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I don't wholly disagree with your post. I made a similar point earlier with clip of the dude being asked the same question about his daughter. It's a way of bypassing this difference and subjecting a dude to the same threat feeling that he wouldn't otherwise get. But my point in that was to show how fear makes one irrational. The part of your post I quote above is to do with the point of the thread - it's not that people think women don't have to consider their safety, it's that they're being over-taught that men are a threat to the point that many consider a bear less a threat than some random abstract dude.whilst women do because they are taught from a young age that they can be targeted.
And to highlight that irrationality, I also posited (and others reached the same thought) that if you modified the question to be something like "or a Black man", many of those same women would switch their answers right around. Despite there being no logical basis to do so.
So as I said it's not that I wholly disagree with your point but respectfully I think maybe you have missed the point of people's comments here. It's that the man-hate has reached such a level of irrationality.
I'm also going to question one of the assumptions at work here. Which is that women are more in danger from another man than a man is. Of rape? Certainly. Less able to defend herself? In the majority of cases. No argument there. But most violent interactions that lead to injury are between young men. Most homicides are men killing men. A woman walking down a street might get called out to. A man is unlikely to walk up to her and punch her or try to start a fight. But that's happened to me multiple times in my life simply because I'm a man. In clubs, too. Are we suggesting that someone grabbing your ass in a nightclub is worse than someone punching you?