@Aljam she manipulated you and wanted you to give her money, that shouldve been the end instead of your retarded paypigging.
First rule of meeting anybody on the internet should just be talk with them till you cultivate a relationship, if they ask for money PI or anything compromising at any point just say no. Doesnt matter if they leave, they were a piece of shit anyways.
Second rule should be always meet in person if you want to have a really good relationship, even with potential friends.
Third rule should just be learning to be a good judge of character, just read sentences and analyze every word said, it is extremely easy to predict what peoples intentions are and what theyre gonna say to a high degree of accuracy from basic reading comprehension, majority of people on the planet fit into very detectable character templates.
Using trooncord is not wrong, I used to use trooncord and had friends on trooncord before I shut down my account. You shouldve just seen the manipulation coming from a mile away and if you werent so focused on pussy you couldve avoided all this, you stupid tard. First learn the basics of interaction, learn to judge character and know that you dont need to have a relationship to be fulfilled, not necessarily happy but fulfilled. Stop focusing on specific things too much to the ignorance of everything else, be aware of everything possible.
Also remember there is a lot of value in being intelligent and accomplished, there is a lot more value/self respect in intelligence and skill than a relationship. If thats what kept you going you wouldnt even need to desperately look for a relationship instead of being a smelly victim who blames women for not getting sex and gets conned by whores on the internet. Its better to be chad incel than a soy incel.