Malibougie
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- Jan 16, 2017
If AL wanted to change she would. A planner won’t do it, but I don’t know, THERAPY might help.
If someone has bottle of water and they say over and over that they want a drink of water. Just drink the fucking water! Same thing goes for AL saying she wants to lose weight or an alcoholic that wants to quit drinking, but they do nothing to try and change. Are the last two examples as simple as just doing it, maybe, maybe not. But if one truly wants to change they will. otherwise they are just flapping the lips.
My god, why and how does AL have such a strong hold over the people that live in the house? It’s so bizarrely fascinating!
I would love for just once instead of the lot of them being defensive be accountable. Why can’t AL just say “I wasn’t thinking when I shoved Trixie aside. I see now what I did was wrong and it will never happen again.” Or Eric saying that he talked to AL about it and she won’t be doing that again. Just once! It would shock the hell out of people and it would all die down, but instead it’s “people love drama.”
I know it is painfully hard for a narcissist to do, but just admit when you are wrong. It gets easier with practice, and then maybe people won’t think that you are a dog abusing cunt.
If someone has bottle of water and they say over and over that they want a drink of water. Just drink the fucking water! Same thing goes for AL saying she wants to lose weight or an alcoholic that wants to quit drinking, but they do nothing to try and change. Are the last two examples as simple as just doing it, maybe, maybe not. But if one truly wants to change they will. otherwise they are just flapping the lips.
My god, why and how does AL have such a strong hold over the people that live in the house? It’s so bizarrely fascinating!
I would love for just once instead of the lot of them being defensive be accountable. Why can’t AL just say “I wasn’t thinking when I shoved Trixie aside. I see now what I did was wrong and it will never happen again.” Or Eric saying that he talked to AL about it and she won’t be doing that again. Just once! It would shock the hell out of people and it would all die down, but instead it’s “people love drama.”
I know it is painfully hard for a narcissist to do, but just admit when you are wrong. It gets easier with practice, and then maybe people won’t think that you are a dog abusing cunt.