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I had an apron that said “Lick Mah Balls” on it so I think that counts.
Are you lost needing femoid advice post here - For the poor bastard's who dare or are just curious
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Why does one have to have endless hobbies? Feels like box-ticking
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my last gf ended up with a whole box of my drawings and random art gifts i made for her and i really regretted doing that. You end up attaching that person to it then when things go sour it ruins it for you.
Generally i have a crappy track record when it comes to drawing women i am close to and would rather not do it again.
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This is a classic woman trap, thinking that being a woman gives you any insight into how to seduce a woman. That's simply not the case. Women have no idea what they want, you can ask them all day and they'll all give you different answers and they'll all be wrong.
The people to ask about how to seduce women are men that have seduced a lot of women. But they often don't know what they're doing and will often lie about what they're doing because it looks pathetic from the outside.
Having lived with a friend who's slept with on the order of 40 women in the last few years, I've gathered three things.
A: The most important thing is to seem as non-threatening as possible. This is way more important than being interesting or cool or having an "aesthetic".
B: You need to act like the woman you're seducing is the most interesting person alive, fawn over her, and present her with no friction whatsoever.
C: Women in their 20s care about whether you're attractive, and in their 30s they care if you have money.
All this bullshit about "just being clean" or appealing to whatever Tumblr fujobait aesthetic is in right now is woman cope from feminist Ovarit refugees who can't cope with the idea that women are as shallow as men. The most funny, interesting, aesthetic, and clean guys I know have a terrible time with women if they're not also tall, hot, wealthy, and above all, willing to shamelessly lie about how interesting they find some chick without doing anything to threaten her vanity.
Once you have figured out this algorithm, you just have to run it on women over and over again until you find one that's ovulating, skipped her antidepressants, recently had a breakup, or has been watching a lot of tiktoks about entering her "slut era". If it sounds pathetic, that's because it is; it's men's dignity more than anything that gets between them and having women.
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To seduce a woman, you just got to gamble if you capture her interest. No one really knows what they want because thoughts are never the same consistently and you just got to be lucky and in the right moment.
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Not sure if you're asking in the context of a relationship, casual dating or just everyday interactions, so broadly:
Literally just communicate, and be forthcoming in your communication. Whether it's about something that's upsetting you or something you feel is lacking or the reason you don't want to see someone anymore (or even the fact that you don't want to see someone anymore), be brave and honest enough to have a conversation about it. If you leave it to us to guess, we will guess wrong, and those misattributions are where I see men get hung up the most, myself included.
Doubly so if there's something we're doing that's making you happy or something that you're grateful for. It makes our day. Especially in an established relationship.
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After becoming too used to seeing the gender wars across the (Wo)Man Hate Threads, A&N, BP, etc. and also across social media in general, seeing this thread is a breath of fresh air.
I firmly believe in the the male loneliness epidemic, that the high amount of single men is a very bad sign for society, that dating apps played a large part ruining dating, and so forth. But I also think it's a confidence crisis as much as anything and society's pretty much made being a normal man...unfashionable, to put it charitably. It's unfortunate men have become so inured across both social and traditional media to men being laughed at at best as bumbling idiots to demonization by open misandrists who never really get shot down, while seeing statements on the opposite sex get cancel culture rolling or discovering a lack of men-only spaces to build themselves up in, that it's led to what you stated across a distressingly high amount of them. To too many it feels like there's no point to fighting to make things or even oneself better when it feels like you'll be shot down for speaking up, or when a woman can use or abuse you on a personal/emotional level and generally get away with it.
I'm extremely aware that men will do the same to women, BTW, that use-and-abuse. Of course I am! But I'm speaking on and for guys here in terms of confidence and self-esteem atm and to try to tilt away from that will only prove my point. This is why I applaud you for saying this. Seeing regular everyday men get positivity from a woman feels rare enough in today's world it seems like an outlier worth mentioning.
I firmly believe in the the male loneliness epidemic, that the high amount of single men is a very bad sign for society, that dating apps played a large part ruining dating, and so forth. But I also think it's a confidence crisis as much as anything and society's pretty much made being a normal man...unfashionable, to put it charitably. It's unfortunate men have become so inured across both social and traditional media to men being laughed at at best as bumbling idiots to demonization by open misandrists who never really get shot down, while seeing statements on the opposite sex get cancel culture rolling or discovering a lack of men-only spaces to build themselves up in, that it's led to what you stated across a distressingly high amount of them. To too many it feels like there's no point to fighting to make things or even oneself better when it feels like you'll be shot down for speaking up, or when a woman can use or abuse you on a personal/emotional level and generally get away with it.
I'm extremely aware that men will do the same to women, BTW, that use-and-abuse. Of course I am! But I'm speaking on and for guys here in terms of confidence and self-esteem atm and to try to tilt away from that will only prove my point. This is why I applaud you for saying this. Seeing regular everyday men get positivity from a woman feels rare enough in today's world it seems like an outlier worth mentioning.
I will probably ask advice in the near future for myself, but for now a lot of the others asking questions are ones I had in mind and so just browsing the thread is doing me well.
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His tactics indeed works and is used by many con men who prey on lonely women for money. Seen many fall for this kind of bullshit. I doubt it works as well on women with two working neurons.
Well, it's a way of getting legs open. But I have a hunch things don't last much and aren't very healthy.
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Yeah, he's only achieved the numbers he has by having very low standards. He'll spend days and days hanging on every word of a woman I'd consider too boring to pursue. But the thing is, the principles work just as well on more attractive women, just at a lower rate of success because they're more likely to have something else going on. My last monogamous relationship was the result of my intentionally using his method on a woman I was actually interested in. It's a lot easier to pivot from a sexual relationship to a romantic one than from a romantic one to a sexual one.
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Fellas, we just need to keep building gundam/tank/airplane/train/warhammer models. We need not be corrupted.
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This spoke to me a little bit, because having dealt with abusive women myself there is very little in the way of general positivity towards men. Men are usually seen as the simpler gender with the simpler needs, which can be funny and I've seen that joke mostly from men, but the underlying problem I think is that most men are seen as low maintenance so emotional support or abuse resources are hard to come by. I understand why, women are abused more in general, it sucks, but it also means that men who are abused rarely get an outlet for their problems.
It puts a lot of awful things in your head when you are told that your sex is the stronger and more privileged one, with more going for you and more opportunities, but you are made to feel weak and worthless by the opposite sex. Especially if it's a parent or guardian. Combine this with the ease that other people have forming relationships, and the lack of solidarity among a lot of men, it can make you feel completely isolated.
It puts a lot of awful things in your head when you are told that your sex is the stronger and more privileged one, with more going for you and more opportunities, but you are made to feel weak and worthless by the opposite sex. Especially if it's a parent or guardian. Combine this with the ease that other people have forming relationships, and the lack of solidarity among a lot of men, it can make you feel completely isolated.
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Unfortunately it's generally a bad idea to ever tell a woman your true feelings on anything.
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You need to spend several decades running ad campaigns telling women that they can’t be feminine unless they own a gun. All sexy women own guns. Taking a woman’s gun away is an assault on her freedom. Make femininity and guns forever linked in the mind of the smooth brained American woman.
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i would like to watch them fight each other with guns and miss every shot (full disclosure: i would too. i am nothing if not pathetic.)
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Not advice anyone is looking for but I feel compelled:
Find a popular bar or venue that has B-grade live music. There will be a bunch of middle aged and older ladies on drugs dancing. After years of observing these scenes, it looks like these women are DTF. So have at it fellas.
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Bring lube.
Find a popular bar or venue that has B-grade live music. There will be a bunch of middle aged and older ladies on drugs dancing. After years of observing these scenes, it looks like these women are DTF. So have at it fellas.
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Bring lube.
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This thread has generated a lot of terrible, unproductive responses from a wide variety of losers, but to answer the original inquiry from the OP:
Yes. I think there are a lot of women in their late 20s and early 30s who 1. feel like they do not have anything going on for them besides their career 2. have largely given up on dating apps and relationships, and 3. do not see a light at the end of the tunnel. I know a few personally. I think it's a common frustration for younger millennials, regardless of gender. You are not alone.
Yes. I think there are a lot of women in their late 20s and early 30s who 1. feel like they do not have anything going on for them besides their career 2. have largely given up on dating apps and relationships, and 3. do not see a light at the end of the tunnel. I know a few personally. I think it's a common frustration for younger millennials, regardless of gender. You are not alone.
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Why? Most of the time the age makes it loose.
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This is like telling a man to stick a gun in his mouth.