This spoke to me a little bit, because having dealt with abusive women myself there is very little in the way of general positivity towards men. Men are usually seen as the simpler gender with the simpler needs, which can be funny and I've seen that joke mostly from men, but the underlying problem I think is that most men are seen as low maintenance so emotional support or abuse resources are hard to come by. I understand why, women are abused more in general, it sucks, but it also means that men who are abused rarely get an outlet for their problems.
It puts a lot of awful things in your head when you are told that your sex is the stronger and more privileged one, with more going for you and more opportunities, but you are made to feel weak and worthless by the opposite sex. Especially if it's a parent or guardian. Combine this with the ease that other people have forming relationships, and the lack of solidarity among a lot of men, it can make you feel completely isolated.