when i first became aware of all this stuff i was in middle school. Back then I basically ignored it, because it was lumped in with the LGB umbrella, and being straight, I stayed out of it. I'm not gay, what the hell do I know? As I got older I would hear more and more insane shit come out of that side of the internet, and some of my friends began to fall into that sphere too. I again didn't really question it, and began to acquire some views of theirs by osmosis. I never felt the need to throw it in peoples faces, because it always seemed to me that who you feel the need to sleep with is your business and no one else's, and that's when the first shred of doubt came to my mind. Lesbians, Gays, and Bisexuals all are about sexual preference, what the fuck do Transgender people have to do with it?
Then the pandemic happened, and I had a lot more free time to spend on the internet. I started lurking the Farms regularly, I would scroll through Twitter, watch a ton of Youtube, and I began to have more of this nonsense leak into my feeds. What I began to notice that all of these types of people can't help but insert their fetishes into everything. All over their public timelines, it would be an activism thread followed by whatever nasty shit they were into. Eventually I got tired of it and focused more on personal stuff and work, but the bad taste in my mouth never really went away.
What really put me over the edge though was seeing one of my oldest friends go full out and proud trans. What possessed her to do this I haven't the slightest idea, she had past trauma, severe mental illness, the whole nine yards, no one in that state should be trusted to make that sort of decision about themselves. I've tried to hang out with her after that, but all she does is piss and moan about how unsupportive everyone in her life is, and how she's so oppressed for entirely self inflicted reasons. She says shes happy, but happy people who have "found their true self" don't feel the need to constantly piss and moan about everything. It really is obsessive, she was a fantastic artist, i encouraged her to go to art school, gain some contacts, do some commission work, find yourself a place in the world, but she threw it all away for the Trans safety blanket. She doesn't do anything not directly related to the "community" now, it's just sad.