@MirrorNoir
You know, I had watched the second episode and that additional background still didn't really click for me as a reason to stiff-arm your father so badly though. Child of divorce, he barely ever saw him anyway, maybe it's different when you don't grow up with your father. That bar scene was pretty good Frasier farce, but I wish he had someone else to work off of, that stuff only works when there's pacing and chemistry. Your Night Court point applies here, maybe the cast just isn't right or hasn't gelled yet, but shows don't really get three seasons to figure it out anymore.
I'm definitely checking out Night Court again on your rec - I was leery of how they'd do Dan's character so I didn't want to get too invested. In the first season he was more of a snooty Frasier type than a hornball. Wow, that show really got given a lot of time to figure itself out.