I've seen several women on dating apps now literally go "I am religious and want to marry with children". One was a literal fucking priest at 28. Now that shit is hot: Pursuing something thoroughly, even if religion. There seems to be a lot going on in just about any moderate size church here, and since it's not just a gathering point for losers and addicts, it's probably a viable place to find a Lord-fearing woman. Imagine how wet her psalms will be when you say "I was turned from sin by He".
Those are called tradcons and are to be treated with caution. Seriously, half those hoes have body counts in the triple digits and realized no man wants them and they're trying to get ahead of the game. You have to be very cautious around those types. The people bullying Pick Mes are wrong for bullying them, but adapting and doing shit like this is the way of the future. Be cautious.
no way to really meet people anymore, im not just walking up to a woman in Supermarket with a smile, it doesn't exactly upset me mind you but destruction of public recreation has been the worst thing imaginable for American society and its only going to cause shit like the Birth Rates to get worse
The problem isn't just destruction of public recreation, it's destruction of public recreation for young people. Whenever I go out nowadays, most of what I see are either couples or people my age or older. You hardly see any groups of young women anymore. They exist, it just isn't as common.
My only hope is to try and meet people through hobbies or mutual friends.
You know, I never really understood the hobbies angle. My hobbies are for me. If my woman wants to share in them, I'm happy to teach her. But I'm not going to go actively out and hunt for women who want to do my hobbies with me. I do them when I want to be alone.
I’m not good with people. Just don’t understand them much less women. Plus I never put in the effort for it because I’m retarded. Honestly, I don’t think I’m mentally well enough to try and find someone to settle down with.
People are easy. You want the crash course? Here you go:
1. Everyone is selfish. Stop having expectations.
2. Everyone is going to do the path of least resistance.
3. Everyone is going to do what is easiest for them.
3b. Also, people don't like options and choices. Don't give them any.
4. For women, take everything they say and invert it. Ex. If they say they want a nice guy, be an ass hole to her and she'll let you walk her around on a literal dog leash.
There you go, that's it. Plan and act accordingly. As long as you keep this in mind and don't internalize it and hold hostility against people for acting this way, you'll have great relationships.
Due to life circumstances, I am in a place where I don't know anyone and have no way to meet women organically. The nearest person I know lives on the other side of the continent.
Start being social and things will fall into place. Don't be a NEET. Talk to everyone.
My dad keeps giving him all these literal boomer takes on how to meet women and it's all horribly outdated and ineffective advice. The last thing he made him do is pay to join some dance hall. Almost all the women said that that he was "creepy" and refused to dance with him.
Man up and be a good brother. You teach him. Don't let your dad teach him. You want him to be social and approachable. Autism might be a condition, but you can learn to be less awkward. Teaching him how to approach women isn't impossible.
