Well, female/gay male Kiwis? What's your answer?
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This question doesn't apply to me because I'm attracted to (actual) female. But I also have more of an unorthodox views when it comes to surgeries- I feel like doctor-justified mutilation, whether it is from troonism or not, is a facet of our modern reality. It is like industrialisation and its consequences. It is tragic, but to say that these people are a lost cause is a bit too pessimistic - I don't want our society to see such damage as the end of their lives..
but I also agree that yeah, it'd be hard to find straight women who's into him.
On the other hand, if a man revealed he had lost his penis to an illness or accident, it wouldn't necessarily be a deal breaker.
I'd agree more with this comment - transitioning is a sign of mental instability, especially in western world. Many detransitioners are not necessarily 'over' the troon mindset and that's a lot more offputting than the lack of penis to me. A lot of detrooners are still clout-chasers with no accountability who jumped to the next 'identity' they can pimp themselves out as (Neurodiversity or trad/Christian are the most common things they latch on)
I'm personally quite accepting of non-identity body modification because as I said, body modification is a vice of our era, many people have done things they regret, many people are influenced and compelled to self-harm to find meaning in our increasingly confusing world, and many are children who were groomed into such procedures. I do think there should be a future for them, but
only if they're truly willing to be aware of their pitfalls. I might date an ex-pooner IF she has demonstrated to be truly self-aware of their situation, and has got over troon-mindset and has a likable personality - but this requires a level of mental strength that most detransitioners won't get there. (For an example. If a ex-pooner wants a boobjob - If they see it as becoming 'normal again' or that they'll feel incomplete without it, then that is a troon mindset. It's the mindset that seeks out quick fixes and fetishisation of specific characteristics and identity)