why are you still single - and general discussion of the dating game

[Cybertonia]

Besides being fat, ugly and poor.

Like others I sometimes think, "How would a woman improve my life." and I can't think of a single reason. I live in a small 2br house. They'd be underfoot all the time. I'd be significantly poorer. I'd probably have to build another garage as my 2car garage is too small for a second far since it's filled with junk and you simply do not leave a car outside here in winter. Worse still what if she had, like, Ryobi tools, I barely have enough space for chargers now. Would she even be able to design a PCB? Do electrical wiring? Plumbing work? Carpentry?

Yea, I'm not seeing the benefit here.

Or worse - she mixes a bunch of chinesium harbor freight tools in with all your vintage snap-ons

 

[Nefarious Elliot]

Because they just stop texting me for seemingly no reason.
I think they have the "ick", because despite everything, despite looks fitness hygiene money shared interest etc, they can just tell by the way I talk that I didn't socialize that well as a kid. I don't think I've ever been able to coax a deep meaningful conversation out of a woman.
At this point I'm not quite sure what they want.

 

[Kujo Jotaro]

Because they just stop texting me for seemingly no reason.
I think they have the "ick", because despite everything, despite looks fitness hygiene money shared interest etc, they can just tell by the way I talk that I didn't socialize that well as a kid. I don't think I've ever been able to coax a deep meaningful conversation out of a woman.
At this point I'm not quite sure what they want.

They want attention, but they don't want to have to tell you they want attention, so you have to divine what type of attention they want and when.

 

[Cellofayne]

They want attention, but they don't want to have to tell you they want attention, so you have to divine what type of attention they want and when.

Women love a sense of humor and im not talking about a dark sense of humor. Have a half decent job and make them laught. You're in.

 

[The Token Ethnic]

My ex passed away due to cancer, and I tried to go back out on the market... but modern dating is shitty. I would love to have a relationship, but at my age all the women have kids, are spinsters or just want free meals.

 

[Toji Suzuhara]

I'm just not that good when it comes to talking, particularly women. Honestly I've never been so. Trying to strike a conversation just feels abnormal, and most people nowadays try to keep to themselves because of their fears that it could go wrong, so they don't approach others either.

Back when I used to go out with my friends they often told me that the women at the mall showed interest in me, and that they looked in my direction, but how am I supposed to notice that? The same thing happened back when I was in middle school, with a girl who waited until the last day of classes to send one of her friends to tell me that she wanted to be my girlfriend, but what was I supposed to do with that info? I still don't know

 

[⋖ cørdion ⋗]

I'm just not that good when it comes to talking, particularly women. Honestly I've never been so. Trying to strike a conversation just feels abnormal, and most people nowadays try to keep to themselves because of their fears that it could go wrong, so they don't approach others either

Talking comes naturally when you feel inclined to talk. Things that interest you. Sparks of potential. You pursue women with no other appeal than being different to you, there ain't shit.

You don't need to try if a hoe sees you eyeing up minifigs and she goes "You should look a feet further to the right, Tau is for wimps haha". You'd maybe spaghetti yourself but you'd have something you want to say.

I matched a chick who's sole gaming interest was Borderlands as I was 100%ing the first one. I briefly hinted at this and the extent of her involvement was "yea? Haha".

Those of us who don't drown in offers quickly forget how a bad relationship can fuck you over for what you've built for yourself however small. Have some standards. Imagine your destined wife looking over you from the future, seeing what shit you stooped to cause a low-quality whore gave you a hint.

 

[The Token Ethnic]

I'm just not that good when it comes to talking, particularly women. Honestly I've never been so. Trying to strike a conversation just feels abnormal, and most people nowadays try to keep to themselves because of their fears that it could go wrong, so they don't approach others either.

Back when I used to go out with my friends they often told me that the women at the mall showed interest in me, and that they looked in my direction, but how am I supposed to notice that? The same thing happened back when I was in middle school, with a girl who waited until the last day of classes to send one of her friends to tell me that she wanted to be my girlfriend, but what was I supposed to do with that info? I still don't know

If you're feeling stressed out or unsure of what to talk about, always ask women about their hobbies/interests/job and look interested with an attentive response and you'll be fine.

 

[Nitro!]

I don't think my standards are too high. Just want a woman with a favorite private tracker by three-letter initialism (and if she calls it an acronym we're obviously not compatible) and who can discuss the intricacies of the binomial proportion confidence interval. Dating game, right fellas?

 

[The Lawgiver]

I apperently posted in this thread but i'm too lazy to check what it was. Probably the usual 'can't afford shit/never found anyone" type of thing. Lots of friends and aquantences though! Probably said that lmao.

Women love a sense of humor and im not talking about a dark sense of humor.

Funny story, Ive witnessed ton of mutual friends/acquaintances that happen to be female make the most fucked up aristocrats style jokes. I'd say it's a very high quality human thing to appreciate dark comedy, though it definitely isn't for everyone.

 

[Gaear Grimsrud]

Because I'm autistic, extremely introverted and reclusive, and don't really enjoy the company of others.

 

[LillyTheBestGirl]

I feel like maybe I'm not that interesting of a person. I had another first-and-last date this weekend. The girl was flirty and chatty and she would play with her hair, but an hour in she crossed her arms and while the conversation was still flowing, it was somewhat dry, neutral and not flirty. This is a pattern I've seen many times.
It's probably just bad luck because I had great dates before, but other stuff (politics, life goals, etc.) would get in the way. It's just a numbers game, to be honest, so just gotta keep trying.

I do have some crazies to share

Anti-Trumpers. While I get being unsure about political differences, the way leftists associate political views with morality and how good of a person you are is grating. It probably is also why a lot of psychos and shitty people flock to this ideology as it gives them a smokescreen to hide their own bigotry. As someone said before, every leftist accusation is a confession.

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Manhaters. No wonder they have to resort to dating apps - if they can't hide their disdain for men while writing a profile, imagine how bitter they are in real life

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Harry Potter and the audacity of this bitch


Just general wokies

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[Jimmy Hopkins]

Because they just stop texting me for seemingly no reason.
I think they have the "ick", because despite everything, despite looks fitness hygiene money shared interest etc, they can just tell by the way I talk that I didn't socialize that well as a kid. I don't think I've ever been able to coax a deep meaningful conversation out of a woman.
At this point I'm not quite sure what they want.

 

[The Strongest Haaton]

I was a complete degenerate faggot as a teen and a young adult. And I mean that literally. I've literally only been a relationship with men before. I converted to Christianity a couple years ago (and not that progressive "Christian" bullshit you see), broke off all ties to that life, and chose of my own volition to break things off with my ex to keep to my then new faith. Now I'm older and have literally 0 experience with women (not even friendships), and I have been that way for a few years now. I'll probably remain voluntarily single for the rest of my life unless I find a girl at my church. I brought this fate upon myself by being awful when I was younger, so I am willing to suffer the consequences. But damn does it feel lonely.

 

[RollerGator]

I was a complete degenerate faggot as a teen and a young adult. And I mean that literally. I've literally only been a relationship with men before. I converted to Christianity a couple years ago (and not that progressive "Christian" bullshit you see), broke off all ties to that life, and chose of my own volition to break things off with my ex to keep to my then new faith. Now I'm older and have literally 0 experience with women (not even friendships), and I have been that way for a few years now. I'll probably remain voluntarily single for the rest of my life unless I find a girl at my church. I brought this fate upon myself by being awful when I was younger, so I am willing to suffer the consequences. But damn does it feel lonely.

What made you decide to stop being a corn holing cock sucking faggot?

 

[Narcan Nimrod]

I'm incompetent at socializing. Like Ted Kazinsky with a bit less of the goods, bads, and~450 page white papers on bombing for shitz and nihilismz. Fucked up teeth. Insecurity. 10% body fat. Nothing to show for my two odd decades coasting through life. Just the average goon. Due to the gender imbalance i've written myself off as an honorable celibate. less competition. Let's me focus on cool shit. (i don't know how to approach people volvo plz fix.)

 

[Narcan Nimrod]

Worse still what if she had, like, Ryobi tools, [..] Would she even be able to design a PCB?

Sounds like you don't know Ryobi makes a soldering iron. heh.. hehe. (still don't do it. hook an 18 volt to bare wire before you consider Ryobi. Don't. Men will know you're twice as gay as a fag.)

 

[EzRolling]

Had a girlfriend out of high school and stayed together for almost ten years. So for everyone who says they missed their shot in school that shit doesn’t last either. Broke up and ended up buying a Promaster and converting it. Got another girlfriend and that pushed like a 1.75yr but that seems to be blowing up now.

What fucks me up is both times there was this idea of forever or at least a long time but that seems to fade faster for them then it does for me. So 3.3l nitrous tanks are about to become my companion in bed at night I guess.

 

[Lapsus of the bepsus]

when i was a teen i went through that phase when i thought having a girlfriend would fix all my problems
right now i feel like having a cat would fix all my problems instead and i think that feeling is correct

 

[DavidS877]

Sounds like you don't know Ryobi makes a soldering iron. heh.. hehe. (still don't do it. hook an 18 volt to bare wire before you consider Ryobi. Don't. Men will know you're twice as gay as a fag.)

Best solution for Ryobi soldering iron would either be a direct DC connection to an 18V battery or a high power USB-C adapter and hook it to a Pinecil. Which are remarkably useful considering the price and size.