🐱 We’ve All Failed Amber Heard

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As the Johnny Depp and Amber Heard defamation case plays out in a Virginia court, a separate trial has been playing out online, where the verdict skews heavily towards Depp being the “real victim.”


For weeks, memes and reels calling Heard a “liar,” “psychopath,” and a “manipulator” have congested social media. They make fun of her hair, outfits, and facial expressions, and at times even wish her dead. On TikTok alone, the #justiceforjohnnydepp hashtag has been viewed 16.3 billion times—compared to only 53.6 million for #justiceforamberheard (not even close to 1 percent as many).




Today, that judgement is in our group chats, at the bar, and may even come up over dinner, and it’s a reality that in some ways has already declared Heard the loser—even if she wins in court.


“If anything it'll probably be worse for her if she wins,” Mandi Gray, a gender justice expert and researcher with the University of Calgary, told VICE News. “The public humiliation is, in my opinion, going to increase.”

At least some of the pro-Johnny content comes from right-wing site Daily Wire, founded by Ben Shapiro. (VICE World News found how Daily Wire spent thousands of dollars on pro-Depp advertising.) But there have also been rumors that trolls and bots are rapidly spreading content in defence of the Pirates of the Caribbean actor. Then there are the content creators who have started commenting on the trial to gain followers and clout.

The overwhelming deluge of content targeting Heard is itself abusive and humiliating, experts say, and it’s partly why we, collectively as a society, are failing Heard.

“I don't think we've only failed Amber Heard. I think we've failed all women who've experienced gendered violence,” Gray said.


Regardless of whether you believe Depp or Heard or both, many of us are piling onto the abuse Heard has repeatedly said she’s experienced: by creating—or actively consuming or sharing—anti-Heard vitriol. It’s also why Depp, in some ways, has already won, experts say.


“It takes a village,” said gender justice advocate Farrah Khan. “It’s not just about the person causing harm; it’s about the people around who enable, uphold, and encourage it.”

All this is taking place while we’re still days away from a verdict in the Fairfax courtroom, where Depp has launched a $50 million defamation suit against Heard in response to a 2018 Washington Post op-ed that Heard wrote about her experiences with domestic assault. The piece didn’t name Depp, but the Oscar-nominated actor maintains it’s “plainly” about him and that it cost him his career. Heard is counter-suing Depp for $100 million in damages. Both Heard and Depp accuse the other of being abusive while maintaining their own innocence.
For weeks, the court has heard harrowing testimonies from both actors, who’ve produced images, audio recordings, and private text messages to make their cases. In one string of texts, Depp said he wanted to “burn” Heard and that he would “fuck her burnt corpse” to “make sure she is dead.” In an audio recording played repeatedly for the jury, Heard tells Depp that she “hit” him, but didn’t “punch” him. “I did not fucking deck you,” she says in the audio. Pictures of Heard with a bruised and swollen face, and hair ripped out of her scalp, accompany several allegations of abuse she says she experienced at the hands of Depp.


Depp says Heard cut off the tip of his finger during the infamous Australia fight. (At the time, he told people he did it himself.) It was during that fight that Heard says Depp repeatedly threw glass and penetrated her with a bottle. She told the court Depp held a broken bottle to her jaw and told her he’d “carve up” her face.
Comments accompanying trial livestreams have made light of Depp’s violent texts (“lol Johnny”) and honor his allegations, while they call the images of Heard’s injuries “photoshop” and spam her testimony with puke emojis.

Even people who say they’ve experienced abuse themselves have expressed their disdain for Heard. But, as Khan said, we’re only experts when it comes to our own experiences.

“That doesn’t make you an expert on domestic violence as a whole because it happens in so many different ways,” Khan said.

“You'll have more perpetrators—and more violence.”

Several gender-based justice advocates have told VICE News that Heard should be believed, and note that defamation cases are very often used by abusers to further control and coerce survivors.

Gray, who has studied the phenomenon and is being sued herself in Canada for tweeting about sexual assault allegations, said such legal cases are a “way to publicly humiliate people, women primarily, and gain control.” That’s partly because when you’re sued, you have to hand over a large part of your life: text messages between friends and families, emails, and more, that are then scrutinized in court.



“It’s a very invasive process to go through,” Gray said, adding that by initiating defamation suits, perpetrators can also attempt to “flip the script.”


“This case is not the exception. It’s the rule,” Gray said.

But even if Heard is lying, would it justify the hate swarming our social media feeds? “Wouldn’t you still say it’s not OK—I don’t want her harmed, I don’t want her hurt?” Khan said.

The vitriolic comments are already causing a silencing effect. Some readers have reached out to say they’re too scared to speak out against Depp because they don’t want “his horde” attacking them.
Soon, it will silence domestic violence victims and survivors themselves, said Jaclyn Friedman, a feminist writer and founder of EducateUS, a group dedicated to improving sex education in the U.S.

“You’re just going to see fewer victims speaking up. Some victims will think that they can’t even leave because they've seen their friends and families attack Heard and support Depp,” Friedman said.
“What all of that means is you'll have more perpetrators—and more violence.”
This would likely play out even worse for other women, especially women of color or poorer women. Heard’s sexuality has been weaponized throughout her fallout with Depp: tabloids have painted her as promiscuous and imply she cheated on Depp—all because she has dated both men and women. But the Aquaman star is also white and conventionally attractive.




So, if we treat a cis white woman so poorly, “what are we saying to the rest?” Khan said. “I think about Megan Thee Stallion… I think about FKA Twigs.”
Heard’s case also has the potential to shape how young people understand sexual and domestic violence. About one-third of TikTok users in the U.S. are between the ages of 10 and 19 and more than half are women. They’ll undoubtedly see Depp-Heard content. Many of these users will experience sexual and domestic violence themselves, Khan pointed out.

“This is an issue we should be taking seriously because this is one of the biggest public misinformation campaigns we've ever seen about domestic violence,” Khan said. “This case is shaping how young people view domestic violence.”


Khan also said the way this is all playing out will create a “how to harm” playbook, too.

So, while a “win in court is better than a loss,” Friedman said, “the message has been sent to not just current victims, but future victims that you need to be willing to go through public humiliation, character assassination, and retraumatization.”

The court case is expected to wrap up Friday, with a verdict expected soon after. But as Friedman pointed out, “a lot of the damage has already been done.”

In the meantime, Heard and Depp’s legal teams are tying up their cases now in their final attempts to sway the jury. But eerily prescient text messages written by Depp years ago suggest that what’s going on outside of the courtroom is already going his way.

“I have no mercy, no fear and not an ounce of emotion, or what I once thought was love for the gold digging, low level, dime a dozen, mushy, pointless dangling overused flappy fish market… I’m so fucking happy she wants to go to fight this out!!! She will hit the wall hard!!!” Depp wrote in 2016, presumably about Heard after she filed for a restraining order against him.

“She’s begging for total global humiliation... She’s gonna get it.”
 
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lol, I haven't been following this at all and couldn't care less about Johnny Depp (or most actors), and even I know the man was done wrong big time and deserves the world after what he's gone through. Even Amber Heard's Wikipedia photo showcases an insufferable smugness:
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I didn't even know who she was before this. Some capeshit actress, I guess?

She was on her way to becoming the next 'it' girl. She was in the Rum Diary (where she met Depp) and was starting to springboard into bigger shit.

Then I guess Margot Robbie more or less usurped her, lol.
 
Fail implied I tried.
Laughing at retards takes precedent even if I gave a shit about any of this.
And this dumb bitch had, under the court of law, shat her bed.
She might as well, under the court of law, lay in it.
 
I didn't know Amber Heard was my responsibility.

That's the problem with modern feminism: they want all the perks and all the power to do whatever they want, yet expect men to do all the heavy lifting, especially when shit hits the fan.

"I'm a strong independent single mom who don't need no man!"
"W-wait, they didn't increase WIC benefits this year!?!? FUCKING MEN!"
 
Reading articles like this makes one thing clear: the people writing these articles are either so fucking retarded that they literally cannot tell when someone has been caught lying their ass off even with all the evidence, or they are wilfully ignoring the mountains of damning evidence against Amber Turd because they are too invested in pushing a political agenda.
It's willful blindness. It's also an orchestrated PR campaign—because PR and journalism (along with advertising) are in bed with each other, and if you're willing to throw enough money into a campaign, you can get journalists at various key media outlets to spin the story your way—especially if your story has the correct ideological alignment, and stirs up enough high emotions to guarantee clickthrough and pageviews.

Every piece of "evidence" Amber has provided has been proven to be a complete fabrication. I've lost count of how many times she's been caught out in her lies, then she lies even more when she knows she's been caught. And her lies are clearly lies and they just get more and more outlandish and unbelievable.
I watched her double down on her lies, and aggressively keep pushing them, and couldn't help but think about how she's taken this approach her entire life—and it's worked, because nobody wants to go to battle with a crazy, vicious bitch like her if they can avoid it. She's been challenged in countless situations, turned them into hills nobody wanted to die on, and thus kept getting her way.

However, she finally created a hill somebody—Johnny Depp—was willing to die on. And not only is her default approach to getting her own way by lying and aggressively defending her lies not working when confronted with facts in a court of law, it's being laid bare before the entire world as the abusive, manipulative bullshit it is.

It's been incredibly satisfying, watching an abusive Cluster B get exposed like this. It's like getting a giant basket of kittens and Swiss chocolate and single-malt Scotch delivered right to my doorstep, and I've savored every moment.

The vast majority of Depp's supporters are women. The petitions calling for Heard to be fired from Aquaman were started by women, the supporters online are mostly women, the supporters standing outside the court are women, the supporters sat in the court are women..
What's really notable is that a lot of women who support Depp have experienced DV and/or sexual assault themselves. If they reflexively sided with Amber Heard when the allegations first arose, they've since realized that not only is Heard not a victim, she's the abuser.

I didn't give a shit about the case when the trial first started, and only went back and watched Heard's testimony after conversations on my social media by other women with DV/SA experience sparked my interest. They didn't believe her—and no shit, they had every reason not to. The consensus was, "Even if she had all her facts straight, she doesn't talk about her experience in a way that even remotely resembles the way real DV experiencers do."

And yeah, they're pissed at her, and disgusted by the PR-media campaign in her favor, because they know that nobody involved gives a single shit about actual women who have experienced, or are experiencing, DV.

I know plenty of women that hate Heard. It’s the bipolar bitches that are defending her.
Borderliner, not Bipolar, but yeah.

There's also a segment of Heard supporters who did experience DV, were genuinely traumatized by that experience (and whatever negative experiences they faced when trying to get away), and who have never received adequate help to resolve those traumas. They're mentally broken, they're in need of intensive help, and they're not going to get it because they don't see how badly they need it.

I've got one on my FB feed, and I had no idea how much of a mess she really was until the trial kicked off and she lost her fucking mind. She's made me think, "Oh, so this is what legit C-PTSD looks like."

She's effectively re-traumatizing herself by getting totally engrossed in the trial, obsessing over discrete details of the abuse Heard claims, and doing mental gymnastics to justify every discrepancy in Heard's testimony. She's fallen in with an echo chamber of other women who have had similar experiences and are pro-Heard, and they all egg each other on in their disconnect from reality.

It's terrible to watch—she's re-living her past trauma and having a mental breakdown. I don't know what's going to happen when the verdict comes back in Depp's favor.
 
For better or worse, good or bad, articles like this are the reason why things like MGTOW, red pill, and manosphere places exist in the first place, as autistic as most of those places are.

When you are trying to convince men that Amber Heard is the VICTIM here, that's what breeds this "misogyny" in the first place. If she can't be called out as an abuser, then what women can short of actual murder? And even then, we see articles were the man "deserved" to be murdered, and I don't just mean in really obvious rape-type responses either.
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Imagine still sticking by this psycho banshee. Fucking delusional cunts.

It makes women who are real victims look bad. People are less likely to believe them because of psycho clowns like Amber Heard.

I feel this was one of those cosmic disaster relationships like Sid and Nancy, Kurt and Courtney, Whitney and Bobby. Two people that should have never gotten together. The only difference is that both are still alive. Just look what happened to Phil Hartman.
 
This woman will walk away with millions, no matter what. That's more money than 99% of the population will ever see in one place. I can say the same thing for Johnny Depp. It's so dumb to try to make her some kind of feminist icon.
 
There's also a segment of Heard supporters who did experience DV, were genuinely traumatized by that experience (and whatever negative experiences they faced when trying to get away), and who have never received adequate help to resolve those traumas. They're mentally broken, they're in need of intensive help, and they're not going to get it because they don't see how badly they need it.

I've got one on my FB feed, and I had no idea how much of a mess she really was until the trial kicked off and she lost her fucking mind. She's made me think, "Oh, so this is what legit C-PTSD looks like."

She's effectively re-traumatizing herself by getting totally engrossed in the trial, obsessing over discrete details of the abuse Heard claims, and doing mental gymnastics to justify every discrepancy in Heard's testimony. She's fallen in with an echo chamber of other women who have had similar experiences and are pro-Heard, and they all egg each other on in their disconnect from reality.
You think she's trying to act out the liberation from her own trauma by vicariously participating in this court case? I'm reminded of a description I heard long ago of how some rape victims seek to liberate themselves from their trauma by acting out a proper handling of the crime... with someone who may have had sexual contact with them, but certainly did not rape them.

That might be something that someone made up to argue that people should be soft on those who falsely accuse, but I'm reminded of that a bit in your description.

It's terrible to watch—she's re-living her past trauma and having a mental breakdown. I don't know what's going to happen when the verdict comes back in Depp's favor.
If it does. The requirements for defamation are more narrow than the normie would think or want, and the court is a strange thing outside of that-- whether it's the jury or judge that's appointed finder of fact.

...that, and Heard is likely to appeal even if she loses. I bet your friend will latch on to that.
 
Articles like these are incredible. It's a fascinating glimpse into the mind of a mental patient with no doctor to measure their progress and no ward to go back to. It doesn't cross their mind even once that Amber could be lying, bad & wrong. All that writing, and no crack in the armor, no hypotheticals, no testing their ideas to make sure they're structurally sound and stand up to scrutiny. Downies have better reasoning and critical thinking than this.
 
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You sure have to wonder how much all this PR is costing Heard.

Ah who am I trying to kid. All these Proggie outlets do it for free.

Her career is over she best try to snag some rich dude while she still has some of her appeal. Harder now that Depp has shown the world what a physco she is.
 
Eat shit, Amber. This fuckery did real damage to actual domestic violence survivors and you getting soaked would be the system actually working for once.

"Failed Amber Heard", bitch, I'm not her keeper.
 
She's fucked. She's already lost quite heavily in the court of public opinion. After today, I have my doubts that she will EVER be given a decently large role in a major movie and she will most likely lose the case. The awful closing statement was the icing on the shitcake of her entire case.
 
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