There are some surprisingly blue-pilled takes in this thread. I did not expect it of the farms.
Incel theory, barring a few exceptions, is correct. Looks aren't everything to a woman but they are the most important thing by a mile. Good face, height, non-skinny frame. Someone said that 28-45 are a man's best years. That's laughable. Pure cope. Do you think a 23 year old girl wants 25 year old Chad or a 44 year old middle manager who's bought his own house?
PUA is useful but only to a very limited extent. If you're an ugly low status manlet, no amount of confidence is going to make her sleep with you. At the other extreme, if you're Gigachad, you can approach her with your willy in your hand and it won't put her off. However, if you're in that 10% pool of decent looking blokes who can get girls if they play their cards right, then yes, basic PUA teachings have some benefit. Don't act like a sperg, be confident, dress well, be flirty etc.
Where men are concerned, if given the choice, they will choose the best looking woman, although do give more consideration to personality than women do when forming a long term relationship. (Women clamour to get with paedos, rapists and murderers if they're good looking or high status). Men will also put their willies in anything meaning there's no such thing as lonely women; only women who can't get Chad, and even he'll pump a fat girl if he's got a few hours between Stacies.