why are you still single - and general discussion of the dating game

Any time I feel tempted to date, I remind myself of this:

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Falcos_Commisar said:
Some schools, particularly in Florida or California are known as a non-stop party school.
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Gonna go with "were" given the current circumstances.
Falcos_Commisar said:
Norwegians are famously sexually repressed
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Really? don't know much about norway besides their oil industry, how repressed? are the finns also repressed?
Bungdit Din said:
Annoys me to agree with foids but, when they say that incels, and the incel-adjacent, are held back by their shitty attitudes and appalling personalities rather than any physical deficiency, they're not far wrong in my case. Evidence would suggest I'm attractive enough, on a superficial level, it's just.... everything else. That's why.
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Aren't you what they call a "mentalcel"?
 
FILTH Tourist said:
A trip to Japan with her brother.


Yeah, that's why I am not giving up hope completely. If she is keeps in touch and sends me pics of her trip I think things are going fine. This trip isn't a surprise, she told me about this trip when we first met and she has been extra busy trying to get a few chapters ahead so she can just send them to her publisher when abroad. Next date is on the 12th.
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Alright any updates???? The 12th is days away....
 
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I didn't read all 37 pages so I'm sure I'm repeating what someone else has said.

I am an oldfag, so trying to find a woman my age that isn't a single mother or some type of moronic radical leftist is pretty hard. At one time, I may have been more forgiving of that sort of thing, but with the current climate now? Forget it. Rather be single than date a woman who has "woke" opinions/politics.

I also found out the longer you live alone, the more you get used to being able to do whatever you want so if I am going to sacrifice that freedom it better be for someone worthwhile.
 
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Fully Awake said:
I didn't read all 37 pages so I'm sure I'm repeating what someone else has said.

I am an oldfag, so trying to find a woman my age that isn't a single mother or some type of moronic radical leftist is pretty hard. At one time, I may have been more forgiving of that sort of thing, but with the current climate now? Forget it. Rather be single than date a woman who has "woke" opinions/politics.

I also found out the longer you live alone, the more you get used to being able to do whatever you want so if I am going to sacrifice that freedom it better be for someone worthwhile.
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I tried it. It's actually a good measure for the health of your relationship. If she bends her beliefs and values over time to conform with yours, it's because she wants that D. If she doesn't, it means she doesn't respect you and your relationship is going poorly and you should throw her out. Women who respect you will bend over backwards for you. Women who don't, won't. That's the bottom line.
 
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There's no benefit to being in a relationship in later life unless you built a solid on in your younger life. Why sacrifice a life of luxury and freedom that I built, to spend time with a woman how is high-maintenance, moronic, saddled with other peoples mistakes - kids, boring or just generally a dog-fucking cat-lover.

There's some great women out there who have some of the flaws listed above, and as a casual relationship they give me everything I need out of a relationship. Seems as 90% of women are the same, a change of name, location and age changes very little in how they are or who they are.

Respect to those who found a partner early in life, I did and fucked it up. C'est la vie, not everyone lives a disney movie, some of us live a porno, it's shallow but it's better than being an incel or faggot.
 
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Ibanez RG 350EX said:
I don't want to be around a woman who pretends to agree with me on core ideological issues. That sounds like a recipe for resentment and eventual disaster.
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Women don't have values of their own. That's why they constantly conform to what's around them. That's why if you ask them things their only answer "OMG like just be a good person". There's nothing going on up there. That's not what women are good at or for. That's why their default response is groupthink. They mimic values whether that be from their parents, fathers, etc. That's why women who have daddy issues are such a fucking meme.
 
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Besides all the typical lack of social groups, no female friend, basic social skills, barely having someone to hangout with and all that jazz I've always had it with me that people had relationships that lasted as long as the reason they starting dating someone: If it was purely outta loneliness it wouldn't last long. The couple would get tired of each other fast and issues would arise resulting in quarrels, cheating, etc.

Because one party or both would realize they would rather be fucking around than to stay committed to someone.

When I used to hang out with some former friends I'd see relationship shenanigans playing out the same with everybody. As if toxic relationships are the norm.

I always thought to myself I would be damned if that happened to me. Specially if the girl was a mental case.

Also, I'm not the kind of guy to be tolerant with bitch antics psychotic or not.

Additionally where I'm from domestic abuse against men from women is not something unheard of and is more common than people like to think. It ranges from battery to assault to false claims and threats.

And, finally, I don't feel like finding a girlfriend only to have someone either dogging on me like clockwork or demanding their stupid expectations to be met.

I'm the kind of dude that would like to find someone eligible to raise a family but I suppose that's not what most women are likely to do. Also be Buddhist.

I mean people here end up starting a family but in the most dysfunctional way and that includes church folks (not a Christian btw so chalk up another reason). Working with people shows that maybe most people had kids on a whim or peer pressure.

Never had a girlfriend and I used to get really depressed over that but now I don't fret no more as I'm getting older I kinda stop giving a shit.

Perhaps in the next life I'll be born with better mental and social conditions if I have enough good karma.

As for now if I don't meet anyone that meet specific criteria I'd rather die alone. To hell with forced socializing or dating game bullshit.
 
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Celestial Peace said:
Never had a girlfriend and I used to get really depressed over that
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It's really not compelling enough to get depressed over. It's an interesting novelty for about a month and then it just becomes (hopefully) regular sex and an ultra high-maintenance friendship.

People make it out to be the most important thing in the world and quasi-mystical. But it's not - it's very, very mundane.
 
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Bungdit Din said:
Annoys me to agree with foids but, when they say that incels, and the incel-adjacent, are held back by their shitty attitudes and appalling personalities rather than any physical deficiency, they're not far wrong in my case. Evidence would suggest I'm attractive enough, on a superficial level, it's just.... everything else. That's why.
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null makes this point and its solid. The most dispicable fat greasy uggo lolcows on this site have mostly all had, not just sex, but children and marriage.

The quality of it being dubious, but they've had it.

If Ethan ralph, the irate gamer, King Cobes, Chris Chan, and I THINK even cyraxx, can get some YOU HAVE NO EXCUSE.
 
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Ibanez RG 350EX said:
It's really not compelling enough to get depressed over. It's an interesting novelty for about a month and then it just becomes (hopefully) regular sex and an ultra high-maintenance friendship.

People make it out to be the most important thing in the world and quasi-mystical. But it's not - it's very, very mundane.
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The thing is: I still don't.

What left me feeling blue was the sense of normality regarding finding a partner unlike the typical corny-ass so ronery shit. Normal healthy people have or have had courtships. Depending on what kind of society you're from people can seriously think you're either a closeted faggot or something's off with you completely ignoring fucked up people who also have a relationship.

The fact that it's mundane that brings that sense of not standing out.

Let's be honest here: Past a certain age it's not normal to have absolute zero experience on dating/relationships. But at the same time it's completely normal to see couples having serious issues (lying, cheating, manipulation, abuse, etc.) so I don't feel I'm missing out that much which made me start not giving a fuck anymore.

People has lots of double-standards.
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If Ethan ralph, the irate gamer, King Cobes, Chris Chan, and I THINK even cyraxx, can get some YOU HAVE NO EXCUSE.
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I'm not aware of these names mentioned but Ethan Ralph is a loud-mouth chump who's engaged to May who's a lolcow herself and given what is known about him regarding his past relationships only low-lives would take Ethan Ralph as an example.

As for Chris-chan it took him/her 40 years of his/her life to find someone who was alledgely interested. And it takes a special kind of slow-in-the-minds person to fall in love with Chris-chan of all people.

Frankly, I doubt incels are aiming for that, perhaps someone that desperate. Also, someone self-aware enough would only feel even more demotivated. Realizing you're worse than fucking Ethan Ralph or Chris-chan would be reality becoming horror.
 
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Celestial Peace said:
Realizing you're worse than fucking Ethan Ralph or Chris-chan would be reality becoming horror.
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my point is most of these people whining about how they don't get any because of looks, height, or autism are probably far too terminally online and are probably already better off than ralph or Chris chan in most of those categories. If women are going for ethan ralph you can find someone to go for you.

if you are ACTUALLY objectively worse off than ethan ralph you're probably already dead or too busy dying to be concerned about finding some puss
 
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Falcos_Commisar said:
Alright any updates???? The 12th is days away....
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She forgot the 12th was mothers day and will be with her family all day and pushed it back to next Friday. I said sure, but pretty much given up. I will let you guys know if this love quest has a happy ending, but right now it is looking like a dud.
 
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FILTH Tourist said:
She forgot the 12th was mothers day and will be with her family all day and pushed it back to next Friday. I said sure, but pretty much given up. I will let you guys know if this love quest has a happy ending, but right now it is looking like a dud.
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Her family? Are you in Taiwan? Programmers like her work insane overtime there.
 
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