Why can't women on dating apps hold a conversation?

Johan Schmidt said:
>Go on app specifically designed for setting up dates.
>'Men want to set up dates, which, we generally don't want.'

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C-can you see where some confusion might be found? Because that doesn't sound like introspection, it sounds like being a navel gazing, lazy retard.
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No confusion necessary, that is the introspection.
 
Johan Schmidt said:
Not really no, men want to have relationships with women, women want to have relationships with men. Pretty standard fare. Hookup culture encourages women to behave like a stereotype of men, but by and large I've found that dating in general is pretty much exactly how I expected it to be. Dating apps are a fucking disease sure, but they have nothing actually to do with dating.

'Being able to hold a conversation' and 'being able to set boundaries' are not put upon expectations; they are basic entry requirements to being an adult. If you are incapable of just saying 'Not interested, sorry.' then you're a child, not a woman. If you are incapable of engaging men in basic conversation, then you shouldn't even be on dating apps, you're wasting everyones time.
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Again: Women don't need to employ even the most basic of social skills or effort in these interactions. They are drowning in male attention simply by existing on these apps. So, the woman you are responding to has a very roundabout and frankly woman-ish way of explaining it, but she is basically correct when she says that women usually aren't interested and usually don't actually want dates with the men that they "can't hold a conversation with." Since the app is so over-saturated with so many easy matches, women usually take no interest until/unless they manage to match with someone who strikes them as exceptional.
 
The great thing is I make a lot and am out doing a lot.
Shitty thing is I work from home in one of the most male dominated fields, and my interests are predominantly male; I can count on one hand the number of women in the top 4 activities I do, and ofc they are all with someone.

Shit sucks but it is what it is. The apps are repulsive to me and when out I am usually hanging and engaged with friends - approaching someone random you find attractive used to be easier from what I remember but after the app-pocalypse, it is now close to impossible.

Sorry ladies, continue swiping I guess.
 
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Because dating apps focus on the most common denominator which will always be some basic bland boring shit like "wine, netflix and WaNdErLuSt". Not to mention that if you're getting 346 likes in one hour as a woman you're going to be VERY selective, even if you're a proper braphog. If someone or something doesn't spike your interest immediately(with which most women is going to be something VERY generic or VERY specific with no inbetween), you'd feel like you're wasting time. If someone doesn't seem perfect after a date or two, you're gonna move on because your mind is still with those 346 likes.

Tl;dr
They can hold a conversation, they just won't with you, even if that isn't directly your own fault.
 
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Unyielding Stupidity said:
"Dating" apps are basically meat markets that are almost entirely based on appearance. You could literally be a wife-beating, child-molesting, borderline-retarded crack addict and you'll still get showered in matches as long as you have a nice jawline and a ripped bod.
People use dating apps for sex. That's it. They're hook-up apps. Any conversation that you have on said apps is done in hopes of having sex. If the other person ghosts you, it's because they don't want to have sex with you. There's no substance to any conversations that you have on them.

Or this. Assume most mainstream services are full of bots.
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Usually I assume anyone who seems foreign to my area, not just ethnicity but just comes of off way out of place. For example having views of a skyline from cities not in the part of the country I live in , or just way too good looking I know they are a bot.
 
Flip: Draw 2 said:
Am I an asshole for just using the app to test my odds of getting a goth gf? Shockingly, I have about a 50% success ratio but then I typically just ghost them after they say "Hiii" because I don't feel like talking to them after they boost my ego.
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i dont think you are an asshole for that, just kind of weird.
 
Flip: Draw 2 said:
Am I an asshole for just using the app to test my odds of getting a goth gf? Shockingly, I have about a 50% success ratio but then I typically just ghost them after they say "Hiii" because I don't feel like talking to them after they boost my ego.
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That's what girls use those apps for anyway, so you're just doing what's the norm.
 
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this is basically exactly what i was incompetently talking about in the OP. this has been my experience on dating apps. seeing that it does happen to other guys makes me feel better that it isnt just something about what a loser i am. though im not saying im not a loser, im on kiwifarms after all.
 
They can hold a conversation but only if you are physically beautiful and lets face it, people use dating apps for hookups, not for having actual dates and even if that's the case it's pretty rare nowadays.
 
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This is a predictable result of a hyperspecialised and hypermediated society in which the working class increasingly only interacts with the opposite sex at work as interchangeable functionaries, and at play increasingly only via monetised platforms which encourage unhealthy parasocial relationships and sexual objectification and self-objectification (e.g. Twitch streaming, OnlyFans, porn sites.)

People's prospects for forming reproductive relationships are also being undermined and disrupted by the housing crisis and economic inequality.

Basically the working class in the developed world is being put through a genetic bottleneck by ceaseless economic, cultural, and technological disruption of our lifeways. This is not the deliberate, conscious result of top-down policies as it is the result of out-of-control finance capitalism.

People who have the gall to want both a happy marriage and a decent world to bring their children into are being filtered out of the gene pool because TPTB can make more money selling the guys murder simulators and porn and selling the girls Etsy fandom shit and rainbow flags.
 
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