why are you still single - and general discussion of the dating game

[RollerGator]

We ended it amicably and she's still my friend.

What's your religion again?

Friends don't abandon friends.

 

[Higgs Bonbon]

Friends don't abandon friends.

They also don't keep a relationship going if they're unhappy with it. It's selfish and irresponsible to keep trying to 'make it work' when you can be more comfortable/honest with each other on a purely platonic level, that's the polar opposite of abandonment.

 

[CiaphasCain]

I'm Bri'ish and if you've seen our women you'll know why I'm single. Genuinely never met a Bri'ish girl who didn't immediately turn me off with her rough accent and that classic Bri'ish girl short-fat body type.

I don't even have many standards, it's just Bri'ish women are socially and physically repulsive.

 

[Falcos_Commisar]

I honestly prefer dating pool. It at least captures a lot of the more random aspects of dating and isn't a newspeak term for how we should see our relationships. Frankly, only the upper classes practiced dowries and marrying upwards to promote one's station in life since that stupid shit was important to them. The lower classes pretty much did what we did for the most part. Not like you are going to move up in life, might as well marry a woman for her qualities

If by qualities you mean no baby daddy, no fat rolls, and no severe mental illness, great

I saw this in 2004, women rejecting men for the slightest of reasons. She was no oil painting herself of course.

Goddamn. Take comfort that back then, social media wasn't a thing so she had Zero Simps.

I'm Bri'ish and if you've seen our women you'll know why I'm single. Genuinely never met a Bri'ish girl who didn't immediately turn me off with her rough accent and that classic Bri'ish girl short-fat body type.

I don't even have many standards, it's just Bri'ish women are socially and physically repulsive.

Plenty of 3rd world women would go for a Propah Br'ish Geezah

Might I suggest Thailand, Sri Lanka or similar?

No joke, my Dad (as white bread American as they come) mentioned to me that "Falco, you need to go overseas to find yourself a good woman"

 

[Halo Cipher]

Learning to be alone is important. Codependency is a disaster and it has taken me a long time to know the difference between that and companionship. I function best when I am with someone, but learning how to balance out my weakness is important before I share life with someone again.

 

[Car Won't Crank]

I don’t know that a woman would fix any of the sickness in my heart.

A V8 American muscle car might.

 

[Kel1 shi1]

I'm Bri'ish and if you've seen our women you'll know why I'm single. Genuinely never met a Bri'ish girl who didn't immediately turn me off with her rough accent and that classic Bri'ish girl short-fat body type.

I don't even have many standards, it's just Bri'ish women are socially and physically repulsive.

It's like they come off a production line, mandatory black leggings, tattoos, not even well crafted ones anymore but shit that looks like it's been written on with a black sharpie "Live, love, laugh". An arms race of how many piercings they can get, extra point for those nose rings that look like a farm animals. If they are wearing makeup it has to be orange foundation trowed on really thickly. And what do you get at the end of it all if you catch one of these beauties? Walking round the town on a Saturday surrounded by crotch spawn just following her as she spends all the money you've been earning, miserable and resigned to your fate.

 

[FILTH Tourist]

I figured I'd give a little update on my love quest. This week was pretty quiet as she was really busy but we did chat for a few hours on discord about our weekends. Now I have a 3rd date set for next Sunday at my apartment. I am going to cook her some gourmet macaroni and cheese and be a little more overt with my feelings. Because the country is kind of strict about DUIs, I don't think alcohol will be on the menu unless I can convince her to let me uber her here and back. Wish me luck!

Might I suggest Thailand, Sri Lanka or similar?

No joke, my Dad (as white bread American as they come) mentioned to me that "Falco, you need to go overseas to find yourself a good woman"

It is pretty easy to get dates if you are white. But, you need to be very careful when finding girls out here, especially 3rd worlders. A lot of them are either after green cards, have an unhealthy obsession with whiteness, or are a dragon lady who will dominate your life.

 

[Kel1 shi1]

Plenty of 3rd world women would go for a Propah Br'ish Geezah

Might I suggest Thailand, Sri Lanka or similar?

No joke, my Dad (as white bread American as they come) mentioned to me that "Falco, you need to go overseas to find yourself a good woman"

If you try to game the system, the system will game you still.

I personally know three "Propah Br'ish Geezahs" who imported wives, Russia, China, Argentina specifically so a diverse sample size. Women still think like woman all around the world and knowing this can work to your advantage. However if you don't then you'll end up at the same point but with extra steps.

These three men are no longer with their imported wives. If you import a woman who is with you because you are a foreigner you are bringing her to a country where she now has access to chad and rich chad and the legal system is set up in her favor. The man is no longer special and she will be comparing him to with peers. However, she maintains her unique exotic appeal (because why would a man import an uggo?) and will be getting more attention and not just from the few men who would get on a plane to meet her. These women know what an anchor baby is or will find out soon enough.... and will try to bring her family over to live with them.

 

[CiaphasCain]

Plenty of 3rd world women would go for a Propah Br'ish Geezah

Might I suggest Thailand, Sri Lanka or similar?

No joke, my Dad (as white bread American as they come) mentioned to me that "Falco, you need to go overseas to find yourself a good woman"

Every girlfriend I've ever had has been from another country.

 

[TowinKarz]

Never wanted kids, ergo, never was going to get married, ergo, was never going to date.

So I never tried to date anyone.

As such, from a "relationships" standpoint? I'm a sixth-grader, that's my level of expertise.

On the outside I might look like an adult, but, mentally, underneath, I'm about fifteen when it comes to knowing how to date. That is, I know nothing.

I don't know how you're supposed to approach women, I don't know how to "be social" with women, I don't know how to read the signs of interest/disinterest from a woman and act on them, on top of being a naturally shy, avoidant and utterly uninteresting person with uncool niche hobbies and interests which makes it exceedingly unlikely I'll be anywhere that people looking for a boyfriend might be.


There are words for guys like that... who have no romantic gravitas, who honestly don't know what they just did innocently is a red flag, who keep to themselves and have "childish" tastes, and none of the words are nice.

I have no shot, even if I wanted to, and I don't really want to.

 

[HOMO FOR LIFE RETURNS]

Have you seen the quality of women lately.

Forget their looks. Just....their quality. That's not hot.

 

[Falcos_Commisar]

I figured I'd give a little update on my love quest. This week was pretty quiet as she was really busy but we did chat for a few hours on discord about our weekends. Now I have a 3rd date set for next Sunday at my apartment. I am going to cook her some gourmet macaroni and cheese and be a little more overt with my feelings. Because the country is kind of strict about DUIs, I don't think alcohol will be on the menu unless I can convince her to let me uber her here and back. Wish me luck!


It is pretty easy to get dates if you are white. But, you need to be very careful when finding girls out here, especially 3rd worlders. A lot of them are either after green cards, have an unhealthy obsession with whiteness, or are a dragon lady who will dominate your life.

Ahhh non American. That explains the Asian girl into super nerd stuff that's not actually an Asian man

Anyhoo, I've seen the visa hunters and they're super easy to stop as they're desperate.

The ones into the gwailo/farang/gora are a BIT more subtle. Knew one (kinda) at Grad school and she dressed like a club chick 24/7 to attract attention.

She eventually landed some white guy up in Seattle who I guess can put up with her.

Let's see how long that marriage lasts (she told me that her and her sister went with foreign guys and her parents can't handle it and the guy is NOT moving to the Homeland)

 

[Tsukasa Kadoya]

Have you seen the quality of women lately.

Forget their looks. Just....their quality. That's not hot.

Which is why I mostly date korean women.
A lot of them (outside of Seoul) are very conservative and polite, and are lovely to talk to.
Japanese women are hit or miss, and chink women are the worst.
Protip: if a super hot Chinese girl is hitting on you, she is most likely an informant or spy. Trust me.

 

[HOMO FOR LIFE RETURNS]

Which is why I mostly date korean women.
A lot of them (outside of Seoul) are very conservative and polite, and are lovely to talk to.
Japanese women are hit or miss, and chink women are the worst.
Protip: if a super hot Chinese girl is hitting on you, she is most likely an informant or spy. Trust me.

Just get some North Korean refugee and you are set. Korean women get very bitchy once they become comfortable. Hong Kong girls are nice too. Or if you get lucky pretty Indian girl. Knowing how shit Indian men are (true definition of incels), they will jump at first opportunity to suck on that white dick. Or any dick that's not poopstained.

 

[Party Hat Wurmple]

That's menopause, look at any definition of "the wall" and its all about looks. And 30 was the limit before but men are so desperate these days they even simp for 40yo women, I seen it.

It's not all about looks. It's just the age where their pregnancies are considered dangerous. If it were about looks, the wall would be 22. Because after 22, it's all down hill from there. Most women will never be as attractive as they were at the age of 18-20, ever again for the rest of their lives. Post 20 is when the clock starts winding down. It's noticeable at 22 when the alcohol, party girl lifestyle starts taking a toll. Some girls fill out later though, so 22 is okay. Around 25, the wear and tear really starts to show. 25 is basically the last gasp of the best years they have appearance wise. After 25? To be a good looking woman requires actual effort. The ones that don't put in the effort look like crap by 28. The ones that do, look as good as they did when they were 25. That's why if it were based on looks, it'd be 22. If you like curvier women, 24-25.

Your waifu will never be as pretty again as she was when she was in her early 20s. Women don't have Clooney years and no amount of cope n seethe will change this.

You know, the first dates when you have to do everything right, and please her and shower her in gifts and take her to the most expensive places and make sure not to make the tiniest abstraction otherwise she leaves or ghosts you

That's why you should be the one receiving that treatment. You're the prize, King.

I'm autisticaly shy around women and it's hard to find a boyfriend free girl.

If you're Chad enough, no girl has a boyfriend. They're all single.

(Bad women actually think this way)

I want a wife and family. You may want to die alone, but I don't and the only way to really get that is with a type of woman that you can love, cherish and be proud of. I think you are just being excessively bitter that most young men want female accompaniment all, let alone a woman that appreciates them for what they do to help and protect them. Dying alone isn't admirable to anyone with a bit of sense

You won't find it in Burgerland. Women in Burgerland aren't worth wifing up. I'd take the most feminist dangerhair of Dangerhairs in the Eastern world, over a Burgerwoman. They'd be less likely to fuck you over.

Friends don't abandon friends.

Friends absolutely do and should abandon friends if the friends cross a boundary that shouldn't be crossed. Otherwise it isn't a boundary.

I figured I'd give a little update on my love quest. This week was pretty quiet as she was really busy but we did chat for a few hours on discord about our weekends. Now I have a 3rd date set for next Sunday at my apartment. I am going to cook her some gourmet macaroni and cheese and be a little more overt with my feelings. Because the country is kind of strict about DUIs, I don't think alcohol will be on the menu unless I can convince her to let me uber her here and back. Wish me luck!

Just say you have a nice bottle of wine for the occasion and you'll Uber her back

I don't know how you're supposed to approach women, I don't know how to "be social" with women, I don't know how to read the signs of interest/disinterest from a woman and act on them, on top of being a naturally shy, avoidant and utterly uninteresting person with uncool niche hobbies and interests which makes it exceedingly unlikely I'll be anywhere that people looking for a boyfriend might be

You literally just talk bro.

 

[Moosebonker]

Women my age have no use for a man.

 

[Lurker Child]

I figured I'd give a little update on my love quest. This week was pretty quiet as she was really busy but we did chat for a few hours on discord about our weekends. Now I have a 3rd date set for next Sunday at my apartment. I am going to cook her some gourmet macaroni and cheese and be a little more overt with my feelings. Because the country is kind of strict about DUIs, I don't think alcohol will be on the menu unless I can convince her to let me uber her here and back. Wish me luck!

Good luck! She sounds decent from your testimony, so I hope all goes well. A good woman is just about everything that a man needs in life.

Reminded myself of this meme:

Just get some North Korean refugee and you are set. Korean women get very bitchy once they become comfortable. Hong Kong girls are nice too. Or if you get lucky pretty Indian girl. Knowing how shit Indian men are (true definition of incels), they will jump at first opportunity to suck on that white dick. Or any dick that's not poopstained.

Indian girls are very nice. They're most of the reason I've conflicted in my opinion about Indians and India. I remember, in one thread here, someone pointed out how the hot ones look liked "weird Latinas" which, lmao, they weren't wrong! Still hot though.

 

[FILTH Tourist]

Something came up with her parents so she had to push our dinner back until after her vacation next month. She did give me a specific date on the next time we can meet in a few weeks, so that's a good sign that she is still interested. In the mean time I am to try to start working out, take my praxis exam, and have my buddy teach me how to make some pastries he makes when trying to impress girls. If she delays again, I will take the hint and move on.

 

[Black Man Underwear]

Our doctor finally cured our split personality disorder. Frankly this gaslighting upsets us.