Flea Man Marbles
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Source: my ass
In case you haven't noticed normal people pump out tard babies and autismos at a pretty alarming rate. We should just ban all sex following this logic.
Age Gap Relationships - You can't stop me from doing your grandma... but I'll stop myself, because I respect you
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Look at her post history.
She's alarmingly afraid of having kids and copes with this kind of post and thinks guys dating younger girls are pedos.
In that thread she argued that a couple are pedos if they have a little young/mature roleplay session and if the woman calls her bf daddy.
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Never said it was a guarantee, just that the increased risk is there. It's significant enough to take at least somewhat seriously.
Autism stats are also completely fucking out of control.
Ser Prize
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Autism stats are out of control yet people are generally marrying and pumping out babies in your supposed 'optimum' period? Something isn't adding up, my dear.
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Also doubt @Nonconsentual Pronouns got a fresh optimal pussy herself.
She's fat I would not have sex with her
TheGoodNamesHaveBeenTaken
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What I wonder about with the old man/ young woman relationships is the fact that women tend to live longer than men.
If the man has a lot of money this isn't really an issue.
He dies and wifey buys herself a young stud (or rents several) and gets to see what life is like on the other side of the equation.
If you are an old rich guy with a young wife I wonder if it possible to set it up that she must have a prenup if she remarries after your death?
I get that you would be dead and not care but it would be a hell of a thing to watch from the afterlife as your former wife gets taken to the cleaners by Jamal.
As long as the old man with the young wife accepts that he will probably die first and provides for his young bride (life insurance, money in the bank or whatever) I don't see a real problem with it. It used to be pretty common.
If the man has a lot of money this isn't really an issue.
He dies and wifey buys herself a young stud (or rents several) and gets to see what life is like on the other side of the equation.
If you are an old rich guy with a young wife I wonder if it possible to set it up that she must have a prenup if she remarries after your death?
I get that you would be dead and not care but it would be a hell of a thing to watch from the afterlife as your former wife gets taken to the cleaners by Jamal.
As long as the old man with the young wife accepts that he will probably die first and provides for his young bride (life insurance, money in the bank or whatever) I don't see a real problem with it. It used to be pretty common.
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Alright, I'm willing to argue for older women and younger men.
See, the thing is that as a man when you deal with a younger woman, there's an expectation there. You have to be established to some extent and usually younger women anticipate that it'll go somewhere, so you almost feel like you have to take it seriously or you're taking advantage of her.
If you're with an older woman she probably has her shit all in order, she can take care of herself, and you both kind of know the score and that you're probably not going to be settling down with her. You aren't compromising the virtue of some naive girl. In fact in the past it wasn't that uncommon for older women to pursue casual relationships with younger men.
It's not really my cup of tea, but the OG pimp Ben Franklin knew the value of banging older women, and if it was good enough for the founding fathers then it's good enough for us.
Anyways, the old rule for age gap is half your age +7, so if you're 30 that means you could be with down to a 22 year old, you're 50 you could be with a 32 year old. That seems reasonable to me.
See, the thing is that as a man when you deal with a younger woman, there's an expectation there. You have to be established to some extent and usually younger women anticipate that it'll go somewhere, so you almost feel like you have to take it seriously or you're taking advantage of her.
If you're with an older woman she probably has her shit all in order, she can take care of herself, and you both kind of know the score and that you're probably not going to be settling down with her. You aren't compromising the virtue of some naive girl. In fact in the past it wasn't that uncommon for older women to pursue casual relationships with younger men.
It's not really my cup of tea, but the OG pimp Ben Franklin knew the value of banging older women, and if it was good enough for the founding fathers then it's good enough for us.
Anyways, the old rule for age gap is half your age +7, so if you're 30 that means you could be with down to a 22 year old, you're 50 you could be with a 32 year old. That seems reasonable to me.
I think recent events must be driving the terfs insane, they've been real touchy as of late.
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I feel like a lot of demographic factors just help make sure you have something to talk about. Honestly can’t imagine trying to have a relationship with someone outside my actual generation so really a 5 year swing tops. Or from somewhere else. I hate the idea of dating someone who grew up in another country, where there’s a foreign accent or any language barrier of any sort. I hate the exotic, I like local and known, well understood, similar to me.
I assume that when there’s a large age gap, neither party finds having something to talk about important lol. Same with foreigners and ESL speakers, I assume if you're dating someone whose first language is not the same as yours that you don’t care whether you understand one another or not.
I can see how if you’re an older person male or female who worked hard and is at that relax and enjoy your success point, if you’re not married or if you’re divorced, a much younger person might seem just like...recreation? Like if they’re untroubled, have a sunny disposition, are always excited to see you, are fun to come home to just to find out about their silly day where nothing important happened except that it was important to THEM and they’re very cute, and somehow you aren’t creeped out by how that dynamic is exactly what it’s like to come home to your child or your dog.
I assume that when there’s a large age gap, neither party finds having something to talk about important lol. Same with foreigners and ESL speakers, I assume if you're dating someone whose first language is not the same as yours that you don’t care whether you understand one another or not.
I can see how if you’re an older person male or female who worked hard and is at that relax and enjoy your success point, if you’re not married or if you’re divorced, a much younger person might seem just like...recreation? Like if they’re untroubled, have a sunny disposition, are always excited to see you, are fun to come home to just to find out about their silly day where nothing important happened except that it was important to THEM and they’re very cute, and somehow you aren’t creeped out by how that dynamic is exactly what it’s like to come home to your child or your dog.
Johan Schmidt
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I'm 27, and I've dated 18 year olds with no real issue. My rule of thumb is that men are fine dating younger women, and women are fine dating older men; but that the reverse is not true. Older women with younger men is weird.
Petronella
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My boyfriend is almost 20 years older than me and it's easily the most positive relationship I've ever had. Though I've always gone for older (than me) men anyway.
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Knew a couple of siblings from middle school to high school whose father was 13 years older than their mother, and they had a happy marriage with several kids before he died. It sounded weird to me back then, but it wasn't something I could fully comprehend at the time since every other couple I knew were relatively the same age as each other. That was such the norm for me that for years I thought for certain that the man had to be older than his wife even if just by a few months (I didn't realize at the time my grandmother was actually a few months older than my grandfather, but they were about the same age anyway). This became a bit of a conundrum for me later down the road because I'm the eldest of six but I only have brothers, and so I knew I couldn't date a guy two years younger than me lest my big sister mode kicked in.
Funny how things work out: My fiancé is a year younger than me, but he's so much bigger than I am and I look so much younger than I am that I'm pretty certain we're being mistaken for father-daughter more often than not, although we look nothing alike. We joke we might get the cops called on us so I always have my license at the ready.
As to why people on the Internet freak the fuck out over age gaps so badly to the point an 18-year-old dating a 17-year-old is considered pedophilia in their eyes, it could be daddy issues, but it could be the result of stranger danger PSAs that were browbeaten into us. You can't be friendly with anyone older or younger than you anymore without being labeled a predator (stranger danger was meant to teach you to be more aware, not to be afraid of people, but PSAs don't always work as intended), and this can extend to dating. On an observational level, this could also be an autistic thing that needed to be rewired upon hitting adulthood, it's just most of them don't realize this until it's too late to form meaningful relationships with your peers and coworkers out in the workforce.
Then again, the number of people who have one-night stands so flippantly discredit that idea and just further proves people's sense of danger is too subdued for some ungodly reason, but it still doesn't explain why so many of them screech over age gaps at the drop of a hat. Everything about the concept of relationships is completely warped, just a pat on the shoulder can get someone accused of rape nowadays.
Funny how things work out: My fiancé is a year younger than me, but he's so much bigger than I am and I look so much younger than I am that I'm pretty certain we're being mistaken for father-daughter more often than not, although we look nothing alike. We joke we might get the cops called on us so I always have my license at the ready.
As to why people on the Internet freak the fuck out over age gaps so badly to the point an 18-year-old dating a 17-year-old is considered pedophilia in their eyes, it could be daddy issues, but it could be the result of stranger danger PSAs that were browbeaten into us. You can't be friendly with anyone older or younger than you anymore without being labeled a predator (stranger danger was meant to teach you to be more aware, not to be afraid of people, but PSAs don't always work as intended), and this can extend to dating. On an observational level, this could also be an autistic thing that needed to be rewired upon hitting adulthood, it's just most of them don't realize this until it's too late to form meaningful relationships with your peers and coworkers out in the workforce.
Then again, the number of people who have one-night stands so flippantly discredit that idea and just further proves people's sense of danger is too subdued for some ungodly reason, but it still doesn't explain why so many of them screech over age gaps at the drop of a hat. Everything about the concept of relationships is completely warped, just a pat on the shoulder can get someone accused of rape nowadays.
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>has an obsession with teenager girls
>College freshmen
The nu-west is generally retarded, but if I had to pick one thing which is the most bizarre and arbitrary shit I've ever seen it would be the juxtaposition of, on the one hand, acting like a mid-20s dude dating an 18-19 yo girl is pedophilia, but on the other hand, having no issue whatsoever with just overt child grooming.
Kiwisee
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Depends.
I can’t see myself dating anyone less than five years younger than me because of how retarded/terminally online the Zoomer generation is. Hearing them spew phrases from Tik Tok videos in real life just seals the deal for me, because I’d die from constant second hand embarrassment.
On the other hand, I’m fine with dating someone ten years older than me because I feel as though we could have actual conversations about stuff that matters.
I can’t see myself dating anyone less than five years younger than me because of how retarded/terminally online the Zoomer generation is. Hearing them spew phrases from Tik Tok videos in real life just seals the deal for me, because I’d die from constant second hand embarrassment.
On the other hand, I’m fine with dating someone ten years older than me because I feel as though we could have actual conversations about stuff that matters.
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Not to powerlevel, but what do you have in common? I'm in my late 20s and 18 year old girls are just alien to me. We have nothing in common and I can't imagine relating to the zoomer generation and it makes me think I probably wont understand future generations either. While I may not get along with millenials we can atleast understand eachother, but I find other generations to be weird and don't get how people can date between generations.
My hypothesis is that some people just use the age stuff as an excuse because they are miserable. In Sweden refugees were fine, then Swedish men ignored Swedish women in favour of Thai women, suddenly they wanted a limit on the number of Thai women in Sweden and everyone had to be checked. I get sex tourism and mail brides exist and are bad, but it was clear the Swedish women were unhappy.
Another example is some news articles talking about how people should have an affair to feel young and sexy. Which would just destroy the relationship.
Feminists hate stay at home moms and motherhood in general. Now we have articles of feminists hating their childless status.
People saying you need to sleep around to "find yourself" instead of holding off sex. Then they cry about how romance is dead.
"Vanilla" sex is bad, you need to have some gross BDSM shit or else it's boring. Now more women complain about how fucked up some elements of their sex life are due to porn culture.
I think all of it is just miserable people who are trying to get others to be as miserable as them. Don't form meaningful relationships, make sex casual so it can't be romantic, having a family is bad working is better, expect people to love you despite rampant hypocrisy (MGTOW marry virgins only, but sleep around yourself), cheat on your partner because they are probably cheating on you, etc. The age gap just lets them see a happy couple and say they are only superficially happy due to one side abusing the other, therefore they are also miserable. You don't need to know about the people just they are age X and Y, therefore it's bad and their love is fake so you can feel better being lonely, childless and unable to enjoy sex unless you have crocodile clips on your junk.
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I've dated girls my age and even older women. There's nothing interesting about the things they have to say since they mostly talk pop culture and gossip. At least with younger girls you can shape their pop culture interest to be more similar to yours. And eventually you start hearing when they bring up actual serious things or red flags
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In my experience, fundamentally a lot of people are just like this regardless of age, and you notice it more when vetting romantic partners. Especially with how faggy people are about politics these days, and how it comes up all the goddamn time, you get a pretty quick sense of how people think about deeper topics. I suspect very few people go from being complete niggercattle at 20 to freethinker chads at 30 (there's some shift, but I bet it's a lot more incremental than that).
I dated my last girlfriend from her early 20s to her basically being 30 (wall joke lmao), and I almost feel like her opinions got more retarded as time went on, but with the honesty of hindsight I think she always thought the same way and I just glossed over it because I cared about her and wanted to think well of her. And, similarly, I have to admit that a number of my good IRL friends are kind of retarded in the same way - they bring up the news story of the day, chime in "haha republicans bad am i right", and circlejerk about it without really discussing anything meaningful for the most part. They mostly love the new pop culture thing, some of them even use Twitter, it's a disaster.
But the thing is that we have enough in common and get along, they're my good friends and despite it all there aren't really any problems. But once you have to tolerate someone constantly to cum in them, and eventually for like 8+ hours every day when you live with them, the list of things you can deal with goes way the fuck down. My friends can be retarded on their own time, but if my girlfriend starts watching TikTok for an hour+ each day, living in a monastery starts looking real good.
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I don't personally think it's smart to go outside your own generation or to go under approximately 20 years old when you're nearing or over 30, half your age plus 7 isn't a thing for no reason, but at the end of the day it really depends on the people in the relationship. For some people it can work, for some it can't.
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It's a meme from Friends.
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People try to make the risk of autistic children the same between old men and women but it's simply not true. A 65 year old man has the same risk of defects as a 25 year old women (may be 30).
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It depends on the age, too. An 85 year old dating a 70 year old is way different than a 33 year old dating an 18 year old.
I prefer women +/- about 3 years of myself, I'd maybe stretch it a bit more if it was the right woman. Any more than that and I think the different experiences and stages in life would be a bit much.
I prefer women +/- about 3 years of myself, I'd maybe stretch it a bit more if it was the right woman. Any more than that and I think the different experiences and stages in life would be a bit much.