Why can't women on dating apps hold a conversation?

Neo-Nazi Rich Evans

Neo-Nazi Rich Evans

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Every single article by a woman about online dating is them complaining that men can't conversation. but so far my experience has been the opposite. getting a woman to give more than a two word reply is like pulling teeth. Like you see something interesting on their profile, something they claim they have a passion for, so after introductions you ask an open ended question about that passion of theirs, and without fail they give a three word response(it's actually only a two word response if you dont count 'lol' as a word) and ends it there. no follow up comments,no further explanations, no asking you questions,just three word reply and waiting on you, the man, to continue to carry all the weight of the conversation. honestly who would ever thought that getting a woman to talk about herself would be so difficult.


my thoughts on it are that it is either them being lazy, wanting the guy to do all the work while they lazily reply back and enjoy the male attention, or the classic case of they are actually only interested in superficials and will happily respond to tyrone's message of "hey bitch want sum fuk?"
the only other thing i can think of is that i am the common denominator and must be something wrong with me, that other guys have no problem getting women to have an actual conversation. have any of you other male kiwis had any similar experiences, or perhapse the exact opposite experience with dating apps?

this and many many other reasons is why i hate online dating, it is a giant scam and should be avoided. online dating apps are fat and i would not have sex with them. i am even more jaded against the modern world.
 
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Imagine you go to a bar and you see a girl standing alone, so you think about talking to her. Before you can someone else walks up and talks to her for a few minutes and leaves. Online dating is that, but instead of one other guy it's 15,000. There's a reason it only works for the above average and obstinate.

If you can't work out how to talk to strangers in public, I recommend drinking heavily and doing cocaine for a few years. You'll figure it out.
 
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Imagine you go to a bar and you see a girl standing alone, so you think about talking to her. Before you can someone else walks up and talks to her for a few minutes and leaves. Online dating is that, but instead of one other guy it's 15,000. There's a reason it only works for the above average and obstinate.

If you can't work out how to talk to strangers in public, I recommend drinking heavily and doing cocaine for a few years. You'll figure it out.
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In your scenario, you've waited your turn and the other guy has left.

Online dating is different because it's like shouting over 50 guys.
 
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Dating Apps are two separate hells, the woman gets fed until she is sickened and the man gets starved until he is spiteful.

They are a failure of procedure, people are supposed to match and leave quickly for a meetup and for two opposite reasons neither gender is largely satisfied after a while and this isn't happening. There should be bars and restaurants linked to Apps, letting you reserve tables and ensuring women that weirdos can be escaped from. It would get the man a date, the woman her safety, and the bar and app their businesses. Instead we get shit, and everyone is touch starved. Even an AI linking people with shared interests and trying to set two people near each other up for a date would be better than we have now.

If it helps, my wife is sick of being pregnant. The baby was due in August but she isn't coming out. So there is a hell constructed for every level of attempt? I don't know, I have to rub her feet before she can sleep so I'm not allowed to be happy either. Life sucks except for the good parts that make it all worth it in the end.
 
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They can, just not with you.
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Aside of this cruel but apparent reply, I think most of people will be kinda dumb when a stranger asks them about their passion. What if I get verbose and seem dumb? What if my hobby is actually laughable as fuck? People want to make right impression and lack autistic self-confidence to state what they truly find intresting. It's the same "tell us about yourself" question from the job interview, most just have no idea what to say.
 
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I'll give you a reply as a True and Honest womb having god fearing "cis" woman, a lot has been answered above but there's some things missing.
Beauty is a pain, men will have certain expectations but you've become shy because you're apparently above average, it puts a lot of pressure on you. There's this saying, "An average girl will be confident in the bedroom, a hot girl doesn't know what to do with herself" - Eleanor Roosevelt, 1984 or whoever the fuck. You put a certain expectation on us that we'll realistically never be able to meet, because we don't see what you see. There's also this "hot and cold" thing, people assume that girls do this on purpose but many times the opposite is true, we're just shy sometimes. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Aside from this, most times we're just not interested in you. The truth is that men and women have way different expectations of each other and to find a balance with this on a dating app of all places is incredibly hard unless you're both attractive and have matching interests. Usually men try to set up a date and we don't want this, we're generally much more introspective and touchy creatures than men, so if we seem hesitant or disinterested, it's usually because of this. What a lot of men, including troons don't understand is that most women are actually very thoughtful and introspective, so this clashes a lot with society's view of women in that the women is an object of beauty.
 
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AUTOEXEC2.BAT said:
I'll give you a reply as a True and Honest womb having god fearing "cis" woman, a lot has been answered above but there's some things missing.
Beauty is a pain, men will have certain expectations but you've become shy because you're apparently above average, it puts a lot of pressure on you. There's this saying, "An average girl will be confident in the bedroom, a hot girl doesn't know what to do with herself" - Eleanor Roosevelt, 1984 or whoever the fuck. You put a certain expectation on us that we'll realistically never be able to meet, because we don't see what you see. There's also this "hot and cold" thing, people assume that girls do this on purpose but many times the opposite is true, we're just shy sometimes. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Aside from this, most times we're just not interested in you. The truth is that men and women have way different expectations of each other and to find a balance with this on a dating app of all places is incredibly hard unless you're both attractive and have matching interests. Usually men try to set up a date and we don't want this, we're generally much more introspective and touchy creatures than men, so if we seem hesitant or disinterested, it's usually because of this. What a lot of men, including troons don't understand is that most women are actually very thoughtful and introspective, so this clashes a lot with society's view of women in that the women is an object of beauty.
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>Go on app specifically designed for setting up dates.
>'Men want to set up dates, which, we generally don't want.'

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C-can you see where some confusion might be found? Because that doesn't sound like introspection, it sounds like being a navel gazing, lazy retard.
 
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C-can you see where some confusion might be found? Because that doesn't sound like introspection, it sounds like being a navel gazing, lazy retard.
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Absolutely, what I mean is that men and women have different ideas and expectations of what dating entails and society tends to push women into the other direction, thus causing this disconnect.
 
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AUTOEXEC2.BAT said:
Absolutely, what I mean is that men and women have different ideas and expectations of what dating entails and society tends to push women into the other direction, thus causing this disconnect.
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Not really no, men want to have relationships with women, women want to have relationships with men. Pretty standard fare. Hookup culture encourages women to behave like a stereotype of men, but by and large I've found that dating in general is pretty much exactly how I expected it to be. Dating apps are a fucking disease sure, but they have nothing actually to do with dating.

'Being able to hold a conversation' and 'being able to set boundaries' are not put upon expectations; they are basic entry requirements to being an adult. If you are incapable of just saying 'Not interested, sorry.' then you're a child, not a woman. If you are incapable of engaging men in basic conversation, then you shouldn't even be on dating apps, you're wasting everyones time.
 
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Women get bombarded with messages and don’t have time to write invested replies to each one. Women are even more cynical than men about online dating because of pushy creeps who won’t take no (or silence) for an answer.

Women are hesitant to respond because some men get weird, and that ruins it for normal men. Go to any women’s site and you’ll see women hate online dating as much as men do. It’s tragic. Online dating looks horrible, I say everyone should walk away from it.
 
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