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There are people who legitimately think that a 16 YO and 18 YO dating in high school is pedophilia somehow. Which I don't understand because that's common in a lot of schools. I know people have had crushes and/or dated a senior at one point. One of the stupid reasons that these crusaders give is that an older person has an immediate power imbalance over you. You can both be adults, but if the person you're dating is 31 and you're 21 then that's automatically a problematic relationship.
Also funny thing about that particular tweet; Kamoshida is a sexual predator who forced himself on female students (even one of the girls he abused also attempts suicide). I don't know if the person who runs the account knew that, but if they do then Anti-MAPs are really only doing this shit to make themselves feel superior in a really pathetic way.
some do, some don't. I like getting reaffirmed I would not be a pervert. when i did have the one and only school crush, with said age gap it distressed me because "omg, i'm 18 that makes me an adult, oh no, I can't find this boy cute what is wrong with me?" now I've fallen into darkness, and figure it's ok. if not, then act like "good guy" and lead others into that anguish of "you are a sick pervert and adult. leave minor children alone" I always ask the anti maps to 'define child/minor". some countries emancipation/age of majority happens at 21.
apparnety the Kamoshida flag was done as a joke. which I hope so. nothing says "i'm here to help children" and "yes, 17 YOs are literal children, leave them alone" like "this guy beats pedos, even though his character arc."
and some of the people will tell you it's the same as 17 on 12, or 25 on 14...Hard disagree on that part (emphasis mine.) I've personally known several couples who are (1. already adults at the start of their relationships and (2. have significant age gap between them, yet their relationships appear to be healthy and no sign of "power imbalance" as far as I can tell.
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I think my thing with this was people thinking I'm a cisman. due to someone saying I could of hurt that child's body.
yes, a 85 pound, ciswoman could of caused irrepariable damage to the body of a 16 year old cis boy, and could caused trauma to his mind when their own mental/emotional age was possibly 15.
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