Off-Topic Losing people to transgenderism support thread - Support group for trans widows and other people who lost loved ones to troonism

[Mrs. Addams]

Slowly back out of his life making no sudden movements.

I'm in the unfortunately position of being pretty much the only friend he has left. I'm trying to build him a safety net before I bail so he doesn't become the latest homeless prostitute on skid row.

Update on this, I guess.

Spoiler: Something else

I have someone I've been friends with for about 3 years online now. Say what you will about online friendships, but we're very close. She thinks she's a man and mentioned to me how "the right wants to kill" her, and how evil Florida man laws are hurting her (she's not even in Florida.) Mentions how kids should transition and how her not transitioning gave her PTSD, major depressive disorder and anxiety. Pretty sure she hates me now for not agreeing and sticking by my beliefs.

I've noticed that from my leftest friends too. The right is *definitely out to kill them all*. My rightest friends are like, "Lol, we're what?" Nobody's making the two groups talk or see each other as human and I feel like this is a problem.

 

[LinkinParkxNaruto[AMV]]

I've noticed that from my leftest friends too. The right is *definitely out to kill them all*. My rightest friends are like, "Lol, we're what?" Nobody's making the two groups talk or see each other as human and I feel like this is a problem.

If you are trans yeah, people wishing genocide is a couple clicks away, same as rightoids who are looking to read the ultimate soys validating every paranoid talking point, if you only go by the internet it is extremely easy to find living proof of the strawman you are looking for and people are shaping their worldview on internet experience. It will get worse.

 

[Helvetia]

i just found out my roommate has been swapping my birth control pills for sugar pills so he doesn't have to pay for hrt. he's been saying i've been acting erratically and making fun of the fact my periods have been getting heavier and this motherfucker is the fucking cause of it. he's been stealing my fucking heels, my underwear, my goddamn bras and padding all to go out and flaunt how he's trans now.

i genuinely feel sick, and i'm not particularly bothered about trans people. he's trying to become me, but with a cock. and it's fucking terrifying.

 

[Load Bearing Drywall]

i just found out my roommate has been swapping my birth control pills for sugar pills so he doesn't have to pay for hrt. he's been saying i've been acting erratically and making fun of the fact my periods have been getting heavier and this motherfucker is the fucking cause of it. he's been stealing my fucking heels, my underwear, my goddamn bras and padding all to go out and flaunt how he's trans now.

i genuinely feel sick, and i'm not particularly bothered about trans people. he's trying to become me, but with a cock. and it's fucking terrifying.

You need to move immediately and file a police report for stealing/tampering with your medication. This is beyond creepy roommate, this is a serious escalation from sociopathic predator.

 

[teriyakiburns]

i just found out my roommate has been swapping my birth control pills for sugar pills so he doesn't have to pay for hrt. he's been saying i've been acting erratically and making fun of the fact my periods have been getting heavier and this motherfucker is the fucking cause of it. he's been stealing my fucking heels, my underwear, my goddamn bras and padding all to go out and flaunt how he's trans now.

i genuinely feel sick, and i'm not particularly bothered about trans people. he's trying to become me, but with a cock. and it's fucking terrifying.

Is your name on the lease?

 

[Helvetia]

You need to move immediately and file a police report for stealing/tampering with your medication.

i'll have to report him to the police before i can move due to the lease. it's just rattled me so bad and every time i've tried to speak to the other tenants or some of my friends, they're telling me to be understanding and that it's a "difficult time" for him.

 

[Vingle]

i'll have to report him to the police before i can move due to the lease. it's just rattled me so bad and every time i've tried to speak to the other tenants or some of my friends, they're telling me to be understanding and that it's a "difficult time" for him.

Please please report! You’re lucky these weren’t medicines for you to not die.

 

[frippery]

i just found out my roommate has been swapping my birth control pills for sugar pills so he doesn't have to pay for hrt. he's been saying i've been acting erratically and making fun of the fact my periods have been getting heavier and this motherfucker is the fucking cause of it. he's been stealing my fucking heels, my underwear, my goddamn bras and padding all to go out and flaunt how he's trans now.

i genuinely feel sick, and i'm not particularly bothered about trans people. he's trying to become me, but with a cock. and it's fucking terrifying.

How did he even do this? All birth control pills I've taken have been blister/foil packed.

 

[Load Bearing Drywall]

i'll have to report him to the police before i can move due to the lease. it's just rattled me so bad and every time i've tried to speak to the other tenants or some of my friends, they're telling me to be understanding and that it's a "difficult time" for him.

These people aren't your friends, and they'd rather you take the bullet so they don't have to.

When you report him, don't even mention he's "trans" - stick to the facts, your pervert roommate has been stealing your panties and bras and has now escalated to tampering with your medication and you fear for your safety and health.

 

[Helvetia]

How did he even do this? All birth control pills I've taken have been blister/foil packed.

i pop mine out and into a holder like this.

Please please report! You’re lucky these weren’t medicines for you to not die.

they're to prevent needing a hysterectomy, they've got an elevated amount of estrogen for that reason and unfortunately that level is also the average dosage for hrt.

 

[frippery]

i pop mine out and into a holder like this.


they're to prevent needing a hysterectomy, they've got an elevated amount of estrogen for that reason and unfortunately that level is also the average dosage for hrt.

Yeah time to call the fucking police. Fuck your dumb friends for being so awful to you.

 

[Corn Flakes]

i just found out my roommate has been swapping my birth control pills for sugar pills so he doesn't have to pay for hrt. he's been saying i've been acting erratically and making fun of the fact my periods have been getting heavier and this motherfucker is the fucking cause of it. he's been stealing my fucking heels, my underwear, my goddamn bras and padding all to go out and flaunt how he's trans now.

i genuinely feel sick, and i'm not particularly bothered about trans people. he's trying to become me, but with a cock. and it's fucking terrifying.

Pretty sure that's a criminal offense. Call the police on his ass.

 

[NerdShamer]

i just found out my roommate has been swapping my birth control pills for sugar pills so he doesn't have to pay for hrt. he's been saying i've been acting erratically and making fun of the fact my periods have been getting heavier and this motherfucker is the fucking cause of it. he's been stealing my fucking heels, my underwear, my goddamn bras and padding all to go out and flaunt how he's trans now.

What happened to installing an deadbolt to your bedroom?

 

[glass_houses]

i just found out my roommate has been swapping my birth control pills for sugar pills so he doesn't have to pay for hrt. he's been saying i've been acting erratically and making fun of the fact my periods have been getting heavier and this motherfucker is the fucking cause of it. he's been stealing my fucking heels, my underwear, my goddamn bras and padding all to go out and flaunt how he's trans now.

i genuinely feel sick, and i'm not particularly bothered about trans people. he's trying to become me, but with a cock. and it's fucking terrifying.

Holy fucking shit, that's right up there with the most horrifying shit I've ever heard. You need to get away from him, and from those freaks enabling him. I strongly advise telling your chemist what's going on. If you manage to stop him from stealing the pills directly from you, there's a good chance he'll escalate by going straight to the source and trying to hijack your prescription.

Get a deadbolt for your door, tell your landlord about what's going on, and try to get out of there asap. He's skinwalking you, stealing your medication, and trying to co-opt your identity. There's a decent chance he may become violent if you take steps to stop him from getting his validation.

Also get a nice, pretty, sexy pair of new knickers, soak them in Carolina Reaper juice, and 'accidentally' leave them out where he can get to them.

 

[Bobsmyuncle]

I let a coworker live in my house rent free after he got fired from a fast food place that we both worked at.
I was letting him live rent free in hopes that he would be able to find a job and move out as quickly as possible.
I even helped him get a job at another fast food place that i worked at. He was fired from that job after a few months. He went through like 5 or 6 fast food jobs while living with me, he was fired from all of them.
I helped him get into the local junior college to help him get a better career and move out. He didnt go to his classes stating they were too triggering. He decided to study psychology and he had been molested by his older bro while growing up.
After 3 or 4 years of this i was finally at the end of my rope. I am epileptic and i was working 6pm-2am and going to a local university. I was having seizures due to how much stress i was under.
The last straw was when he decided he was trans and wanted to concentrate on transitioning instead of getting the fuck out. He started taking hormones and going through that second puberty shit that happens when you do that. I did not agree to having to deal with that.
My bf accidentally walked in on him in the bathroom and said "there's a lock dude." This made the faggit rush out of the bathroom and said we had our own bathroom and claimed my bf misgendered him because he called him dude. We live in southern cali. Everybodys a dude here.
Ontop of all this shit my dog that i had from childhood was dying and i had told him i was going through tough times so if he could keep the hostility down for a couple weeks i would really appreciate it. He said something like "it doesnt matter that your dog is dying."
I was over it. I called the police to get him kicked out and they said i had to give him 2 weeks. Luckily he left the next day. Now he claims he was kicked out illegally because we were transphobic.

He was such an entitled asshole. He would spend his time on his phone and laptop playing games and such. He had people sending gifts to our house and at one time the cops showed up at our door because somebody on the internet thought he was suicidal.

 

[Rich Evans Ayypologist]

It never starts out that bad. It's a mindfuck to realize that someone is, on some level, enjoying their problems.

So most people by now know about the concept of learned helplessness, but imagine that coupled with a form of stockholm syndrome in which your captor is not so much a person as an idea. That seems to be the avenue through which most of these people function, and why wending them away from it is so difficult: their captor is of their own creation, rather than something external, but there are endless amounts of people out there who will drop everything to insist that their captor is very real -- and then the familiarity and fondness to 'cope' with it emerges. They're as oblivious as someone with stockholm's normally is.

And now he's taking street adderall and I don't know if he has a fentanyl kit.

lol yeah look he's gonna be dead if he's doing that, there's kindof fuckall you can do

start pruning the remaining ties now rather than when someone hands you the "natural causes" obituary

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[Procrastinhater]

i just found out my roommate has been swapping my birth control pills for sugar pills so he doesn't have to pay for hrt. he's been saying i've been acting erratically and making fun of the fact my periods have been getting heavier and this motherfucker is the fucking cause of it. he's been stealing my fucking heels, my underwear, my goddamn bras and padding all to go out and flaunt how he's trans now.

i genuinely feel sick, and i'm not particularly bothered about trans people. he's trying to become me, but with a cock. and it's fucking terrifying.

I second what the other posters here have told you - you need to press charges.
This is not ok.

Tampering with someones medicine as far as I'm aware is actually a  Federal crime with a ten year sentence.

That's not the main issue though, this is incredibly fucked up and creepy and stealing and swapping your medicine is a huge escalation.
You need to get a deadlock on your door for a start, in fact if its within your budget I would consult a fucking lawyer and explain the situation and tell them you are worried for your safety and get a restraining order.
I'm not joking or exaggerating, this is a fucking sicko who is skinwalking you, and stealing your medication and it sounds like its for a serious issue, if he knows this he's a fucking sick psychopathic son of a bitch.
Is his name on the lease?
I would set things up on the quiet as quickly as you can, talk to your landlord, see about a restraining order, and then report him to the police.
First of all you need that lock.
And make sure you have a (preferably male) friend you trust, if not actual LEO with you before you confront him, because these people are deranged and he could get violent.
I'm not trying to blow this out of proportion or scare you, but what you have said is extremely concerning.
If your "friends" know what you said here and are telling you to be patient, they are not real friends.
This is NOT ok.
Tampering with your medication would be bad enough if it was just for birth control but if he knows about your medical condition its beyond fucked up.
You need to get things set up without tipping him off and get this sick AGP fuck out of your home.
I'd make a lotion in the basket joke but this isn't something to joke about.
Be safe.

 

[Helvetia]

so i've followed everyone's advice and reported him to the police, he's gone crying to some tranny lawyers apparently but has been served with an emergency eviction notice.

i wouldn't be as mad but i just found out he SOLD MY FUCKING GOLDEN GIRLS DVD BOX SET. fuck the medicine tampering, fuck the identity theft, fuck him wanting to cut his cock off, he sold my golden girls dvd box set. if this goes to court yall are invited to throw fucking eggs.

 

[Procrastinhater]

i wouldn't be as mad but i just found out he SOLD MY FUCKING GOLDEN GIRLS DVD BOX SET.

The motherfucker crossed a line.

 

[frippery]

so i've followed everyone's advice and reported him to the police, he's gone crying to some tranny lawyers apparently but has been served with an emergency eviction notice.

i wouldn't be as mad but i just found out he SOLD MY FUCKING GOLDEN GIRLS DVD BOX SET. fuck the medicine tampering, fuck the identity theft, fuck him wanting to cut his cock off, he sold my golden girls dvd box set. if this goes to court yall are invited to throw fucking eggs.

Good on the first part. The second part sucks but that's what's like to live with a drug addict as well. Things can be replaced but your sense of security and safety isn't so easily refilled. Good luck and keep us posted.