptime at all, I just think we shouldn't be using their jargon. By stating what doesn't need to be stated (especially when you do so with their lexicon), you give them ground.

 

[DenseDeerFather]

Ah, yeah that makes sense. I do push back at their AFAB/AMAB shit and whatever they can do to erase basic words from languages.

I will also say that trannies have absolutely ruined the word valid for me. I can't say it or type it without a sigh.

 

[missnaptime]

i mean yeah, its cringe, but unfortunately its apt in terms of 'valid' and 'womanhood'...

i can't wait until this is whole troonism thing is a distant, horrific memory that no longer plagues society.

 

[SnergenFlergen]

I will also say that trannies have absolutely ruined the word valid for me. I can't say it or type it without a sigh.

Bigly agree. I shit you not, I recently saw an interaction on (probably) Reddit in which a literal nymphomaniac who identified as asexual was described as 'valid'.

A nymphomaniac was considered to be a valid asexual.

That is the extent to which the word 'valid' has been stripped of its definition.

 

[TismFarmer]

I guess my issue is that ^ this ^ is a truism. Nobody denies it. At least nobody worth paying attention to.

The most masculine and physically imposing woman on the planet is and always will be more of a woman than every troon. We all intuitively know and understand this- it's only troons who go around throwing out phrases like 'my womanhood is valid' in order to compensate for the falsehood inherent in their identity. You don't need to claim validity when your validity is self-evident.

I don't disagree with you or missnaptime at all, I just think we shouldn't be using their jargon. By stating what doesn't need to be stated (especially when you do so with their lexicon), you give them ground.

I agree with how pozzed the word 'valid' has become, but we should not allow them to steal our words!
Theyre attempting to steal the word 'Woman' from us, and giving in to them in any way will only benefit them!
NO! Trannys are NOT valid women!
The word valid means something and so does the word woman!!

 

[SnergenFlergen]

i mean yeah, its cringe, but unfortunately its apt in terms of 'valid' and 'womanhood'...

I know, that's the fucked up thing- I myself am kowtowing to their appropriation of the word 'valid' by even calling you out on your usage of it. Nothing of what you said initially or subsequently is technically incorrect- it's just that the word 'valid' has been completely tainted by these freaks.

I agree with how pozzed the word 'valid' has become, but we should not allow them to steal our words!
Theyre attempting to steal the word 'Woman' from us, and giving in to them in any way will only benefit them!
NO! Trannys are NOT valid women!
The word valid means something and so does the word woman!!

Basically this.

 

[missnaptime]

I agree with how pozzed the word 'valid' has become, but we should not allow them to steal our words!
Theyre attempting to steal the word 'Woman' from us, and giving in to them in any way will only benefit them!
NO! Trannys are NOT valid women!
The word valid means something and so does the word woman!!

you worded my opinion a lot more eloquently than me. i hope both sides of your pillows are crisp, cool and soft.

 

[walking like giant cranes]

Tranny sniffs own fart and attempts to wax philosophical about the gender problem. Nearly stumbles into a coherent answer by complete accident, but lacks the self-awareness to stick the landing.

But seriously, how can some of these people actually venture down this intellectual rabbit hole and still fail to see the reality that’s staring them right in the face? Tranny ideology has never had the capacity to define what a “woman” actually is. For them, it’s nothing but circular reasoning and turtles all the way down. Maybe this one is dangerously close to an incredibly unfortunate realization about really bad life choices. I’m afraid no refunds will be offered for those years of hormone injections.

 

[Larry David's Opera Cape]

growing up i was always more masculine to other girls, because my favourite things were reading books, and hanging out with my dad.

Yeah you're totally not like those other sissy little girls. Who's even heard of a girl who likes reading books?!

 

[Jacques1194]

I doubt there'll be a singular answer to that question. It'll more likely be a whole smorgasbord of cope, doubling down, finger pointing, 41%-ing, memory-holing, mental gymnastics, backstabbing, hush money payouts and probably a couple of school shootings along the way.

What I can say with some certainty though is that the house of cards will come tumbling down at some point for one reason or another (hopefully sooner rather than later) and personal responsibility/accountability will be in short supply when it does.

The other factor to consider is that it wont just effect the trannies themselves- but also the surgeons, politicians, journalists, TRAs, teachers, TV executives, influencers and anyone else who marched under the tranny banner or generally had a hand in propagating this shit. My prediction is that the ones who will ultimately hold up their hands and accept that they were wrong/misled will constitute a vanishingly small minority. I also suspect that not a single person will spend a nanosecond behind bars for their complicity in the mutilation of an entire generation and this whole thing will be forgotten about (possibly through coercion/deleting fucking everything), leaving the whole sorry affair as just this curious little footnote in the history of humanity.

Where it belongs.

Honestly, I'm wondering when unions like the ACLU and other big organizations will drop this whole issue. The problem is that there's too much money to be made from trans people and I feel like a lot of dems are still stubborn to admit when they're wrong. Another issue imo is despite every law being passed to ban men from women's spaces, there's still a lot of trannies on the internet. At what point will these people disappear from the internet into their own echo chambers? Although I do wonder with how many TIMs are in tech that maybe they'll be less pro trans bot accounts if they get replaced by Indians or another group. EDIT: Also states like NY and California have some of the most pro trans laws to the point where you cant complain if you're a teenage girl facing a boy that thinks he's a girl. At some point I do also wonder when those states (if they ever) will reverse course on this.

 

[missnaptime]

Yeah you're totally not like those other sissy little girls. Who's even heard of a girl who likes reading books?!

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my point was less the 'i'm not like other girls for reading books' but talking more about the social ostracism from other women that comes with having masculine interests and being autistic - i.e. like welding, electronics, car maintenance, and carpentry - a lot of which i did with my father in my youth.

 

[Larry David's Opera Cape]

my point was less the 'i'm not like other girls for reading books' but talking more about the social ostracism from other women that comes with having masculine interests and being autistic - i.e. like welding, electronics, car maintenance, and carpentry - a lot of which i did with my father in my youth.

Why did you not mention those actual "masculine interests" instead of the usual pompous "NLOG because I have a brain and can read "?

 

[missnaptime]

Why did you not mention those actual "masculine interests" instead of the usual pompous "NLOG because I have a brain and can read "?

brevity, mainly.

 

[Larry David's Opera Cape]

brevity, mainly.

Well you still sound like an insufferable pooner, hope you can overcome.