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What kind of psycho fucks 100 different people!? What kind of psycho fucks 100 different people in the course of 4 years!? What kind of psycho fucks 100 different people a year!!!???
What he said. A major one.some sort of dysfunction.
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That was kind of my point, though. Casual sex seems like the same dinner every night to me. You go to a party, get drunk, suck some guy off and he fucks you from behind or something. If you have random sex with a different guy 3 times a week, I don't really think there's any room for sexual exploration, trying out new things, etc. Like, they never fuck a guy, it feels good and then want to fuck him again in different positions or something?As for multiple partners being pleasurable, well... what's better, the same dinner every night, or different meals every day? I'm not advocating for casual sex, I've been happily married for a very long time, but it's pretty easy to see the allure.
That too, I mean there are probably legions of horny men desperate to fuck, but I imagine those women have some standards and won't fuck any random creep. 3 different men every week just blows my mind.First, just because someone said something on reddit does not make it true. They could be showing off, or anything as a reason to simply lie/troll.
I would also question the sheer availability of that many men. Sure 50 could maybe work, but when you are over 100 in a handful of years, how are they meeting that many different men on such a regular basis.
What kind of psycho keeps a spreadsheet with names of all their lays? And then brags about it on Reddit? This reads like some frat dudebros bragging about how many chicks they scored. I guess women and men are not that different after all.What kind of psycho fucks 100 different people!? What kind of psycho fucks 100 different people in the course of 4 years!? What kind of psycho fucks 100 different people a year!!!???
I think it's a mixture in between and that depends on what subreddits you go to. r/unpopular opinions are filled with them.OT: what is the median age of people who use Reddit?
Have Gen Z taken over, or are the millennials pretending to relate to Gen Z still use it?
Agnostic. Science. Mensa. 164 IQ. Wendig style stacatto sentences. Flag on the moon. How'd it get there?
If you’re attending a state university with 35,000 undergrads, there being 100 guys you could have sex with isn’t implausible. And then if you’re attending a large university in a large city with other universities, for example, in Boston or NYC, your options will be enormous.First, just because someone said something on reddit does not make it true. They could be showing off, or anything as a reason to simply lie/troll.
I would also question the sheer availability of that many men. Sure 50 could maybe work, but when you are over 100 in a handful of years, how are they meeting that many different men on such a regular basis.
But alas, some people do indeed shag about. What you have to do is stop thinking from your own perspective and consider a different view. They are not having sex for the fun of sex, but as a means to connect and be desired. The sex is simply a tool to get that validation in their own minds. Its sadly common with lasses who have experienced abuse in their childhood, it fucks up their ability to connect with men with something other than sex.
They end up unable to have meaningful relationships and make love, so they continue to shag about and fuck like an animal. Thus making the problem worse, and feeding that vicious cycle.
As to the edit, I suspect its not exactly going down overall, its just that over a number of partners, the chances of failure increase and this is just statistical noise. If you did bigger and longer studies, anything over 2 would level out to be much the same.
Well, for the chick that blew 400 guys, you could blow multiple guys at once, using both hands and your mouth, and that would go pretty quick. Say each guy takes 10 minutes to bust a phat nut, based on my calculations, it would take approximately 67 hours to blow 400 guys. So, 67 hours, spread over 4 years would be about 16.75 hours per year sucking dick, or 90 minutes per month, and that's based on 10 minutes to bust. If you have dudes that last half that time, or do multiple at once, you can shave a few hours off. For the chicks that said they banged 100 guys, that's only 25 a year. Say you go to the bars about twice a month and hook up with a new guy each time, it's extremely possible. Sure, you're a disgusting thot that I wouldn't touch with a 10 foot pole, but it's pretty easy to bang 100 dudes over 4 years if you tryHow is having a sex partner count in the triple digits, and in such a short timespan, even possible? I mean, I know about the Carousel and all that, but I don't even imagine hookers having that many in a year.
Does being skeptical of such wanton harlotry mean I'm sheltered?
I've been wondering if the image of US universities presented by Hollywood is as false as the image of high school. Someone I knew went to do a semester in a humanities subject at a well-respected US College and she came back completely disillusioned, saying that it was a.) far less challenging than the standard she had grown used to in the UK, and b.) that there was a really weird, patronising vibe and that everyone acted like overgrown children.
Casual sex seems like the same dinner every night to me. You go to a party, get drunk, suck some guy off and he fucks you from behind or something. If you have random sex with a different guy 3 times a week, I don't really think there's any room for sexual exploration, trying out new things, etc.
OT: what is the median age of people who use Reddit?
You're not going to communicate well with a person you just met and decided to sleep with, much less convince them to try something new. The food analogy really, really doesn't work. The other person isn't a lump of meat on a plate, it's another person. Just compare sex to anything you do with another person for fun, although obviously (or presumably) you'll only keep it to more intimate people.... I mean, I respect your opinion, but this seems nonsensical to me.
Having sex with different people is the same thing over and over? It is a perfect recipe for sexual exploration and trying out new things, it would be new every time, by definition.
The food metaphor illustrates is perfectly; the mechanics of it remain the same, you sit down, you eat the food with a knife and fork, you chew and swallow, it provides you with nutrition, but to call different meals, in different restaurants, the same is crazy.
Different people have sex in different ways, no two are exactly the same, they vary incredibly.
I think you're, uh... overestimating the importance of 'communication' here.You're not going to communicate well with a person you just met and decided to sleep with, much less convince them to try something new. The food analogy really, really doesn't work. The other person isn't a lump of meat on a plate, it's another person. Just compare sex to anything you do with another person for fun, although obviously (or presumably) you'll only keep it to more intimate people.
As silly as it sounds, let's say you want to bring a friend for golfing, for sake of example, versus some random nobody you found outside the range. You might still have fun with the random nobody, but odds are you aren't going try hitting the golf balls like baseballs in midair with your clubs if it isn't your friend.
You dance and fight much better the more you're accustomed to the other person, don't you?I think you're, uh... overestimating the importance of 'communication' here.
You're not building IKEA furniture with your chosen life partner, you're fuckin'.
Golfing isn't something you do together, it's something someone else does while you watch, and vice versa - a more apt comparison would be dancing, or fighting, or having sex with someone.
Well sure, and they dance and fight better the more accustomed they are to you, no one is arguing that sex doesn't get better over time with a dedicated partner - ain't nothing wrong with monogamy.You dance and fight much better the more you're accustomed to the other person, don't you?
I see. I don't feel the same way, but I'll agree to disagree, though, and not take away from the thread much further.Well sure, and they dance and fight better the more accustomed they are to you, no one is arguing that sex doesn't get better over time with a dedicated partner - ain't nothing wrong with monogamy.
But, frankly, there's an upper limit to that, and provided the person you're having sex with isn't totally inexperienced or selfish, the difference between a long term partner and a casual sex partner is pretty slim.
Every person is unique, and that's the allure of multiple partners.
You increase your odds of having a good time, and of having a bad time, the wider you cast your net and the more people you have sex with.
Everyone should sleep around when they're young, try EVERYTHING at least once, see what you like and get some good practice in, and above all, have fun (there will be plenty of time to have sex with only one person when you're older).
Provided you're not doing it out of some sort of pathological compulsion, and you're being safe about it, it's perfectly fine and healthy.
In that regard, it's a lot like drinking, doing drugs, and partying in general.