- Joined
- Jan 2, 2017
This was well reasoned and deserved it a better reply than I gave it. At the time I was distracted with many other things, and I didn't really do right by you at the time. You engaged me and I wasn't fair. So let me try again.
I would counter that the opposite of what you say is true, that identifying myself as "American first" simply by what it is says on my passport is akin to identifying myself by race or gender identity. My family settled this land, gave me a different education, different religious inclinations, a different culture, in my case a different language and accent (Louisiana French), fought to drive off the North (obviously massively unsuccessfully, but we killed and wounded hundreds of thousands, three times as many as we lost) and for generations have raised ourselves as southerners. I have literally nothing in common with someone from Iowa. I know because I've moved around this country for years. The contrast is as stark as a German in Sub-Saharan Africa. We were some of the first Europeans to settle in the Americas, not all of us in the thirteen colonies. My family has kept its flags, passed down, and its way of life and identity for hundreds of years, both before and after the war. We're Dixies. That's what we are. America is the country we belong to, some of us by choice, but the South is our nation.
You're damn sure right about the last part. At least a little. Secessionism is absolutely suppressed by virtue of the fact it's illegal, however. I should have given the United States more dignity, though. You'll see above in the thread that being American, short of an independent South, is still better than anything else on Earth in my view, at least for us. I would still fight for the United States to defend it, if only because the South is in it and this is for now and probably forever what my neighbors, increasingly foreigners and migrants, are choosing. We are indeed made of many subcultures and minorities with a common Southern identity (of which I belong to one of the most prominent.)
That said, identifying with the people who fought and died for me, my land, and my faith, with my language, culture, way of life, and our flag, might be "identity politics" to the both of you. But no more so than calling myself "American" would be. People disagree with my feelings, and that's absolutely fair and allowed, but so did many Irish unionists with their nationalists. Yet there the Irish Republic is. All I want is the constitutional right to try. Britain, Canada, and many other fine countries give their constituents the right to secede peaceably. Indeed many would vote against us. By why is the U.S. so afraid of us that it would tear down our flags, denies us this right, and refuses to hear us? Perhaps it is because they fear we really are a nation and wouldn't make the same choice Quebec and Scotland did. They certainly took pains under Grant and others to destroy "Confederate nationalism." Even now, apparently, it is widely feared at least by idiots.
This is a right states should have.
yeah I don't have shit in common with people from Iowa either. I get the regional identity thing, and the personal history.
we're Americans though, it's"united states" and "melting pot" and all that. we've got to be on the same team, that war was fought and ended.