As a lesbian and a "gender non conforming" woman (a tomboy if you speak"normal"), Ive been inside of LGBT comunities for a long time, and i mean LONG long time, ever since i was a minor, just discovering my sexuality so you can imagine how confused i was back then.
I made a bunch of LGB friends, i felt understood. But at some point everyone was starting to use They/Them pronouns, claiming to be some kind of "non binary" term. I mainly knew girls, that now wanted to crop their tits out, take hormones to become their dream "man". So i noticed a Lot of the usual patterns. Mostly from the FTMs. I saw they were funoshis, had that fantasy of becoming that "Uke, soft, femboi", they were huge attention seekers, the usual "i'm not like other girls" type of girl. But as minor, that was groomed into this cult with the premise of acceptance, i was always told to respect that, and for a long time i did without most issue. After some time, i even thought to myself... "Maybe, if i like being masculine, i might be a man...but i don't want to be a man actually, what if i'm Non Binary?" Luckily, once i started doing research and seeing actual diferent views on the topic of transgenderism i realized...."none of this makes sense, i'm a woman, i'm masculine and i have no issue with that"
So i kept being a woman, but i was still inside these comunities, secretly disagreeing with the echochamber but trying to be nice.
This is where i realized.... MTFs we're....weird towards lesbians.
Thats right, all those horror stories of men i'm dresses trying to flirt with homosexual women that those scary conservatives told me we're true, and the scariest part. At least inside of these groups i could not say a thing, because if i did, i would be A BIGOT and if i was a bigot, then i would not be allowed in the lbgt groups but also as a lesbian, because true lesbians are willing to suck dick in order to actually be into "all women".
So i slowly moved away from any LGBT space i could, because i knew that would someday fuck me up if my views on LGBT issue we're revealed, so just for my own good i stoped celebrating pride and participating in lgbt stuff. Because now, it all belongs to the trans, and if i don't like the trans, then i'm not welcome.
This ironically enough made my mental health improve drastically, i decided to talk to more people even if our opinions didnt align, i actually became more openminded. I Lost some friendships silently, but i also keept some others and even made new ones.