How are you doing? - Kiwi Farms Wellness Check

[spurggist]

MAID will set me free!

 

[Harbinger of Kali Yuga]

You guys thinking about how bleak the world are are right, but you need to stop being depressed, and instead get very, very, very, very fucking angry. Stop blaming yourselves. I've been around awhile to know the faggots ruining the world enjoy gaslighting people like you, they like tearing you down, they love censoring you, and their entire public personas are a show.

I may be an atheist, but most of you are Christians, so let me put it this way: we are in a battle between good and evil, and evil is winning.

There's always meaning to find in your life, even if it's just tearing down those evil people.

I second @Harbinger of Kali Yuga. Don't run after commies and BPD types and expect good things. At best, you'll have a clingy booty call that you can abuse for some venting but they'll burn shit down the moment they touch it. Also, stop using dating apps unless you're a natural Chad and don't be too concerned about a woman's hobbies. Dating apps are a meat market for women who are too picky and obnoxious for the guys in their daily lives and hobbies are at most a medium to get in the pants of someone you like. Try starting by just entering a space where both the genders naturally meet. Teaching workshops and stuff like that are a good start.

This was my last ex. Basically the Avatar of Tiktok, no real solid ideas or understanding, just espousing things with charismatic certainty. Anti-white male, despite dating me; crazy as fuck, and with a history so bad, I can't even hint at it on Kiwifarms. I was in a dry spell, bored, and as cynical as ever; so when I had an SJW match me and message me on tinder I said "what the hell, might as well get a glimpse into these people's lives."

It's not a mere matter of personal disagreement. These people are stupid, selfish spoiled, etc. I hung out with her coworker friends. Gen Z women are abhorrent; spoiled things. One example, we were at a pool with no smoking signs up. They were smoking right at the very edge of the pool, and a guy asked them not to smoke. They gave him attitude, rolled their eyes, and grumbled about it and how he was a "white male." They ruminated on that awhile, because a man with his family told them not to spoke at the swimming pool. It's all about them, them, them. It's pure narcissism.

All these SJW women get their ideas from each other, just talking, just rambling. There's no rigor or fact-checking, just very emotional beliefs.

We go out to eat, it's always buying a couple drinks, an appetizer, desert, etc. When I say I don't want to spend so much, it's framed, "oh, I see money is really important to you, but I'm not a materialistic person..." Then she's a socialist of course because it's hard to make ends meet. This really is what they are like. The stereotypes are all true.

This person was so bad that my family now makes "murder in our sleep" jokes regarding her. I can't even hint at their past on the farm.

I got the little glimpse of what these people are like so you don't have to, and let me tell you, they are BPD as fuck and BPD is no joke, you do not want that in your life in any capacity.

Thankfully I'd been with manipulative and evil women before, and knew when she was crafting a narrative, and put things in her way to take the air out of her tires and ultimately pissed her off and came out on top. Being a troll conferred some real-world skills, stupid as they may be.

I just want to impress upon you, DO NOT DATE THESE PEOPLE. THIS IS NOT JUST A POLITICAL DISAGREEMENT, AND EVEN IF YOU WANT TO TRY TO SEE EYE-TO-EYE, THEY CANNOT.

If a woman says she was ever diagnosed with BPD, it doesn't matter what she says it "actually was." It doesn't matter if she seems super sweet or interesting. They're mimicking what they think you are like, they're little romantic demiurges trying to suck you into a false world. BPD is seriously no joke, and BPD individuals deserve no sympathy.

There's no "agree to disagree" with them. They'll try to change you, and if that doesn't work, they'll try to cheat on you, fuck you over, do passive-aggressive things, etc. They'll try to control you at every turn.

I can only say a fraction of how bad she was. Details changed to protect the innocent (me). I know this person targets men and tries to hurt them, too. Oh yes, that stuff is real too. Her entire tiktok feed was stuff about hating men and how to manipulate them and ruin them, lie to them, etc. That really is what social justice is about. Don't let ANY of their narratives fool you. It's exactly as we here on the Farms say it is with them.

 

[starborn427614]

It's finally snowing around here and the cold is that crisp, refreshing kind where it perks you up. Just what was needed today.

 

[Vibe_Guy]

Last time I alluded to a disciplinary action at my work, here's my update:
Employers have expressed sympathies for the death of my loved one and acknowledged how such an event led to my negligence.

The boss was very understanding and have made the discipline procedure as painless as it could be. She refused to distance me from work nor cut my pay because the punishment doesn't fit the crime. I have been given a warning paper with a couple instances of workplace misconduct. Nothing major and they had to write these for me to get the paper.

She expressed good faith and said she really wants me to stay, but apologies and taking responsibility isn't something that'll cut it in this scenario.

All in all colleagues are very supportive, and the two psychologists who made the complaint in hindsight were as tame as possible. As I put them in the uncomfortable scenario of having to either give a complaint or force the boss to cut my pay instead. Especially because we consider each other a bit more than colleagues, friends.

I got a flu too, feel like shit today. But it'll clear in a week or so.

I'm keeping on going. One day at a time. Hold in there ladz and galz.

 

[Doctor John B. Zyklon]

This was my last ex.

You know, the more you write, the more I think my ex may have been BPD. Wasn't on the leftie side though; so gentleman, keep your eyes open on the conservative side as well.

 

[WTBOnlineFather]

Recovering from a bad hangover today. I'd like to extend the weekend by one day please.
At least last night was pretty fun

 

[CoolFool]

Same, but from the male perspective. Though, being a fem, I'd assume the dating app market would be fairly easy for you. Even jobless fatties are able to have guys hound after them it seems.

Though, my new job has some fems in it, one is single and cute...might try and make something happen there. Or, at least make friends and hope for match maker kind of deal.

Have you told your friends that you're looking? What you're looking for? Imo, if they're good friends, they'll be on the look out. I've learned that as of late, good friends will do that, people who say they're friends / family but aren't, won't. "We found the perfect girl for you, but she lives in another state so we didn't bother to connect you two and won't".

Over in the woman hate thread (men's lounge), dating has been a topic of discussion, and the importance of improving yourself, whether it be literally or just mentally, can't be over-stated. Along with the importance of friends and "networking".

I don't want to completely derail this thread, but just to answer your question a bit. I've tried dating apps and my friends have also tried to help me out. I don't have an issue finding matches, the issue is finding matches that I actually like. There are several issues why I struggle, besides being busy with work:

Spoiler: Dating woes

1. I live in a very rural area, where most people are coupled and married right out of high school, and despite what the media will tell you, these people stay married. So if you aren't married by like, age 21, your chances of finding someone local that is your age and not already settled gets harder, and you'll have to go out in the city to find singles. When I tried dating apps a year or so ago, every guy I matched with was 1-2 hours away.

2. Building off of point #1, although I live in a rural area and love a lot of aspects of it, there's also aspects I don't like or agree with, so that makes finding a guy that shares the same beliefs and values hard. Example, I don't hate Christians, but I'm not religious, and don't want to go to church, which a lot of rural guys do. I also don't care about going fishing or hunting, and I don't like guys who smoke/drink, I don't like country music, etc. which is what most guys out here like.

3. You'd think that the guys from the city would have what I'm looking for, but that sadly hasn't been the case. Sure, the guys in the city might have more in common with me in terms of like, not wanting to go to church or going fishing, which is nice. But they also lack qualities that I want, that a lot of rural guys have. Most guys in the cities are adverse to having kids, they don't know how to take care of themselves if they don't have the internet to help them, and a lot of them seem very porn sick compared to rural guys, who are too busy doing stuff to be stuck inside watching porn like city guys.

4. The last point is a problem I have seen with both rural and city guys, because this is a huge societal problem: being overweight or out of shape. My friends think I'm being too picky to want a guy that actually gives a shit about their health and isn't fat. I personally will not budge on this issue, because I exercise and stay in shape, and expect any guy I date to be in shape too. Unfortunately, almost every guy I have found that is in shape also tend to be gym freaks, where their lives revolve around the gym. I like exercising and being healthy, but I'm by no means addicted to the gym nor do I consider it a fun hobby.

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is there anything stopping you two from being anonymous pen pals and seeing where that goes?

I'm sure there are a few normal kiwis on here but tbh most are spergs and there are even a few unironic nazis and troons on here, so uhhh I think I'll pass on using KF as a dating site lol

 

[Doctor John B. Zyklon]

most people are coupled and married right out of high school, and despite what the media will tell you, these people stay married. So if you aren't married by like, age 21, your chances of finding someone local that is your age and not already settled gets harder

Yeah, I get that. Similar to where I'm at. After my year of working out and getting lean-ish, I may find a new job somewhere else just because of it.

Edit: I will say on the fat front, maybe give them a chance. Some of us fatties are working our way down currently. I get why you wouldn't though and far be it from me to insist you do X or Y, but I'm just throwing it out there. A guy will move the heavens and earth alike for the woman he loves, cutting out calories isn't a big deal.

Tax: Cleaning today, and man, it's doing wonders for my mental state. You don't realise how bad things were until you're cleaning it all. Will it be spic and span today? No. But livable.

 

[Blamo2000]

I'm sure there are a few normal kiwis on here but tbh most are spergs and there are even a few unironic nazis and troons on here, so uhhh I think I'll pass on using KF as a dating site lol

I think that's a reasonable stance.

 

[Harbinger of Kali Yuga]

Dating a KF chick would be a terrible idea. You'd look over her shoulder, see her texting the guy that gassed more Jews than you, and be heartbroken.

 

[Local Fed]

Dating a KF chick would be a terrible idea. You'd look over her shoulder, see her texting the guy that gassed more Jews than you, and be heartbroken.

And if she ever started mispronouncing words you'd have to be wondering if she's secretly thinking about Null (and his wide set eyes.)

 

[Harbinger of Kali Yuga]

And if she ever started mispronouncing words you'd have to be wondering if she's secretly thinking about Null (and his wide set eyes.)

 

[Ultrapenguin]

Dating a KF chick would be a terrible idea. You'd look over her shoulder, see her texting the guy that gassed more Jews than you, and be heartbroken.

Plus then they'd be able to see your post history, and that's a real landmine.

"Hey hon, can you come in here a second? I was reading your posts and I saw how you said that guys should pee in the sink once in a while to 'mark their territory and dunk on women'; be honest, do you pee in the sink when I'm not watching?".

And you know they'd be reading through the entire thing too, laying up at night wondering what you meant by some comment you made ages ago. Harrowing stuff.

 

[Shadfan666xxx000]

I thought I'd do more shit this weekend but I ended up just sleeping it all off. Which is honestly fine since I can't quite get started just yet anyway until I move some of this shit to another location. Also, had some drama with this old hag I had to take care of over cleaning up some dog shit of all things but its calmed down and we've both cleared shit up. Monday is going to be phone call after phone call so I hope it goes my way.

 

[Harbinger of Kali Yuga]

My cough and congestion turned into feeling body sick...

 

[DavidS877]

I'm traveling for work again, sometimes. It's sort of depressing leaving my town where the women are fat, and ending up going through airports where not only are the women not fat, they're actually attractive.. or sometimes just plain slutty wearing leggings leaving nothing to the imagination. Sadly, I am fat, and ugly and poor, so I just keep my mouth shut and do my job.

* Attractive women does not apply to Atlanta or the Atlanta airport. Fat and loud is all you'll see there.

Also, I'm pretty sure this is the most depressing thread on the Farms.

 

[Doctor John B. Zyklon]

Attractive women does not apply to Atlanta or the Atlanta airport. Fat and loud is all you'll see there.

JFC fuck that airport. Fucking niggers everywhere, stuffing the train the the gills. Saw a kid nearly get pajeeted due to the mom trying to fit all of their fat asses in the packed train.

 

[(((I am NOT a jew)))]

Dating a KF chick would be a terrible idea. You'd look over her shoulder, see her texting the guy that gassed more Jews than you, and be heartbroken.

My experience with Kiwi women are either they're pretty based and standup to the point they SHOULD think they're above most men, yet don't. They're usually in Deep Thoughts or the anime/music threads.
Or you have the Beauty Parlor cunts that are butthurt they got booted out of their last femoid circle jerk by troons, who will do all the usual conservative lingo about hating nigs and jews but than have Valerie Solanas level meltdown over a guy making a slight jab about women driving.
It's a very interesting mixture.

Cleaning today, and man, it's doing wonders for my mental state. You don't realise how bad things were until you're cleaning it all. Will it be spic and span today? No. But livable.

I know people shit on JP, but the "clean your room" mantra has helped me a lot. I can see a stark contrast in my mental health just by how clean my room is. The days I actually go about cleaning it are the equivalent of essentially BTFOing my despair.

 

[twisted cycle path]

I'm traveling for work again, sometimes. It's sort of depressing leaving my town where the women are fat, and ending up going through airports where not only are the women not fat, they're actually attractive.. or sometimes just plain slutty wearing leggings leaving nothing to the imagination. Sadly, I am fat, and ugly and poor, so I just keep my mouth shut and do my job.

* Attractive women does not apply to Atlanta or the Atlanta airport. Fat and loud is all you'll see there.

Also, I'm pretty sure this is the most depressing thread on the Farms.

Hartsfield-Jackson is niggerhell but I've been to airports that are even worse. Baltimore's airport sticks out to me as one where you can almost imagine yourself transported to some african country where things never work on time or like they should.

As for me: I'm doing better. Been taking into consideration messages from other users here who seem to be in possession of more worldly experience, and other people talking about their issues make me realize that mine are mostly self-inflicted and managable. I might still eventually kill myself but it's not joever yet I think.

 

[AnOminous]

My experience with Kiwi women are either they're pretty based and standup to the point they SHOULD think they're above most men, yet don't. They're usually in Deep Thoughts or the anime/music threads.

Lmao being so much of a faggot you even contemplate the concept of "Kiwi women."

Imagine my face busting open in hilarity.