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I was thinking she could get "one of these type of deals" for when they go to the lake, but on second thought, yeah, she'd just end up wearing that.
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There's also that thing where three people stand around with their backs to you, holding up towels, but they'd need a few extra people in their group, so that's out of the question.
 
Eric is more likely to try to film her while she changes than to hold up a towel to shield her from prying eyes.
 
I found it funny when she was reading all those "inspirational" stickers from her latest planner. The "no excuses" one especially because AL is the queen of excuses. Pretty sure we will never see this planner again.
 
She said she buys those leggings at Walmart. I though she said she had around 6 pairs...she also said she has 6 of the same exact bra. hmmm... Of course she's being honest with us all.
Maybe she spilled food on them and ate them when the binge monster came out.

I think she does need help to. Change clothes. She's not going to lay down in the dirt and have Becky change her in front of other people.

Plus who brings dry clothes when you go swimming? Normal people only pack two small meals, snacks, emergency snacks, and something to nibble on during the ride.
 
To anyone who has threatened legal action over twinkie
I hate to be this person. Because, honestly, she can hardly take care of herself. But, according to Kentucky's law, her neglect isn't bad enough to warrant the state to bother with it. They'll possibly perform an investigstion, but more than likely they'll tell her to (a) take the dog for her rabies sjot and (b) advise that she clip the dogs nails. I found all of this in an animal control manual. Kacca Training manual.
 

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The hassle of dealing with it, at all, might be enough to prompt her to act. It's not just a minor issue. If she causes the dog to have arthritis or other joint pain, not only would it cause the dog pain in the now, but possibly chronic pain even after the nails are cut, and it'd make her less adoptable down the line. This is just something we see and are aware of, no doubt if the cats or dog showed any other signs (not eating as much, bathroom problems,etc.), I seriously doubt she'd jump on the phone to make a vet appointment. I can't believe she talked about wanting kids..can you imagine?

She likes to point to her weight, but it's stuff like this that makes people hate her. We see her spend money frivolously and go ridiculous distances to get food, then not provide her pets basic care. No one has suggested she do anything excessive or extravagant, just the bare minimum...and she won't even do that.
 
No matter how many diet trinkets she buys it's not going to help her. The issue is mental - not visual. I'd take her 'weight loss journey' more seriously if she actually went to a shrink on a weekly basis.
The problem with Amber is that NO ONE holds her accountable. Well, besides us but we’re “haters”.
She’ll never go to therapy because she doesn’t want someone questioning her or calling her out. It’s easier to just have Becky yessing her to death (literally) and her asspatters telling her she’s doing great. She’s literally never had to answer for her actions (or inactions) and she’s never gonna start.
 
I was so shocked at how she just threw trixie off her book onto her back, we get it Amber you don't care about your animals but Eric and Rickie care about theirs.
 
Think she's showered since her bath/laundry day in the lake? Kinda wondering what sorts bacterial lake water growths are working their magic underneath those folds of hers.
 
Ever been to an ocean or lake, where you weren’t expecting to go in so you didn’t bring extra clothes? So you roll up your jeans and dip you feet in? Then a wave or boat comes by, and your pants get wet up to your knees?

Imagine how miserable that is. The ocean is salty and the bottom of your jeans get hard and sandy, and a lake bottom is full of slimy rocks and the pants do start to feel dirty and scummy.

Your legs itch, even though you unroll your jeans, and your pants start to feel hard from all the stuff in the water as they dry.

Now imagine it’s all of you, your pants and shirt, underwear, and hair. Wouldn’t you want to just pull it all off you, even if you had to stay wrapped in a towel? And the very first thing you’d do getting home would be to jump in the shower. Putting aside the fact that most would bring swimming clothes and change somewhere.

But nope. She sits there, itching, slimy, dirty and uncomfortable because it’s less uncomfortable than taking a shower and changing.

It’s super hard for me to imagine what it must be like to be in her body and find it hard to shower and change. I mean, why? But I see my 600 lb life and they find it painful, can’t get into a stall, reach anything, can’t get into their fat rolls. And putting on clothes means you can’t reach your feet and have to pull up pants with pinchers and putting shirts overhead is exhausting . Forget washing hair while holding 50 lbs arms up long enough to wash and rinse.

So she sits in filthy stinking clothes. And Becky is her caretaker so why doesn’t she just help?

This is the beginning of the next phase, the bedbound phase. One infection, broken bone or pneumonia will do it. My money is on a mosquito bite causing cellulitis in her lymphedema leg

(I’m sorry as I know people won’t like this, but anybody calling animal control on her is more autistic than she is. There are millions of homeless animals in pounds all over the country, most who are put to sleep daily. A fat dog has it good compared to them and animal control will be annoyed at the lack of insight. Sad but true )
 
Ever been to an ocean or lake, where you weren’t expecting to go in so you didn’t bring extra clothes? So you roll up your jeans and dip you feet in? Then a wave or boat comes by, and your pants get wet up to your knees?

Imagine how miserable that is. The ocean is salty and the bottom of your jeans get hard and sandy, and a lake bottom is full of slimy rocks and the pants do start to feel dirty and scummy.

Your legs itch, even though you unroll your jeans, and your pants start to feel hard from all the stuff in the water as they dry.

Now imagine it’s all of you, your pants and shirt, underwear, and hair. Wouldn’t you want to just pull it all off you, even if you had to stay wrapped in a towel? And the very first thing you’d do getting home would be to jump in the shower. Putting aside the fact that most would bring swimming clothes and change somewhere.

But nope. She sits there, itching, slimy, dirty and uncomfortable because it’s less uncomfortable than taking a shower and changing.

It’s super hard for me to imagine what it must be like to be in her body and find it hard to shower and change. I mean, why? But I see my 600 lb life and they find it painful, can’t get into a stall, reach anything, can’t get into their fat rolls. And putting on clothes means you can’t reach your feet and have to pull up pants with pinchers and putting shirts overhead is exhausting . Forget washing hair while holding 50 lbs arms up long enough to wash and rinse.

So she sits in filthy stinking clothes. And Becky is her caretaker so why doesn’t she just help?

This is the beginning of the next phase, the bedbound phase. One infection, broken bone or pneumonia will do it. My money is on a mosquito bite causing cellulitis in her lymphedema leg

(I’m sorry as I know people won’t like this, but anybody calling animal control on her is more autistic than she is. There are millions of homeless animals in pounds all over the country, most who are put to sleep daily. A fat dog has it good compared to them and animal control will be annoyed at the lack of insight. Sad but true )
She seems to be over her Mania and I think the swimeen contributed to that because she realised that she is literary to fat to do normal things she enjoys. I think we will see tons of weight gain and a I LIED (o rly) video when the views start to dwindle.
Moreover I imagine her immobility will be a slow transition, moving around will just be to much and she will leave the house, and later the bed, less and less until she just stops leaving the house. Really her bedbound journey begun a long time ago when she started using walmart scooters.
A lot of people on 600 elbee live are not actually bedbound, but moving their quater ton body is just to hard so they try to keep it at a minimum.
Becky herself is massive and she gained weight, I think taking care of a 500lb brat is just exhausting, both mentally and physically, to her. Maybe she will hurt herself before her family puts and end to this, and then were will Amber go?
 
but she still could have pulled off some sort of switch with a maxi dress and a dry cardigan.
Changing clothes inside a car isn't an easy task, even when one is small, has an average weight and the clothes are dry.
As we've seen in photos she shared on social media, Amber fills the whole space on the passenger side and spills over the center console. Add that to the fact that she was wearing tight clothes which were wet, and there is no way she could change.

It's possible there were bathrooms/change rooms close by, but maybe she can't fit in those or there were people in there.
Or because she felt the need to prove her haydurs wrong like everything else she pretends to do. Remember that time she turned on the shower to prove to us that she showers?
She also made a video before she moved in with Becky showing herself vacuuming. She moved the vacuum back and forth twice and that was that.
Is Amber into scrapbooking?
Kinda. She's shown a few pages with some journaling and random photos in the past.
Kinda wondering what sorts bacterial lake water growths are working their magic underneath those folds of hers.
I bet whatever was in there before the dip is worse than what can be found in the lake.
(I’m sorry as I know people won’t like this, but anybody calling animal control on her is more autistic than she is. There are millions of homeless animals in pounds all over the country, most who are put to sleep daily. A fat dog has it good compared to them and animal control will be annoyed at the lack of insight. Sad but true )
This should be stuck up top with the other rules.
 
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