why are you still single - and general discussion of the dating game

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Lapsus of the bepsus said:
when i was a teen i went through that phase when i thought having a girlfriend would fix all my problems
right now i feel like having a cat would fix all my problems instead and i think that feeling is correct
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I've never once considered a cat in my life until I found out I'm allowed to have one. Deadly scared of their claws; read up for 5 mins, realized they're literal walking textbooks. You can read everything off of them cause they're instinctual beasts unlike women who'll show you 5 signs and act 5 opposite. The sheer thought of a foreign woman touching my cat has me reaching for something sharp. Yet, many a decent match I've had immediately goes "xddd play with my kitty instead!!!". Nigger you can't replace this baby in less than a year of destined communion. Women love pets only because they feel like they're easy to replace as objects of love, and having that urge is a red flag in itself.
The Strongest Haaton said:
I was a complete degenerate faggot as a teen and a young adult. And I mean that literally. I've literally only been a relationship with men before. I converted to Christianity a couple years ago (and not that progressive "Christian" bullshit you see), broke off all ties to that life, and chose of my own volition to break things off with my ex to keep to my then new faith. Now I'm older and have literally 0 experience with women (not even friendships), and I have been that way for a few years now. I'll probably remain voluntarily single for the rest of my life unless I find a girl at my church. I brought this fate upon myself by being awful when I was younger, so I am willing to suffer the consequences. But damn does it feel lonely.
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I've seen several women on dating apps now literally go "I am religious and want to marry with children". One was a literal fucking priest at 28. Now that shit is hot: Pursuing something thoroughly, even if religion. There seems to be a lot going on in just about any moderate size church here, and since it's not just a gathering point for losers and addicts, it's probably a viable place to find a Lord-fearing woman. Imagine how wet her psalms will be when you say "I was turned from sin by He".

I also once read of a faggot so deep in degeneracy his ultimate fantasy-come-true was being forced to impregnate and marry his wife..
 
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My only hope is to try and meet people through hobbies or mutual friends. Opening Tinder is just depressing: you have to swipe through 200 identical tarted up whores with too much makeup doing duckfaces, and none of them could be bothered to add even one interest to their profile. And if they do, it's traveling and sushi and some basic bitch pop music spotify anthem.

They all age terribly too; the 25 year olds look 35, the 30 yo's look like they're in their 40's... I just want someone that takes care of themselves, who's passionate about creating something, and can carry a conversation.
 
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Because by the time I was old enough to figure out women, I was too old to start a family, hence why bother? Besides, once you've hit your 40s without any long-term relationship experience, you really get set in your bachelor ways, which are antithetical to women. No sense in immiserating yourself over your past mistakes that can't be fixed. You just move on and create something else for yourself. It's a cope, but a self-conscious one borne out of pragmatism.
 
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Nefarious Elliot said:
Because they just stop texting me for seemingly no reason.
I think they have the "ick", because despite everything, despite looks fitness hygiene money shared interest etc, they can just tell by the way I talk that I didn't socialize that well as a kid. I don't think I've ever been able to coax a deep meaningful conversation out of a woman.
At this point I'm not quite sure what they want.
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If you’re not fat then you must be gay.

I’m both.

Bros I have a hobby now where I mostly interact with old people and I legit prefer old women personalities. It’s too bad they’re old and crusty.
 
Ughubughughughughughghlug said:
If you’re not fat then you must be gay.

I’m both.

Bros I have a hobby now where I mostly interact with old people and I legit prefer old women personalities. It’s too bad they’re old and crusty.
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Unfortunately I am neither, if I were it would make the problem much, much simpler.
It's because they're TRAD and were raised with TRADITIONAL VALUES, obviously. I've been told that women don't change their personalities as they age by the same metrics men do, so our forefathers probably lived in a world full of personable women like this.
Once again, the jews are at fault.
 
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Well, ever since I got out of my last relationship a year ago, I haven't found anyone interests me. Not that I care though, I'm perfectly content to spend time with my friends and meet new people as those two things genuinely make me happy.

People tell me I'm charismatic and easy to talk to so hopefully I'll find someone in the future. Until then, I'll just focus on myself and try to be the person I want to be.
 
LillyTheBestGirl said:
Harry Potter and the audacity of this bitch
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I know this is just typical trad pick-me behavior from a former hoe who is now a single mom (maybe she is a widow though who knows), but men don't always want to be the pursuer in a relationship. Yes, I understand that women want to be desired by a man, they want to feel that they are the ultimate prize in a chase. Men want to chase a woman that is worthy of being chased. But men also want to be desired. Not just sexually, but men want to be desired for who they are as a person, they want to feel that they are valuable to a woman, that they aren't replaceable. Anytime I see a woman post something like this, I always want to ask "What are you going to do to pursue the man? How do you make a man feel desired?" The answer needs to be more than just "I will cook dinner, clean, and have sex with you." Because then you are just a bangmaid, not a wife and partner.
 
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Rodeo Roadrunner said:
But men also want to be desired. Not just sexually, but men want to be desired for who they are as a person, they want to feel that they are valuable to a woman, that they aren't replaceable
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This is a concept that has flown over nearly an entire generation of women's heads. Zoomer women just think they're their to be worshiped and pampered, they generally don't care much about the men they date outside of how much social clout he'll bring her. There are some good one's, and if you're not interacting with them in a romantic context they are ok people, but if you want to date a Zoomer girl be ready to be an accessory not a person.
 
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Kiwibros, pls help
I need suggestions on places to go to meet women
Due to life circumstances, I am in a place where I don't know anyone and have no way to meet women organically. The nearest person I know lives on the other side of the continent.

I tried a couple of things, went out of my comfort zone, disappointing results so far
It feels like my only hope are dating apps, but they never worked for me. I'm this close to just AI generating some (realistic) pictures of myself or something, because I can't take pictures for shit
 
Gorilla Man said:
Kiwibros, pls help
I need suggestions on places to go to meet women
Due to life circumstances, I am in a place where I don't know anyone and have no way to meet women organically. The nearest person I know lives on the other side of the continent.

I tried a couple of things, went out of my comfort zone, disappointing results so far
It feels like my only hope are dating apps, but they never worked for me. I'm this close to just AI generating some (realistic) pictures of myself or something, because I can't take pictures for shit
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Focus on yourself. Try to be the best man that you can be, and let the cards fall as they will.
 
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Gorilla Man said:
Kiwibros, pls help
I need suggestions on places to go to meet women
Due to life circumstances, I am in a place where I don't know anyone and have no way to meet women organically. The nearest person I know lives on the other side of the continent.

I tried a couple of things, went out of my comfort zone, disappointing results so far
It feels like my only hope are dating apps, but they never worked for me. I'm this close to just AI generating some (realistic) pictures of myself or something, because I can't take pictures for shit
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Depends on your hobbies and what you like to do in your spare time. I'm into music so I go to Jam nights, live local music and things like that. It's a good way to get to know people in general if you are new to the area.
 
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Jesus Swept said:
My only hope is to try and meet people through hobbies or mutual friends. Opening Tinder is just depressing: you have to swipe through 200 identical tarted up whores with too much makeup doing duckfaces, and none of them could be bothered to add even one interest to their profile. And if they do, it's traveling and sushi and some basic bitch pop music spotify anthem.

They all age terribly too; the 25 year olds look 35, the 30 yo's look like they're in their 40's... I just want someone that takes care of themselves, who's passionate about creating something, and can carry a conversation.
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I'm assuming you're in the USA, and if so, the dating apps' people pool must be a lot worse than it is here in my Latin American shithole.
Don't get me wrong, there's a lot of chaff to sift through, but it seems a lot better than you describe. I see a lot of interesting women with decent profiles. But yes, they're all about travelling, which, yeah sure, who doesn't like traveling. But if you're going on a trip every couple months or more often, don't expect me to keep up with that, or much less fund you.
What I don't understand is why so many women here are fans of Formula 1.

On that note, I've had some decent luck meeting several good women in the short time I've been on them (around 3 months now). It's unfortunate I tend to meet them 2 or 3 at a time, so in the interest of being decent, I end up pursuing only one of them. Got a couple brief relationships out of it. Unfortunately, the brief part was because each time, something happened in their lives that required full attention (significant family problems and/or health issues) and didn't leave room for the relationship.

That's why I'm single right now. After the last one, which not gonna lie, did kinda hurt, I decided to take a break from it for a while. I've got a couple matches and likes on the apps right now, but I'm still a bit emotionally sore and haven't felt like starting the conversation with them. I may go for it in a few days, profusely apologizing for not talking earlier (but then, why didn't they?)... or maybe not. I don't know.
 
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