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Wait what? Why would your parole officer care if you're on porn sites? I've heard of nonces not having access to computers but never specific websites/material.
Given the subreddit is for sex offenders and that the internet is heavily required for a lot of things these days, I would not be too surprised if some sex offenders have paroles that permit use of comptuers/the internet, but stipulate "no porn".
 
Wait what? Why would your parole officer care if you're on porn sites? I've heard of nonces not having access to computers but never specific websites/material.
It's really common. In fact, a blanket prohibition on social media for all offenders has been ruled unconstitutional (Packingham v. North Carolina). Such restrictions have to pass strict scrutiny, i.e. they have to be narrowly tailored to the compelling government interest the restriction serves. This is so for any restriction of First Amendment rights.

Some offenses are so broad as to warrant an absolute prohibition, but in general, they have to tailor it to the crime they are trying to prevent.

So just as probation or parole terms often involve restrictions on alcohol or other drugs, if someone's crime involved pornography, it can still be entirely legal to restrict them from accessing any porn at all, or depending on the nature of the crime, limit it only to necessary activities, and impose monitoring to enforce these restrictions.
 
It's really common. In fact, a blanket prohibition on social media for all offenders has been ruled unconstitutional (Packingham v. North Carolina). Such restrictions have to pass strict scrutiny, i.e. they have to be narrowly tailored to the compelling government interest the restriction serves. This is so for any restriction of First Amendment rights.

Some offenses are so broad as to warrant an absolute prohibition, but in general, they have to tailor it to the crime they are trying to prevent.

So just as probation or parole terms often involve restrictions on alcohol or other drugs, if someone's crime involved pornography, it can still be entirely legal to restrict them from accessing any porn at all, or depending on the nature of the crime, limit it only to necessary activities, and impose monitoring to enforce these restrictions.
Would that also fall into the "no association with other criminals"? I assume a convicted offender associating with other known offenders isn't allowed, but would that apply to online or just irl? Or is the "It's a support group, bro" a cope that let's them trade their paraphernalia.
 
Didn't read but might interest some here

The Moral Foundations Reddit Corpus: https://arxiv.org/pdf/2208.05545.pdf

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Every once and a while I see a post on Reddit that makes me wonder how much time some people have on their hands. This one happens to be pinned to the top of a 3.3 million member subreddit. The powermod of r/entertainment (and 40 other subs) created a post clarifying their "No racism/hate speech" rule into a 1400 word essay.

A sample of banned discussion...
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TL:biggrin:R is that this post covers a whole laundry list of examples of what is banned. Some of the points (image above) are really trying to push a narrative. I've attached the post in a spoiler below incase the link happens to disappear.

It's pretty clear that "No mean or harassing comments" is a vague rule that can easily vary from person to person. So this post is here to clarify what we mean by that. The following will be incorporated into a wiki page that is linked in Rule 5 for easy reference.
For the purpose of this community, Bigotry is defined as "Intolerance and/or bias towards a person or group of people, because they possess certain demographic characteristics or belong to a certain population group". This is not the same as a critique against an opinion a person expresses, or against the actions a person chooses to take, or against an idea or ideology. Bigotry can be aimed at people who share an inherent trait (such as being female/gay/elderly/etc.), or it can be aimed at people who share an ideology (such as Muslims/Christians/Republicans/etc.)
In this submission, we affirm that we stand with BLM, LGBTQ+, and other routinely disparaged groups. Therefore, after consulting with multiple organizations who are active and knowledgeable on these topics, we are further formalizing and clarifying Rule 5.
The purpose of this post is to provide common examples of bigotry upon which we, as r/entertainment moderators, will take action. Please keep in mind that we will not be debating these topics individually, but you are more than welcome to head to r/socialjustice101 to either ask in good faith about these topics, or, if you are already familiar with them, to educate others. This list is non-exhaustive, may be updated frequently, and is applicable to moderator discretion
Racism:
  • against African Americans or black people in general:
  • black crime statistics, "black on black violence"
  • any variation on "despite being 13% of the population, black people commit 50% of the violent crime" <- this is literally a copypasta/meme created by the white supremacist website, Stormfront. Variations include: "13 do 50, 13/50, the 13%, DESPITE" (http://redd.it/s8jns2)
  • victim blaming especially after rape or death (not exclusive to racism) (examples: "[x person] should have just cooperated with the police", "she shouldn't have worn that", "well they committed a crime in the past")
  • referring to black people as animals, specifically apes/monkeys
  • "what if you said this about black people instead of white people!" or trying to switch races (this is absolutely an apples-to-oranges comparison. Life isn't a chessboard that you can simply rotate the board and have gameplay be effectively the same)
  • "all lives matter"
  • dindu nuffin or variations, thugs, "he was a good boy", "he was going to college", joggers, naggers, "people who annoy you"
  • WE WUZ KANGZ
  • just posting the letter "N" to start an askouija style attempt to create a slur
  • "affirmative action is racist against white people"
  • "black people only get into college due to affirmative action"
  • "diversity hires"
  • "racism (systemic or otherwise) doesn't exist"
  • "upvoted because black"
  • 3/5 jokes
  • IQ stats (more affected by general health, nutrition, parents' education level etc than race)
  • Bix Nood
  • "never relax"
  • black lives splatter/Burn Loot Murder
  • advocating running over protesters (this is also advocating violence, a TOS violation)
  • "BLM is a terrorist organization"
  • sarcastically saying "BLM"
  • stupid comments about "culture"
  • arguing that white people should be allowed to use the N word
  • antisemitism
  • global bankers, bankers
  • oy vey, goyim, the goyim know
  • hollywood references
  • 3 parentheses, "echoes"
  • that comic with the guy rubbing his hands together ("happy merchant")
  • holocaust denialism
  • "The Jew cries out in pain as he strikes you"
  • "people are reading" some particular supremacist book
  • in general, making assumptions about specific people based on racist views about the group or mocking something disparaging about the group as a whole:
  • Indian people: "must have been an arranged marriage", "designated shitting streets", "Indian rape culture", "superpower by 2020"
  • Muslim person in the picture: "terrorist", "religion of peace", "islam is right about women", "rag head, towel head"
  • Native American/Indigenous person: "alcoholic", "smallpox blankets"
  • Asian people: "Koreans eat dogs/cats", "china-virus"/"wuhan flu"/"kung flu", "slanty eyes"
Transphobia
  • "there are only two genders"
  • "I identify as an attack helicopter" (or anything else patently absurd)
  • suggesting Michelle Obama is a man
  • intentionally misgendering a trans person
  • referring to being trans as a "mental illness"
  • suicide statistics/"40%"
  • "transwomen aren't women"/"transmen aren't men"
  • use of "tranny"/"trap"
  • decrying children having reassignment surgery (this is already illegal in most countries)
  • "did you just assume my gender?!"
  • emphasizing regret after transitioning
  • use of "biological male" or "biological female". The term is cis male or cis female.
  • anything about transitioning to become better at sports, or "men have a biological advantage"
  • "troon", "mental illness", "groomer", "indoctrinating children", "you'll never be a real woman"
  • intentionally deadnaming a trans person, which means using their old name over their new one
Sexism
  • "women belong in the kitchen"
  • "the gender pay gap is a myth"
  • "equal rights and equal lefts"
  • cunts/sluts/whores/slut-shaming
  • "upvoted because boobs"
  • posting that comic which says women have to include themselves in their photos
  • "don't be such a girl"
  • "should have kept her/your legs shut" on the topic of abortion, financial issues, or other similar issues
  • abortion: "baby killer", "abortion is murder" or conflating abortion with actual murder, "slut"/slut shaming
  • infantilization: e.g. referring to a woman/women as "girl(s)", or other intentionally demeaning and condescending terms
Homophobia
  • equating pedophilia to homosexuality
  • f-word/queer/pillow-biter/etc
  • "bundle of sticks" (Almost no one on reddit is an etymologist. They're only using this phrase because it's the same origin as the f-word)
  • puking emoji with no other context than a gay wedding or pride parade etc
  • "upvoted because gay"
  • "being gay is a sin"/"see you in hell"
  • "fake and gay" and otherwise using "gay" as a pejorative or negative
  • "groomer", "indoctrinating children", "lifestyle", "sin"
Ableism Based Bigotry
  • "you're only good for stump porn"
  • retarded/aspie/sperg/autistic
General Incivility
  • this is just basically name-calling or personal attacks aimed at a specific user. Examples: "you idiot", "you moron", "you dumbass", "shut the fuck up", "suck my dick"

This list is non-exhaustive, may be updated frequently, and is applicable to moderator discretion.
Many users have argued that facts cannot be racist, which is true. However, much of what is purported to be factual is actually twisted by inherent racism. For example, the assertion that black people commit more violent crime than white people is false: In fact, black people are arrested/convicted for violent crime more often than white people. The statistic does not represent a fact-based commentary on a racial proclivity; it represents a way in which systemic racism has unfairly maligned a historically marginalized portion of the population.
Furthermore, even objective facts can be presented in a manner that promotes (or is promoted by) a racist agenda. It may be factual to state that a given entertainer is Jewish, for instance, but if that point is being raised as a means of insinuating something anti-Semitic, it is nonetheless an example of bigotry. Statements of this sort are referred to as "dog-whistles;" as coded phrases that are ostensibly based in fact, but which are being presented with bad-faith intentions.
Dog-whistles, implied bigotry, and memetic phrases with bigoted subtexts are all forbidden in r/entertainment. Please note that there's a different between attacking a disparaged group who cannot change how they were born, and attacking memberships of groups (e.g. saying "ACAB" is not bigotry. Cops can quit, black people can't stop being black).
Civil criticism of religion, governments, and groups/organizations are fully permitted. Veiled attacks that are instead meant to target and attack a nation/race of people that practice these faiths, is forbidden.
Bigotry cannot be excused by saying "it is just a joke," nor by saying "but I was so polite".
If you don't understand some of the reasons behind these additions, that's ok. Many people are at different points on their path to education, and everyone should treat it as a process vice a destination. We encourage users to head over to r/socialjustice101 to either ask about specific points or to explain them to other users if you do understand. We won't be debating these here or in modmail as that's not a debate forum.
Thank you for reading
 
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Did anybody else catch this right here? It's hard to follow the convo in some places cuz I'm on mobile but are they talking about Merari? Does someone else know his name?

Also, sorry for terrible cropping. My editing program sucks.
I'm 99% sure Merari01's real name is Joost Eggelaar.
I was looking through Dumbsford's twitter. Dumbsford was an alcoholic reddit powerjanny who Bardfinn and drewiepoodle convinced to troon out, most likely leading to his early death in 2019.
https://twitter.com/Dumbsford/status/1023432722994417665
The disturbing tweet above was liked by someone called J E Eggelaar. https://twitter.com/JEEggelaar (archive)
J E Eggelaar is located in the Netherlands and has an interest in X-Men, comics, and Tori Amos like Merari. He fanboys over Contrapoints in his tweets. Compare the tweets to Merari's official twitter account https://twitter.com/Merari00001 (archive)

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The guy in the framed photo is Dumbsford

On Facebook there's a user called Joost Eggelaar who uses the same muppet profile pic as Merari. https://www.facebook.com/joost.eggelaar (can't get archive to work)
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https://instagram.com/eggelaar
Empty Youtube channel https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCLntuqv5CSaENBGLYlWm-aw (archive)
https://www.trustpilot.com/users/568e53c80000ff0001fa1e1a (archive)
Google reviews (archive) Most of his Google reviews are in Eindhoven, so that's likely the city he lives in.
 
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I saw this absolute nonsense post and almost scrolled past it, but thankfully checked the comments. This one's a rollercoaster ride.
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This poor fool is in a two year long abusive long distance relationship (but never met up in real life, naturally,) with a narcissistic tranny that keeps threatening to kill herself and faking health scares, great. Note that this is a trans-identified female (FtM) but the OP uses female pronouns because she hasn't transitioned.

Regardless, what was interesting to me was that the commentors over on /r/longdistance recognized who this person is, implying they have a history. So, it was off to his profile to mine for some gold. There is a lot so I'm just going to summarize one of his posts (of which there are over 50 about this) and the comments.
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Some fun stuff from the other posts he's made: He has ADHD and anger issues, really hates his dad for trying to get him to break up with this crazy bitch and date someone he's met in real life, he once screamed at his dad over this, his girlfriend faked a pregnancy/miscarriage and her own death (can't find the original posts for some of these but commentors frequently mention it,) he loves to TYPE IN ALL CAPS ALL OF A SUDDEN AND SAY FUCK FUCK FUCK BECAUSE HE'S SO ANGRY, and he also writes really shitty erotic fiction.

Highly recommend digging through this guy's profile if you want to see some absolute lunacy.
 
I was thinking about why all these dolts hate children so much. My best guess is that they resent the positive attention so much of society gives to kids. It makes them jealous that they no longer get to run downstairs to dozens and dozen of Christmas gifts. They're jealous that they aren't given everything they need/want with ease.

Basically, they're manchildren who envy the lives of real children.

I'm 99% sure Merari01's real name is Joost Eggelaar.
I was looking through Dumbsford's twitter. Dumbsford was an alcoholic reddit powerjanny who Bardfinn and drewiepoodle convinced to troon out, most likely leading to his early death in 2019.
https://twitter.com/Dumbsford/status/1023432722994417665
The disturbing tweet above was liked by someone called J E Eggelaar. https://twitter.com/JEEggelaar (archive)
J E Eggelaar is located in the Netherlands and has an interest in X-Men, comics, and Tori Amos like Merari. He fanboys over Contrapoints in his tweets. Compare the tweets to Merari's official twitter account https://twitter.com/Merari00001 (archive)

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On Facebook there's a user called Joost Eggelaar who uses the same muppet profile pic as Merari. https://www.facebook.com/joost.eggelaar (can't get archive to work)
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https://instagram.com/eggelaar
Empty Youtube channel https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCLntuqv5CSaENBGLYlWm-aw (archive)
https://www.trustpilot.com/users/568e53c80000ff0001fa1e1a (archive)
Google reviews (archive) Most of his Google reviews are in Eindhoven, so that's likely the city he lives in.
If someone took the time, I bet one of his relatives has pictures that he's tagged in but which aren't visible from his page. Check people with the same last name. And maybe their spouses.
 
Lysistrata was also written by a guy who hated women's lib and thought they were retarded. It's satire. They should be reading The Assemblywomen in school, not Lysistrata.
The assemblywomen was writen as critique of the then government to demonstrate how all the city officials were castrated effeminite faggots to the point where a bunch of women with fake beards could convincigly pass for them.
This is what gets me. He even posts security camera photos of neighbors barely clothed climbing into his building to rip out copper wire, and somehow doesn't make the connection. This demographic has blinders on and will never admit to what their circumstances show about the world.

The fact that he bought more real estate there after being burned is baffling to me.
Wait, I read the whole comment but I must have missed something, he bought MORE real estate after the 80 robberies? What did he buy and why?

That actually makes him go from pittiable to laughable.
 
Wait, I read the whole comment but I must have missed something, he bought MORE real estate after the 80 robberies? What did he buy and why?

That actually makes him go from pittiable to laughable.
He says he bought more buildings/land at a tax auction for 130k even after knowing it was a shit place. At least that's my reading of it.
 
You can metion Bridget is a trans, but you cannot mention that the background is he's being groomed.

Same insidious facist lies as always.
I know nothing about guilty gear other than it has weird matchmaking that the trans character is only trans in the bad ending, can you elaborate a bit on the good/bad/grooming thing?
 
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