Wizardchan

[Shadow Fox]

God forbid we have friends and get a life. Then we wouldn't be able to bitch.

Wizards, much like SJWs, have to feel that they are the most oppressed, abused, saddest little clowns in the whole circus. They're not happy unless they have something to complain about.

 

[Null]

Sex is the strawberry on top of the cake, or the last block on the pyramid. It's a sign of completion.
However most of us don't even have a foundation for a pyramid. We're so far away from the end block we look towards the end block because it signifies that we built the rest of it too.

So is wimminz the final boss battle but they can't get past lvl 1?

What they're saying is this: they desire a relationship more than anything, but a relationship can only be earned once you reach a certain level of normality. If you don't have the 'essentials' of a functioning human being (decent aesthetics, a career, education, guile, sense of humor), you can't date. So, while it sucks being a virgin, what they actually want is companionship, which they cant get because of perceived disabling factors. In other words, they can't find a true and honest boyfriend free girl to make a sweetheart from the ground up because the god damn alpha jerks have taken all the women leaving them none left to choose from.

 

[exball]

These Wizards really need to chill out for a little bit. They take things way too seriously

inb4 screencap saying YOU DONT UNDERSTAND ME NORMIE

For any wizards there, stop giving so much of a fuck about being virgin or whatever. I'm a virgin too. I just don't give way too much of a fuck about it like, maybe, some of you do. Just try to chill out and do anything you like. Stop giving too much of a fuck about sex or whatever. While I don't deny sex is a major part of society, it won't make your life better. Just, seriously, chill out. Watch a movie. Take a walk on the park. Just do something that you like.

Lol, Wizards hate fun silly.

 

[Springblossom]

Null mentioned to me in MiniChat that on Wizardchan they don't even allow for users to swap contact information to each other under risk of being banned for seeking friendship. It's not strictly mentioned in the rules so I don't know if it's true (and I'm not going to go to the effort of testing this theory out since I have better things to do than post on Wizardchan) but if it is true it really highlights a major problem with the site. Not only the fear of being "normal" but also not even being allowed to co-mingle with your fellow misfits outside of the site.

Wait, what? Okay, that's all kinds of fucked up. That makes it even worse than I'd thought it was. It's like those horrible third-world countries that keep their lower class poor, so they can't ever leave and have to keep suffering.

 

[Null]

Null mentioned to me in MiniChat that on Wizardchan they don't even allow for users to swap contact information to each other under risk of being banned for seeking friendship. It's not strictly mentioned in the rules so I don't know if it's true (and I'm not going to go to the effort of testing this theory out since I have better things to do than post on Wizardchan) but if it is true it really highlights a major problem with the site. Not only the fear of being "normal" but also not even being allowed to co-mingle with your fellow misfits outside of the site.

[11] == Null [webchat@irc-1d4.aka.uiqokq.IP] has joined #wiz
[11] <Null> Question: is it against the rules to have like a meetup thread?
[11] <gahp> Yes
[11] <gahp> rule 2
[11] <gahp> social activity
[11] <Null> ty

 

[exball]

Not trying to a-log here but, I think every Wizard needs to have the shit kicked out of them. You learn a lot of things when you have your ass kicked.

 

[CatParty]

Not trying to a-log here but, I think every Wizard needs to have the shit kicked out of them. You learn a lot of things when you have your ass kicked.

not a-logging if it's true

 

[Springblossom]

Not trying to a-log here but, I think every Wizard needs to have the shit kicked out of them. You learn a lot of things when you have your ass kicked.

You'd have to make sure they knew it was about being a wizard, though. Having some big dude come up to them on the street and punch their face in would just result in a lot of (hilarious) whining and normie-bashing.

 

[Null]

I don't think beating up on them will solve anything. What they're missing is the understanding that there is happiness to be found with other people, and hurting them kind-of does the exact opposite.

 

[Springblossom]

I don't think beating up on them will solve anything. What they're missing is the understanding that there is happiness to be found with other people, and hurting them kind-of does the exact opposite.

As much as I hate to admit that causing these losers pain is the wrong thing to do, you're right.

 

[tobacky_vapor]

What the wizards truly need are parents that are much less tolerant of their bullshit. I would never want to be a wizard but if i decided to be one i could could never be a wizard, simply because my parents would beat the living crap out of me if I was. And they would force me to go out and socialize a lot with other people or try to develop a life. This is where parenting skill MUST come into play.

 

[Pikonic]

What the wizards truly need are parents that are much less tolerant of their bullshit. I would never want to be a wizard but if i decided to be one i could could never be a wizard, simply because my parents would beat the living crap out of me if I was. And they would force me to go out and socialize a lot with other people or try to develop a life. This is where parenting skill MUST come into play.

Honestly, I'm not too sure about this, I'm sure many of them had normal childhoods and became more recluse when they gained independence/became an adult.

 

[Null]

A lot of them hold low-paying jobs and live on their own. They are just recluses.

 

[tobacky_vapor]

Fair enough, this is a lot trickier then. Obviously someone needs to tell them that this is not how you live life but the question is, how the fuck do you show them they are not worthless slime?

 

[Springblossom]

A lot of them hold low-paying jobs and live on their own. They are just recluses.

Are we talking about the same site? A lot of the ones I'm seeing are kids in their early twenties who are just straight-up NEETs; living with parents, no friends, no schooling beyond high school (if that), nothing going for them.

Of course, you've been in Wizard IRC, and I haven't.

 

[Himawari]

Null mentioned to me in MiniChat that on Wizardchan they don't even allow for users to swap contact information to each other under risk of being banned for seeking friendship. It's not strictly mentioned in the rules so I don't know if it's true (and I'm not going to go to the effort of testing this theory out since I have better things to do than post on Wizardchan) but if it is true it really highlights a major problem with the site. Not only the fear of being "normal" but also not even being allowed to co-mingle with your fellow misfits outside of the site.

[11] == Null [webchat@irc-1d4.aka.uiqokq.IP] has joined #wiz
[11] <Null> Question: is it against the rules to have like a meetup thread?
[11] <gahp> Yes
[11] <gahp> rule 2
[11] <gahp> social activity
[11] <Null> ty

That is terrible and harmful. Not gonna lie, I would actually be willing to hang out and play vidya with any wizard in my area (with the caveat that I'm not interested in any romantic or sexual relationship with them), to offer the companionship and support of someone who has suffered from social anxiety and knows somewhat what it's like. (I'm not pretending that I'd know or understand what it's like to be in their specific situation, because I don't, but I've at least been through something remotely similar.) I'm not qualified or able to help any wizard try to "fix" themselves, of course, but I can at least offer a bit of a friendly presence.

That being a member of Wizardchan means forsaking any sort of social activity in order to belong is horrendous.

 

[Null]

A lot of them hold low-paying jobs and live on their own. They are just recluses.

Are we talking about the same site? A lot of the ones I'm seeing are kids in their early twenties who are just straight-up NEETs; living with parents, no friends, no schooling beyond high school (if that), nothing going for them.

Of course, you've been in Wizard IRC, and I haven't.

I'm not saying that they all, or even the majority, live on their own, but there is a significant number of them that either work online or work for a job that requires no social contact but still earns enough to pay rent. You can't be truly NEET if you're around family.

As far as your definition goes, I live in a city where I don't know anybody, I have no certificate of graduation for highschool or college, and I work online. On an average day I will talk to maybe one person at a store, if I decide to get a coffee. I fit your description better than most people on Wizardchan do. The difference is I have a pretty decent career going for me, and I neither feel inclined to seek nor impossibly far from ever having a relationship. I also got banned from their IRC channel a while back literally for defending a woman's ability to enjoy sex. They were on some rant about how all women are sluts who just really like getting fucked and I meekly pointed out that that doesn't really matter.

Being NEET, living with parents, living with friends, what you do or what level of education you have doesn't place you as one of their lot. You need to truly resent society before you can even try to fit in around them.

That is terrible and harmful. Not gonna lie, I would actually be willing to hang out and play vidya with any wizard in my area (with the caveat that I'm not interested in any romantic or sexual relationship with them), to offer the companionship and support of someone who has suffered from social anxiety and knows somewhat what it's like. (I'm not pretending that I'd know or understand what it's like to be in their specific situation, because I don't, but I've at least been through something remotely similar.) I'm not qualified or able to help any wizard try to "fix" themselves, of course, but I can at least offer a bit of a friendly presence.

That being a member of Wizardchan means forsaking any sort of social activity in order to belong is horrendous.

A lot of them would be pissed if two people hooked up through their board. I mean, if two wizards became friends and accomplished something and posted about it, it would destroy their little bubble. You see meetups in other communities (like cwcki forums lololol) and users are happy and impressed that their little online club managed to change people's lives, but in Wizardchan that makes everyone else miserable.

 

[Springblossom]

A lot of them hold low-paying jobs and live on their own. They are just recluses.

Are we talking about the same site? A lot of the ones I'm seeing are kids in their early twenties who are just straight-up NEETs; living with parents, no friends, no schooling beyond high school (if that), nothing going for them.

Of course, you've been in Wizard IRC, and I haven't.

I'm not saying that they all, or even the majority, live on their own, but there is a significant number of them that either work online or work for a job that requires no social contact but still earns enough to pay rent. You can't be truly NEET if you're around family.

As far as your definition goes, I live in a city where I don't know anybody, I have no certificate of graduation for highschool or college, and I work online. On an average day I will talk to maybe one person at a store, if I decide to get a coffee. I fit your description better than most people on Wizardchan do. The difference is I have a pretty decent career going for me, and I neither feel inclined to seek nor impossibly far from ever having a relationship. I also got banned from their IRC channel a while back literally for defending a woman's ability to enjoy sex. They were on some rant about how all women are sluts who just really like getting fucked and I meekly pointed out that that doesn't really matter.

Being NEET, living with parents, living with friends, what you do or what level of education you have doesn't place you as one of their lot. You need to truly resent society before you can even try to fit in around them.

Oh, yeesh. I'm sorry if I offended anyone. What is it with this thread and me accidentally offending people?

 

[Null]

You didn't offend anybody?

 

[BT 075]

What is it with this thread and me accidentally offending people?

Wizards are people now?