Trainwreck Raven Sparks / Diana Bradley - Globe-trotting gothic grandma, married a child, abandoned her kid, serial pet-murderer

The chat PMs between her and CJ are on the other farms in an early thread, can't remember which one off the top of my head. Can't remember seeing anything between her and Emily though, just CJ. She also got a tattoo for him, apparently he promised he'd reciprocate with a matching one or some such shit, so she went ahead and got hers, and he never got one, of course. He and Emily were on Snog, Marry, Avoid as well, I'll attach a link to it.

I did a skim through Emilyboos recent videos as well and also didn't catch anything, so maybe it was someone else Raven was talking about. I just kind of assumed it must be Emily, because they have always had a back and forth online, and it's never been good. Though, to be fair, I wouldn't be surprised if there's someone else Raven has a petty feud with. As far as it goes with Emily, Raven has definitely copied her for a long time, even to the point of getting cheap junk that she doesn't even care about, and doesn't fit her "aesthetic", just because Emily has done it. It's also something that was well documented on the other farms.

Anyway, Snog, Marry, Avoid link is here :
It was in the 2nd Raven thread at the other farms from 2014. Sadly the pastebin linked to all the uploaded CJ stuff is dead. They still have some screenshots and some long bio blog post by Raven. One bio post makes it abundantly clear that being an unemployed, broke, welfare dependent loser who bums and leaches off of or moves in with anyone unfortunate enough to befriend her IRL has always been Raven’s way of life and why her current situation with Josh is totally normal to her.

Here’s a summary of the blog post during her CJ months. She paints the picture of being at the darkest point of her pain filled life and CJ finally being her soulmate light at the end of the tunnel. Of course she decided to write a small novel detailing her life of being a saintly victim abused by all the terrible people in her life.

She details being raped and abused by just about every one she’s ever known. She even had a rainbow UN gangbang rape where a white, black, Asian and Mexican rape her. Most of it sounds like utter victim olympics bullshit but I do believe she probably was sexually abused as a kid given her upbringing in an El Paso trailer park and how she behaves with men.

While she endlessly paints herself as a victim of everyone, her description of her life from 18-35 make it clear how much her son must have suffered from her endless selfish stupidity and constant dick chasing. Poor Dorian was bounced around from one hovel to another, dealing with mommy’s new boyfriends and heaps of abuse and neglect. When he was inconvenient his grandparents raised him but Raven obviously took him back as a pawn as needed.

Even as she approached 30 she only hung around with teenagers and college kids in the “scene” She can only relate to this age range because their existence can revolve around edgy dress up, bars and relationship drama. Actual adults with jobs, careers, responsibilities, goals, etc.. might as well be aliens to Raven.

After moving back to El Paso in her late twenties she was leeching off of college kids or rooming with people almost a decade younger and they all quickly learned to detest her. At one point she moves in with a new “boyfriend” only for him to immediately spilt and leave her in a house with three younger women (one of whom was his ex-girlfriend) where she was hated so much they had boxed up her stuff and put it on the front porch for more than a month before she left,

The only job she ever mentions in this blog detailing a decade plus of her life was a brief stint trying to be a stripper and being pissed her roommate was far more popular and made more money than she did. When she was finally thrown out of the house she begged some college student she barely knew to let her sleep on her sofa - and she did. Raven’s parents refused to let her into their home. This college student also ended up hating her after a few weeks. During this period she desperately searching online for any man to leech off of.

So she was totally out of options, sleeping on the sofa of a college student that wanted her gone and hated by everyone in the El Paso “goth scene” when she got some weird pervert she met online to pay for her move to NZ. Her parents allowed her to move home for a few weeks only because she was waiting for a passport to leave the country. Apparently her father was terminally ill at this time and she was sure to fight with him and make her final weeks with him miserable before moving to NZ.

About six or eight months after moving to NZ she ripped Dorian from the only real parent and place he ever knew to come be “on her side” in some bizarre marriage to a S&M goth porn addict. She felt alone and isolated so removed a small child from his home to be on “team Raven”. Apparently her third husband depended on his parents and govt benefits to support them. She was unable to alienate the third husband from his family, as she did with Josh and Logan, so after a few years started her absurd online relationship with CJ.

She moved into her own apartment in anticipation of CJ’s arrival and lived off of welfare benefits for her and Dorian. When CJ never showed up she started chasing after the teen friends of her poor son.

This is where you can find the hilarious wedding shit that kicks off this thread. Where she had to beg strangers to come be in and attend her wedding to a teen groom. (She even managed to hate or alienate the strangers in her wedding party in short order) Raven wanted a big wedding and party. The fact she had no friends, no money and everyone thought the marriage was a creepy pedo tinged dumpster fire, and only borderline legal, wasn’t going to stop her from having “her dream wedding day.”

Skimming back thru the thread I found an old prediction of mine that has certainly proved accurate.
This SC redneck saga is going to be glorious - and we can count on goth granny putting up with trailer park southern living for awhile b/c it will kill her to admit all the "haters" were right.

But it can also be added she has almost zero options besides Josh now so she’s really dug a permanent grave in SC.

It’s still hilarious a jobless leech like herself left a country with generous welfare benefits and healthcare for to move to SC and the joy of being evicted from trailers floating on human waste.
 
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So I was thinking about getting a timeline of events in this thread since it's over 250 pages long.

Can someone chronologically summarize the major events; maybe add a link to the appropriate thread pages? Thanks.
 
It's especially funny comeuppance when she's talking about the constant tooth pain she's in that she can't afford to treat in the USA here. She also gives a great rundown of all her physical insecurities in this one.
Yeah, a typical video where she criticizes herself so that she can pity grub for “no, you’re so pretty!!” and “I thought you were 24” comments. It’s SOP for her.

I always think these are trial balloons for e-begging, but the people who still watch her videos are as broke as her. Her scamming money to not go to her mom’s funeral and ghosting with the money burnt bridges with any ppl that may have been willing to give her pity bucks.

I find it funny that there is never one negative comment on her YT videos. She either eagerly scrubs anything that’s not patronizing or empty praise or no one actually gives a fuck. Given how much she talks about haters and how they spy and try to destroy her, it’s amusing her YT comments are devoid of them. You’d think she’d let some “haters” comments through to show how terribly she is harassed.

It looks a YT account that belongs to Josh commented on that video. I only halfway believe it might be Josh’s account, that Raven surely can use to comment with, because it only seems to follow a few FPS video games. I expect Josh spends most of his waking hours playing video, eating pills and being allergic to jobs.
 
The addition of the water bill detail to the septic tank saga is one of the dumbest lies she has ever told.

Generally speaking, if you have a septic system, you’re on well water. You don’t pay a water bill because you’re not hooked up to any sort of municipal water supply. Water and wastewater are handled by your town/city/municipal water district.

It’s technically possible to have both, but that’s sort of overkill, and very rarely done, for a lot of reasons.
 
Yeah, a typical video where she criticizes herself so that she can pity grub for “no, you’re so pretty!!” and “I thought you were 24” comments. It’s SOP for her.

I always think these are trial balloons for e-begging, but the people who still watch her videos are as broke as her. Her scamming money to not go to her mom’s funeral and ghosting with the money burnt bridges with any ppl that may have been willing to give her pity bucks.

I find it funny that there is never one negative comment on her YT videos. She either eagerly scrubs anything that’s not patronizing or empty praise or no one actually gives a fuck. Given how much she talks about haters and how they spy and try to destroy her, it’s amusing her YT comments are devoid of them. You’d think she’d let some “haters” comments through to show how terribly she is harassed.

It looks a YT account that belongs to Josh commented on that video. I only halfway believe it might be Josh’s account, that Raven surely can use to comment with, because it only seems to follow a few FPS video games. I expect Josh spends most of his waking hours playing video, eating pills and being allergic to jobs.
If it doesn't belong to Josh, which it likely does, it's possible she set up yet another fake account to look like him, that she can use to comment on things. Not like she doesnt have a long history of having multiple accounts for that.
 
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Holy shit I just realized we've been following this dumb brainless goffick tard for damn near 6 years now. Seems like we're the constant relationship she can depend on... lol anyway

I find it funny that there is never one negative comment on her YT videos. She either eagerly scrubs anything that’s not patronizing or empty praise or no one actually gives a fuck. Given how much she talks about haters and how they spy and try to destroy her, it’s amusing her YT comments are devoid of them. You’d think she’d let some “haters” comments through to show how terribly she is harassed.

In my opinion she sanitizes and washes her comments on anything she posts or does really eagerly because she's trying desperately to have it both ways, she wants any attention she can get, she definitely makes no real distinction between positive and negative attention and believes in the old stupidity that is the phrase "there is no such thing as bad publicity", but at the same time she knee jerk deletes all negative comments because she can't handle them. She's fragile and breaks like glass when you so much as look at her funny and her curious mix of hangups, mental illness, imagined slights and obvious traumas from actual past abuse cause her to crave the very thing she can't handle on an instinctual level.

Its one of the defining traits of lots of cows and definitely belongs in some lolcow behavior codex somewhere. Not sure what you'd call it but the ability to crave negative attention at a higher level of consciousness and yet be scalded by anything but pure unfiltered asskissing (sometimes in the same goddamn sentence or paragraph) is a major cow phenomenon.
 
Holy shit I just realized we've been following this dumb brainless goffick tard for damn near 6 years now. Seems like we're the constant relationship she can depend on... lol anyway
And like all true cows, she has undergone zero personal growth and change. Sure, she switched hemispheres and braindead husbands, but those are just attachments, just like her piercings. Its like she's a mr potato head toy and she can switch out faces, countries, shithole trailers, husbands, pets, but the potato remains the same.
 
Raven made an updated video stating she and Josh have moved from SC to Michigan. Raven states she won't mention where and states she feels safe just saying Michigan.

Key highlights:

-Starts with saying they have moved in with some very close friends of Raven’s, friends that are like a family to her, just like how she said with Josh’s family before she isolated him.

-Josh had lost his job before they moved and is still unemployed, Raven also lost her job stating her contract ended the week they got to MI. She also mentioned her car was “shut off” for non payment before they got there and said the payments were $300 every two weeks. Both are living off the people they moved in with.

-She mentions the people own a campground with a cabin where they can stay sometimes rent free according to her while the family does renovations to eventually rent it out. I wonder how soon the hospitality will wear off.

-Revolving door of animals continues. Raven mentions how people will question why she has one dog now instead of two, and they are totally different dogs from the last saga. She mentions she has Meesha a German shepherd, and they had to get rid of a little one Natasha because one of the dogs was bullying the other one and having behavior issues.

-She mentions how now that she is in MI she wants to be able to get out and do things instead of sitting at home doing nothing all day, stating how she is 45 and has been doing that for so many years and nothing to show for it.

-Long clips of their trip, and clips of the cabin they stayed at toward the end.
 
Raven made an updated video stating she and Josh have moved from SC to Michigan. Raven states she won't mention where and states she feels safe just saying Michigan.

Key highlights:

-Starts with saying they have moved in with some very close friends of Raven’s, friends that are like a family to her, just like how she said with Josh’s family before she isolated him.

-Josh had lost his job before they moved and is still unemployed, Raven also lost her job stating her contract ended the week they got to MI. She also mentioned her car was “shut off” for non payment before they got there and said the payments were $300 every two weeks. Both are living off the people they moved in with.

-She mentions the people own a campground with a cabin where they can stay sometimes rent free according to her while the family does renovations to eventually rent it out. I wonder how soon the hospitality will wear off.

-Revolving door of animals continues. Raven mentions how people will question why she has one dog now instead of two, and they are totally different dogs from the last saga. She mentions she has Meesha a German shepherd, and they had to get rid of a little one Natasha because one of the dogs was bullying the other one and having behavior issues.

-She mentions how now that she is in MI she wants to be able to get out and do things instead of sitting at home doing nothing all day, stating how she is 45 and has been doing that for so many years and nothing to show for it.

-Long clips of their trip, and clips of the cabin they stayed at toward the end.
I wonder how long until those friends realize that's she's a mooch and kick her out.
 
Raven made an updated video stating she and Josh have moved from SC to Michigan. Raven states she won't mention where and states she feels safe just saying Michigan.

Key highlights:

-Starts with saying they have moved in with some very close friends of Raven’s, friends that are like a family to her, just like how she said with Josh’s family before she isolated him.

-Josh had lost his job before they moved and is still unemployed, Raven also lost her job stating her contract ended the week they got to MI. She also mentioned her car was “shut off” for non payment before they got there and said the payments were $300 every two weeks. Both are living off the people they moved in with.

-She mentions the people own a campground with a cabin where they can stay sometimes rent free according to her while the family does renovations to eventually rent it out. I wonder how soon the hospitality will wear off.

-Revolving door of animals continues. Raven mentions how people will question why she has one dog now instead of two, and they are totally different dogs from the last saga. She mentions she has Meesha a German shepherd, and they had to get rid of a little one Natasha because one of the dogs was bullying the other one and having behavior issues.

-She mentions how now that she is in MI she wants to be able to get out and do things instead of sitting at home doing nothing all day, stating how she is 45 and has been doing that for so many years and nothing to show for it.

-Long clips of their trip, and clips of the cabin they stayed at toward the end.
Brilliant. I’m going to watch it now.

I wonder how long until those friends realize that's she's a mooch and kick her out.
Well if you recall the last update was about moving into a big house with one of Josh’s cousins in the woods, and a bunch of cool people and it was going to great. So that scheme seemed to last less than 45 days if that.

Strangers she met online in MI have already realized what a terrible mistake they have made. I’m excited to see where they end up next!

Here is the video for anyone interested. Posted about a month ago:

Raven has ended up exactly where everyone predicted the couch boy saga would end. Totally broke in a rental truck with all the crap they own desperate driving a thousand mile to mooch off strangers she's hustled online. Raven has now been forced to hustle women for shelter, instead of thirsty men, since she's got Josh in tow.

She really did find some idiot online who she quickly christened her best friend, no her true sister, who has some old summer vacation cabins and is letting her and Josh squat in one of the decrepit ones they are trying to fix up for summer rentals. It's on Lake Michigan, probably somewhere in the vicinity of Muskegon.

The video starts with your average BPD narc speech about how much they appreciate being allowed to live there and these are the FIRST people ever who have ever treated Raven like REAL family and it's so refreshing. Seriously, she has found her true sister and she's just trying to adjust to what real love and acceptance feels like for the first time in her life.

(Raven is applying the thick BPD guilt layers very heavily in the first three minutes of this video. So if this sister kicks out these two bums she will shatter the first REAL FAMILY Raven has ever known in her life. She needs to remember, it wouldn't be just kicking two unemployed bums out of a cabin, it would be shattering the only acceptance and familial love Raven has every experienced in her 45 years! No one could be that cruel!)

Raven and Josh have been jobless for quite a while, to no one's shock. Raven told the people in MI she had a job but wouldn't you know it, the job was lost/contract canceled the first week she arrived in MI! What an incredible bad luck. (i.e. Raven knew damn well she had no job/income before moving to MI but lied so the woman wouldn't rescind the invite. Now she has two broke jobless bums living in one of her family's vacation cabins but Raven is pretty much her soul sister so it's cool.)

It sounds like the move to Josh's cousins cool big house near the woods never happened because in the video she states they are moving because the last utility (electric) is due to be turned off for non-payment at 5 pm that day which is why they are finally getting the fuck out.

The most hilarious part is after Raven describes this terrible day of trying to get all their stuff loaded up and then getting on the road to drive 17 hours you realize she's wearing full face goth granny make-up, a stupid wig and wearing a sequiened red gown. Never change priorities Raven. This is her get up for 17 hours on the road. It's an absolute perfect example of why Raven's entire life is such a absurd trash fire. They are to broke to even get a hotel room so they are sleeping in the truck on the drive up.

It's absolutely amazing this is where her life is at age 45.

Interesting to note that this weekend is the official start of the summer rental season. The cabins were pretty shabby in the video from two months ago, but if they did manage to get them gussied up then Raven and Josh won't have a place to live for most of the summer. They will be camping somewhere I guess? The irony is they let them move into a cabin that needed fixing up, but the best thing for Raven would to be ensure the cabin remained nasty so that it couldn't be rented out. I'll be curious if she's having to live in a tent in MI this summer. They will have to be groveling slaves to whoever owns that cabin otherwise the next update will probably be some homeless shelter in Grand Rapids.
 
I'm glad I stopped by to see what the old girl is up to these days. She really did have it made back in New Zealand. She had her child bride to work for her and keep her in nice-enough flats with plenty of running water and flushable toilets. She was a citizen and had access to the sorts of governmental programs and safety nets that most Americans can only dream of and she gave it all up because...

I never understood why she was so desperate to come back to the USA, and why she persisted when all of Josh's lies were revealed. She knew before she stepped on the plane that he had lied about owning his home and about who all lived in the house. His job history was shaky, he sounded as dumb as he looked, and one would expect a predatory lizard like Raven would have refused to trade down so radically. She had Logan in the palm of her hand, completely controllable, able and willing to work, wearing goffick clothes and never asking her to lift a finger. She often complained about the lack of Taco Bell in NZ. Could it have been that? She traded an arguably better looking, harder working Logan for Josh, who's one chromosome short of being complete human, because America has better fast food?

I tend to stay out of Raven's threads because her history with animals makes me beyond MATI, but seeing how desperate she is now, how bottom of the fucking barrel she is, makes me feel like maybe there is a bit of justice in the world.
 
Here is the video for anyone interested. Posted about a month ago:

Raven has ended up exactly where everyone predicted the couch boy saga would end. Totally broke in a rental truck with all the crap they own desperate driving a thousand mile to mooch off strangers she's hustled online. Raven has now been forced to hustle women for shelter, instead of thirsty men, since she's got Josh in tow.

She really did find some idiot online who she quickly christened her best friend, no her true sister, who has some old summer vacation cabins and is letting her and Josh squat in one of the decrepit ones they are trying to fix up for summer rentals. It's on Lake Michigan, probably somewhere in the vicinity of Muskegon.

The video starts with your average BPD narc speech about how much they appreciate being allowed to live there and these are the FIRST people ever who have ever treated Raven like REAL family and it's so refreshing. Seriously, she has found her true sister and she's just trying to adjust to what real love and acceptance feels like for the first time in her life.

(Raven is applying the thick BPD guilt layers very heavily in the first three minutes of this video. So if this sister kicks out these two bums she will shatter the first REAL FAMILY Raven has ever known in her life. She needs to remember, it wouldn't be just kicking two unemployed bums out of a cabin, it would be shattering the only acceptance and familial love Raven has every experienced in her 45 years! No one could be that cruel!)

Raven and Josh have been jobless for quite a while, to no one's shock. Raven told the people in MI she had a job but wouldn't you know it, the job was lost/contract canceled the first week she arrived in MI! What an incredible bad luck. (i.e. Raven knew damn well she had no job/income before moving to MI but lied so the woman wouldn't rescind the invite. Now she has two broke jobless bums living in one of her family's vacation cabins but Raven is pretty much her soul sister so it's cool.)

It sounds like the move to Josh's cousins cool big house near the woods never happened because in the video she states they are moving because the last utility (electric) is due to be turned off for non-payment at 5 pm that day which is why they are finally getting the fuck out.

The most hilarious part is after Raven describes this terrible day of trying to get all their stuff loaded up and then getting on the road to drive 17 hours you realize she's wearing full face goth granny make-up, a stupid wig and wearing a sequiened red gown. Never change priorities Raven. This is her get up for 17 hours on the road. It's an absolute perfect example of why Raven's entire life is such a absurd trash fire. They are to broke to even get a hotel room so they are sleeping in the truck on the drive up.

It's absolutely amazing this is where her life is at age 45.

Interesting to note that this weekend is the official start of the summer rental season. The cabins were pretty shabby in the video from two months ago, but if they did manage to get them gussied up then Raven and Josh won't have a place to live for most of the summer. They will be camping somewhere I guess? The irony is they let them move into a cabin that needed fixing up, but the best thing for Raven would to be ensure the cabin remained nasty so that it couldn't be rented out. I'll be curious if she's having to live in a tent in MI this summer. They will have to be groveling slaves to whoever owns that cabin otherwise the next update will probably be some homeless shelter in Grand Rapids.
I don't recall if she mentioned dealing with the hoard that was more than a hoard. But I'm guessing they left a load of crap at the trailer for the landlord to deal with.

My personal cow from the same city as Raven did this exact same thing. She slowly accumulated cheap Chinese and Walmart crap at each place she lived in. Whenever she got into a whirlwind romance with a new host (often while still living with a current boyfriend) she would move in with the new host and leave all her shit. There was one bedbugs saga and she said they were so hard to get rid of she basically had to leave all her shit when she moved and didn't tell the landlord about the bugs. The latest saga when she moved in with her latest 20 years younger host was when she left rooms full of shit and a broken down car on the lawn for the landlord to deal with. I'm not sure if Raven and Josh had another car besides the truck but they probably left a broken down car too.
 
Damn, 45 and she still lives like a vagabond. Diana's a hop, skip, and a step away from plunking down into homelessness. She's never set down roots, instead preferring to go wherever her grift takes her. She has no familial support. She has burned every fucking bridge and has to rely on the "poor widdle me UwU" victim act to live in a sketchy, dirty cabin in Michigan. She's wasted her 20s and 30s whoring around and attaching herself to shitty men instead of learning to be independent and to care for her son. Now she's approaching middle age at lightspeed. At forty five, she could have had the mortgage payment on a house finished. At forty five, she could have secured some managerial position at a fastfood joint. She's been grifting almost all her life, never thinking that it's her fault. And she's desperate and stupid enough to think that Michigan is the fresh start she needs. She's thought the same with New Zealand, with South Carolina to Florida, and always with another new man.

And to think, Raven was dumb enough to throw her lot in with a smooth brained junkie. Even if she hated her ex, she could divorced Logan. She still could have had a relationship with her son. She still would have been a citizen living a comfortable life in a much nicer country, suckling off the welfare teat if she just buckled the fuck down and not let her narc tendencies ruin her life.

Karma's delicious, my dudes.
 
She could have had it better starting out over here with Josh if she hadn't alienated his family immediately upon arrival, then hammered home the estrangement every chance she got. I'm sure this new " sister " will end up the way they all do. By Christmas we shall have a vitriolic video that will start out " I wasn't going to make this but..." and we will hear all about how this horrible person was never genuine, just wanted them for free labor, a d was on the gossip forums all along!
 
I don't recall if she mentioned dealing with the hoard that was more than a hoard. But I'm guessing they left a load of crap at the trailer for the landlord to deal with.

My personal cow from the same city as Raven did this exact same thing. She slowly accumulated cheap Chinese and Walmart crap at each place she lived in. Whenever she got into a whirlwind romance with a new host (often while still living with a current boyfriend) she would move in with the new host and leave all her shit. There was one bedbugs saga and she said they were so hard to get rid of she basically had to leave all her shit when she moved and didn't tell the landlord about the bugs. The latest saga when she moved in with her latest 20 years younger host was when she left rooms full of shit and a broken down car on the lawn for the landlord to deal with. I'm not sure if Raven and Josh had another car besides the truck but they probably left a broken down car too.
While I’m sure some nasty crap was left in swamp trailer, they rented a u-haul box truck to get to Michigan because she did take a fuckload of pointless crap with her. She mentions it’s an issue in the video, if she’s just supposed to be temporarily staying in a cabin that will be rented during the summer having a bunch crap in tow poses a problem.

Raven has retarded priorities. She had all her cheap gothic tat and Halloween decorations shipped to SC from fucking New Zealand. I was gobsmacked she did that. The girl is compulsive hoarder so she took as much useless junk to MI as she could. (I’d bet some worthless RTO furniture too). This is the woman who prepared for a 17 hour drive in a box truck by putting on gothic make-up and a red sequined gown ffs.

Leaving all that garbage in her sewer trailer would have been the smart thing to do, so ofc she brought it along with her to make squatting with a stranger even more inconvenient.

I’d bet if she gets kicked out of the cabin and leaves all her crap for the stranger to deal with will accuse the stranger of stealing her precious stuff and that was her evil plot to obtain Raven’s precious gothic hoard.
 
They’re in for a shock when they are confronted with how fucking cold it gets in Michigan. I’m guessing neither of them have a scrap of suitable clothing. No car, and they look to be a ways out from anywhere there might be jobs. A row of ramshackle hunters cabins must look like paradise compared to a trailer afloat on sewage, but if they are still there next Autumn shit’s going to get grim.
 
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