- Joined
- Nov 14, 2017
You're really exaggerating or reading too much into it, we have entirely separate lives and just communicate with each other and sometimes meet up once a VERY blue moon when I'm in town; she had a mental episode, a very clear one, and I knew her worthless boyfriend wouldn't do anything so I did the friendly and human thing and look out for her and reach out to her family, and try to get her to see a little bit of reason that her boyfriend should have handled this, not me. I'd do it again even knowing she'd get upset, it's the right thing to do and it was no risk to myself. But this is the point where I decided this relationship is more effort than it's worth. It wasn't beforehand. Her personality is changing as a side effect of her mental illness, I think, she's not even really all the same person I knew.With absolutely no snideness in this comment whatsoever: no wonder you are blackpilled about relationships. This shit is legit toxic. You are not anybody's handmaiden. You were not put on this earth to be someone's unpaid and unthanked wrangler. I'm sure she has many good qualities, but no one has enough good qualities to be worth a life spent trying to keep their show on the road. That shit is beyond exhausting.