Weight loss support thread

Trying to push past a second plateau right now. I started December 1st at 228 and got down to 212 before hitting a plateau. I pushed through with the carnivore diet, not eating past 7 pm, and kickboxing (not sure which one contributed to the loss) which got me down to 200 but going back to eating regular food and work getting busier has put me back up to 206. Any ideas on what to do to get below 200?
 
Will pepsi max make you gain weight or slow down your weightloss? Besides increasing cravings and such.
 
Will pepsi max make you gain weight or slow down your weightloss? Besides increasing cravings and such.
Diet sodas are great if the alternative would have been you drinking a full-calorie soda. If you can, though, try switching to water, unsweetened carbonated water if you still want fizz, or iced tea if you still want some caffeine.
 
At my heaviest, I was 195lbs but I've been working on it for a couple years. For a while I plateaued at about 145lbs-160lbs but it was still too much weight for me and I still had love handles and excess skin that I wasn't happy with. In the past year I have been using an ab wheel and doing other resistance exercises like leg lifts on top of taking my very active puppy for two walks and we sometimes jog, walk in the deep snow and the first part of our walk is up a hill which can sometimes be tough, especially in the snow. I weighed myself and am now down to 124 lbs! Probably in the best shape that I've ever been but weight loss has been a lot slower in my advanced age.
I've been making sure to increase my protein intake, nut and lean meats. A cup of green tea in the afternoon has been helping keeping me motivated and I think it's supposed to help with weight loss. Also I am always keeping hydrated but 'mo water, is 'mo problems for my pee sized bladder.
 
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Guess I'll do another status report. My weight loss has slowed down a bit. It's not a plateau, but I'm only about 319 lbs. currently. Not discouraged, I suspect my muscle gain is impacting the weight loss (also, I messed up and was eating 2000 cals instead of 1500 for a couple weeks there so it could be that too). I have noticeably more muscle in my arms, legs, and core (the stuff that can show through the flab, anyway). Dropped my getting swole powerlifting dreams: the instructor for my boxing group class can get me some matches and train me to actually fight, so I've exchanged it for being an actual fighter. Swapped over to body weight exercises: push ups, assisted pull ups, assisted dips, core work, more cardio, etc. Can run a mile in 15 minutes fairly handily, want to get it down to 12 next. New plan is otter mode, or at least as close to otter as I can get with my stocky ass build. Down a shirt size, beard's looking fuller, hairline recession less obvious.. Feels good man.

Biggest change so far is my personality. I'm becoming more confident and assertive. I don't have a problem having a short conversation with people I don't know (especially women) and I don't just seethe quietly when someone pisses me off now. I (politely) push back a bit. Might get myself in trouble eventually, but whatever. I feel stronger and more powerful, so fuck the haters. I now have a virulent hatred for all fatty-cope excuses and fat people in general unless they're also taking steps to slim down. It's worse than my hatred for what passes for black culture and Muslims, which is something I never thought would happen. Also developed a musclegirl fetish. Like, just watching a jacked bitch workout turns me on. Must achieve ottermode to get musclegirl QT3.14. More motivation!

Having trouble staying low carb. Sandwiches make up a big part of my diet for brown bagging at work and I still love pasta and rice almost as much as my newfound love for boxing. Any tips or suggestions? The homemade keto bread helps but it's clear cutting down on carbs is going to be my biggest challenge.

Old black lady co-workers commenting on my weight loss. They're shocked when I point out I'm still over 300. Americans really are getting fat as fuck when people believe a dude who's still morbidly obese after losing 40 pounds is close to average. it's really sad...

A friend of mind hit peak fat and got sick of being a fatty too. I've been giving him advice. He's using cosplay as motivation, and AFAIK he's sticking with his 2000 cals a day.
 
Having trouble staying low carb. Sandwiches make up a big part of my diet for brown bagging at work and I still love pasta and rice almost as much as my newfound love for boxing. Any tips or suggestions? The homemade keto bread helps but it's clear cutting down on carbs is going to be my biggest challenge.
It seems like you're on the right track and making a lot of progress. I don't know if I'd make any radical changes unless you really hit a wall; with 1,500-2,000 calories a day you'll definitely lose weight at a good clip just through metabolism alone even if you didn't exercise. Another thing to keep in mind is your blood sugar/insulin resistance is probably pretty screwy still, it wasn't until I got down to 225 or so that I was able to get more aggressive with fasting and carb reduction.

However, one of the things that has gotten me in the past is trying to do too much, too fast and getting burned out.
 
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Greetings to you all, I hope you don’t mind if I share my weight loss story so far.

At my biggest I was 450, it was a combination of sedentary jobs, depression meds and emotional eating that got me here. After trying and failing more diets than I care to admit over the last decade I had a health scare that forced me to severely limit my calories. Weigh in at first consultation (June 2021) I weighed in at close to 430. Day of procedure, roughly five weeks later I was 417. I know a lot of that was water weight (As my dad would say, “I was racing like a piss horse”) but I kept up with the restricted diet and the weight kept falling.

It took me a while to settle on a “Perfect” system: 1200-1500 calories outside of my one cheat day per week with 30 minutes of Fitness Boxing or Just Dance (I couldn’t handle a treadmill masked).

I fully admit during the holidays cheat days were a little more common and it caused me to plateau and that was followed by me overdoing it on exercise in the new year, which led to me aggravating an old back injury in early February, eliminating my activity and setting me up for more emotional eating, I thought. Good news was my back got better in two weeks at my new weight (Last time I was near my heaviest and with the exact same treatment and recovery plan it took nearly four months) and the first post-back injury weigh-in had me down three pounds from my weigh-in day of back injury, so FUCK YEAH!!!

Right now I’m sitting at 367 and my goal is to be below 350 in June, as I’m going to the Heart Attack Grill with some friends and REALLY wanna pay for my meal there.

For those unaware, it’s a gimmick restaurant where they celebrate obesity and everyone over 350lbs eats for free.

My end goal is 220-250, as that’s where I was in high school (I’m 6’5”, for those wondering) and I wanna account for any loose skin as well.

Now that gyms stopped requiring masks I’m gonna be hitting the gym more often and hopefully accelerate my weight loss and I’m also adding in off day fasting to see what that does for me.

Feel free to ask any questions and I’ll answer as best I can.
 
Hi, Kiwis. Let me share a bit of what I'm doing with weight loss. I have some context first. It might come off as bragging a bit, but I want to set the stage for why I want to lose weight so badly. To put my weight into context, I'm right at 6 feet tall.

I got really into playing basketball in the summer between 10th and 11th grade. Unless it was raining, I was out every morning in the summer, either playing pickup games or working on my game. Just by playing every day, I dropped from about 190 to 165. Even though I'd never lifted a weight before, I could jump probably a foot higher than when I started, just from jumping over and over again. I probably could've dunked if I really tried because I could touch the rim and block shots against the backboard (amazing feeling btw), which is impressive for a man of my paleness. I noticed when I came back to school that people had more respect for me, and girls, even ones in 12th grade, paid a lot more attention to me. My autism prevented me from acting on it, but that's besides the point. I got really depressed and that made me not feel like playing anymore, and my weight crept up in the following years.

I'm not sure, but my guess is that my weight peaked at 270 a few years ago. I didn't even want to check, I just knew it was bad. My highest confirmed weight is 255 in December of 2019. I was doing really well with dieting and exercise after that. Then, the pandemic happened and I gained much of it back. After a few half-assed attempts to lose weight again, I decided about three weeks ago that it was time to really buckle down and stick to a plan. I really miss being as athletic as I was. I'm much stronger than I was in high school and still young enough that, even though it will be very difficult, I think I could do some very basic white man dunks if I made a concerted effort. Also, I'm going to Florida in a couple months. I'm not delusional enough to think I really have a shot with the fucking supermodels that'll be on some of the beaches, but I don't want to be seen as a disgusting fatso next to them.

I started at 245 a few days before Valentines Day and I'm at 238 today. My goal is to do intense cardio followed by weight training 3 times a week and play basketball at least once a week. Keep processed and fast food to a bare minimum and eat lots of grilled chicken, fruit, and vegetables. I think dropping to 220 is obtainable given that I have about 2-1/2 months until my vacation. I won't be an Adonis but I'll at least look and feel a lot better.
 
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Exercise. It’s a fun game, it makes me sweat,my arms burn and I’ll always defend Lin as best trainer.
It sure is. I look like I was sitting in the Splash Zone at Sea World when I'm done. Then the body resistance and extra cardio begin...lately, I've been totally soaked when I leave the gym.
 
Ok trying to lose about 10-15 pounds over the next month. Currently about 5 foot 8 and weighing in at 208 pounds. The issue I am having is a high stress job that has me working weekends and most weekdays about 10-14 hours. This leaves little time to workout and meal prep. I have an insane hunger that causes me to snack and my office is 70% women who insist on having unhealthy snacks around the office. I am currently trying the biggest thing that helped me lose over 20 pounds which is not eating past 7 pm, but any ideas for snacks that don't have to be refrigerated or frozen to eat during the day? Something that also doesn't taste like complete ass
 
I'm plateauing hard and Idk what the problem is. Currently 5'9" and about 167ish lbs. Goal is to get down to 150ish while keeping muscle loss to as much a minimum as possible. So that's roughly 17 lbs. This would hopefully get me to the fabled 10-12% bodyfat range.

Issues: weight loss has been a looooot slower than I hoped for over the last two months. I dropped pretty nicely from 176 to 168 over a couple months at the end of 2021 - fighting through injuries and even going for 3-4 drinks with a friend every weekend. I am unsure what exactly I am fucking up NOW. It seems I am fucking bolted to the 167-170 range. The physical effort is there, in fact its better than ever - I am currently averaging 4-5 days a week at muay thai, I only miss it on Sundays and when I have footy practice, which also involves hard cardio; and as the weather warms up I am walking at least a mile everyday around lunch to try to keep my metabolism up during my desk job. I am doing what most normies would consider "intense" cardio 5-6 days a week, so MUST be issues with diet, right?

Breakfast: 3 softboiled eggs, glass of 2%, and coffee with 5-6 tablespoons of cream (I think, rough estimate). This almost never changes, except during the weekend maybe I'll have a bowl of bran flakes + milk instead.
Lunch: salad with balsamic vinaigrette dressing. Mainly spinach, turkey bacon, tiny tomatoes and slices of cheese. 1/2 gallon of water drunk over the work day. Apple.
Dinner: Mishmash of stuff. Sometimes some kind of salad (again, no ranch, just vinaigrette), sometimes breaded fish, sometimes breaded chicken, sometimes a couple servings of chili. Sometimes I'll throw a hot dog in there too. Hard to count calories there. Most likely place I am fucking up.

Beers: 2ish usually over the course of a week when out with a friend or the footy team.
Junk food: hard no, absolutely none with the exception of maybe a snickers every couple weeks around 2-3pm when I am having a particularly shitty day at work

I've done the TDEE calculations, and am targeting roughly 1500 cals a day, putting me at a 500ish/day deficit (probably more considering my almost daily muay thai/footy practice).

I guess I am just not sure what I am fucking up. I can't be THAT filled with shit. I've been at this plateau for more than a month now. There is almost no processed food in my diet at all, the great majority of my liquid intake is water, I drink no juices or sugary shit, in fact I'm at the point where that would probably taste fairly disgusting and even the snickers I occasionally get to cheer me up -- I'm starting to notice that tasting less "good" now. Alcohol - is a couple drinks a week fucking me up THAT badly? I doubt it unless it is fucking with my hormones or some shit - the calorie content just isn't there to really derail me like I have been. I am pretty sure both my breakfast and lunch are under 500 cals each, so unless I am going super overboard with dinners, idk why shit has been so slow to nonexistent.

Fuck man idk, just demoralized right now and need to vent.
 
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any ideas for snacks that don't have to be refrigerated or frozen to eat during the day? Something that also doesn't taste like complete ass

Don't know if you have these in your part of the world, but these are great imo: https://www.itsu.com/grocery/products/snacks/crispy-seaweed-thins-wasabi/

No need to refrigerate, strong flavour (for that one anyway. It comes in a few different flavours) low cal, low carb, swells slightly in stomach, nutritious.

Bit pricey and might not leave you feeling all that full depending on what you're used to are the potential downsides I guess.
 
Don't know if you have these in your part of the world, but these are great imo: https://www.itsu.com/grocery/products/snacks/crispy-seaweed-thins-wasabi/

No need to refrigerate, strong flavour (for that one anyway. It comes in a few different flavours) low cal, low carb, swells slightly in stomach, nutritious.

Bit pricey and might not leave you feeling all that full depending on what you're used to are the potential downsides I guess.
It might be available at whole foods but I don't normally go shopping there. Might have to try there or trader joes
 
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After a few wobbles and plateaus this year, I'm now finally less than half a stone from my goal (to be right in the middle of the healthy BMI range) Looking back on it all and realising that's almost half of my highest weight!

The loose skin bugs me sometimes, but it's worth it and I'd probably have some post-partum regardless. The freedom to move this body around like I haven't been able to for years is amazing and I feel like I'm not at as much of a risk of leaving my daughter motherless too early.

I'm pretty excited. It feels like I'm actually going to make it!

EDIT: Sorry about the double post. I didn't realise that I was the last person to comment on this thread
 
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