Off-Topic Losing people to transgenderism support thread - Support group for trans widows and other people who lost loved ones to troonism

[Marvin]

why is there so many blsck troons and poons? Granted, the numbers are extremely small... But still. It's like seeing them align with KKK members or some shit.
Bro, these people literally bring up black women as "proof" why men should play in womens sports. They straightup call black women men and insist they could easily be mistaken for one.
Look how many troons are incels and MRAs. Oh, my bad. I forgot. Look how many "reformed" incels and MRAs there are.

In the grand scheme of things though, you are unlikely to find minorities in "solidarity" with progressive ideology. The ones that are racist enough to say "fuck white people" aren't on their knees kissing the hands of self-hating whites either. Even in places like Baltimore, progressive events are reserved for the downtown areas. Ie, the wealthier areas. You won't find that shit in the hoods, especially not the ones so bad where fast food places refuse to operate in.

That's because it's not a progressive ideology itself, it's just championed by people who call themselves progressive.

By any reasonable standard, the idea that a stereotypically masculine woman is somehow literally a man by virtue of her masculinity is an incredibly regressive stance. Same for feminine men.

(Allegedly there's some troons who claim to be transwomen except they try to be "gender non-conforming women". I think that's really just laziness / a dumb gotcha they're wielding against the terfs.)

Black people generally support the Democratic party in the US but literally just for the gibs. Socially they're fairly conservative people.

Unfortunately, their conservatism manifests in some pretty unhealthy ways. There's a lot of child abuse among black people. And not just some light corporal punishment, but some real dark physical abuse that teaches black kids that violence is an acceptable way to resolve conflict. We can see the consequences of that kind of childrearing. They also are extremely homophobic and troonery is one way they address shame about homosexuality.

I have no love for the gays. I think male homosexuality is plenty unhealthy. All these sodomites trying to push stupid gay shit in schools is fucking awful and needs to have been shut down decades ago.

But aggressive societal homophobia causes its own problems.

So because of black societal homophobia, it didn't make the black gays go away. They still exist, they're just all "down low" and banging dudes on the side while still maintaining relationships with women.

You mention Baltimore? I live in Baltimore. It's a pretty nice city if you stick to the nice neighborhoods.

I've seen advertisements targeting black women in Baltimore, telling them they should be on PrEP. Not because they're shooting up drugs or anything like that, but because there's a non-zero chance their boyfriend is sucking dick in his spare time.

A woman that size needs to be in a refeeding ward, wtf.

Lol good catch.

 

[Terfatron]

This is not losing someone per se but more like being snagged out of a what I tought would be a cool friendship and it just made me sad.

Met this girl through work, we had similar interest and both enjoyed the finner things in life (warhammer, factorio and expensive resturants).
So, I did what you do, I asked her out for a meet up. Sure, she was going out w her friend and I could join.

The day arrives and I'm fucking HYPE! It's not very usual finding friends my age that are in to the same things.
Something, in the deepest corners of my mind, there was a slight doubt due to some things I had noticed earlier but I waved it away.

We meet up for drinks before her friend show up and we start talking.
She works in IT and for some reason I bring up I frequent KF, she just look at me like :huh?".
She tells me she's an adult and spends her time on reddit.
Massive alarm bells but ok, fine, whatever. We keep talking.

Her friend show up and the shitshow starts. Her friend is this overly dramatic MEGA queer woman with a open relationship and the ugliest hat I ever saw.
Her whole personality is high school drama kid and I wonder what the fuck I gotten myself in to.

They start swooning over some NB priest and talk about "dressing masc". At this point I couldn't hold myself back any longer so I just asked her "so like,wearing pants? Why not just wear what you want instead of making a whole show about it?"

I get a whole tirade on how I'm privileged (lol) and dressing feminine is not something you just DO!

I knew here I had to cut my losses.
The night went on, we all got drunk and said out good byes and have never spoken again and it fucking sucks.
Why couldn't she just be normal but no no, we have to talk about QuEeR RiGhTs because apparently it's fucking no bueno to have a personality of your own.

If only they knew they had drinks with terf Hitler of the tranny killer farms. He he

 

[Gingervitis]

for some reason I bring up I frequent KF

The feds would have to waterboard that information out of me.

 

[Terfatron]

The feds would have to waterboard that information out of me.

I like the lolcows, what can I say. But yeah, i see where you're coming from.
It's funny because for some reason KF is not something I hide but lolcow is, that's my ️secret️ forum.

KF works more like a "are we compatible" these days.

 

[AfghanBlue]

This is not losing someone per se but more like being snagged out of a what I tought would be a cool friendship and it just made me sad.

Met this girl through work, we had similar interest and both enjoyed the finner things in life (warhammer, factorio and expensive resturants).
So, I did what you do, I asked her out for a meet up. Sure, she was going out w her friend and I could join.

The day arrives and I'm fucking HYPE! It's not very usual finding friends my age that are in to the same things.
Something, in the deepest corners of my mind, there was a slight doubt due to some things I had noticed earlier but I waved it away.

We meet up for drinks before her friend show up and we start talking.
She works in IT and for some reason I bring up I frequent KF, she just look at me like :huh?".
She tells me she's an adult and spends her time on reddit.
Massive alarm bells but ok, fine, whatever. We keep talking.

Her friend show up and the shitshow starts. Her friend is this overly dramatic MEGA queer woman with a open relationship and the ugliest hat I ever saw.
Her whole personality is high school drama kid and I wonder what the fuck I gotten myself in to.

They start swooning over some NB priest and talk about "dressing masc". At this point I couldn't hold myself back any longer so I just asked her "so like,wearing pants? Why not just wear what you want instead of making a whole show about it?"

I get a whole tirade on how I'm privileged (lol) and dressing feminine is not something you just DO!

I knew here I had to cut my losses.
The night went on, we all got drunk and said out good byes and have never spoken again and it fucking sucks.
Why couldn't she just be normal but no no, we have to talk about QuEeR RiGhTs because apparently it's fucking no bueno to have a personality of your own.

If only they knew they had drinks with terf Hitler of the tranny killer farms. He he

What kinda hat

 

[Maricón de Mierda]

Should have cut your losses here:

She works in IT and for some reason I bring up I frequent KF, she just look at me like :huh?".

 

[LinkinParkxNaruto[AMV]]

why is there so many blsck troons and poons?

Fatherless behaviour

 

[Terfatron]

What kinda hat

Looming for this Pic I now see what she tought she would look like.
Instead she looked like she hissed at her classmates.

Should have cut your losses here:

Also true. I think I tought to myself "not being on KF is ok, it's not the normie thing to do". But when she started talking about the /pol to reddit pipeline I knew she has no clue.
Sad either way.

 

[LinkinParkxNaruto[AMV]]

This is not losing someone per se but more like being snagged out of a what I tought would be a cool friendship and it just made me sad.

Met this girl through work, we had similar interest and both enjoyed the finner things in life (warhammer, factorio and expensive resturants).
So, I did what you do, I asked her out for a meet up. Sure, she was going out w her friend and I could join.

The day arrives and I'm fucking HYPE! It's not very usual finding friends my age that are in to the same things.
Something, in the deepest corners of my mind, there was a slight doubt due to some things I had noticed earlier but I waved it away.

We meet up for drinks before her friend show up and we start talking.
She works in IT and for some reason I bring up I frequent KF, she just look at me like :huh?".
She tells me she's an adult and spends her time on reddit.
Massive alarm bells but ok, fine, whatever. We keep talking.

Her friend show up and the shitshow starts. Her friend is this overly dramatic MEGA queer woman with a open relationship and the ugliest hat I ever saw.
Her whole personality is high school drama kid and I wonder what the fuck I gotten myself in to.

They start swooning over some NB priest and talk about "dressing masc". At this point I couldn't hold myself back any longer so I just asked her "so like,wearing pants? Why not just wear what you want instead of making a whole show about it?"

I get a whole tirade on how I'm privileged (lol) and dressing feminine is not something you just DO!

I knew here I had to cut my losses.
The night went on, we all got drunk and said out good byes and have never spoken again and it fucking sucks.
Why couldn't she just be normal but no no, we have to talk about QuEeR RiGhTs because apparently it's fucking no bueno to have a personality of your own.

If only they knew they had drinks with terf Hitler of the tranny killer farms. He he

I feel this. It happened to me a few years back, i met a local girl online that had a few mutual connections and got along extremely well, one of the few times i've met someone with a similar personality and where i didn't have to hold back the powerlevel or compromise with the other person because she knew about all the stuff i talked about, same career, same interests, similar background. Met her in person and we got along super well.

She turned out to be a communist and was in a polyamorous arrangement, also legitimately insane , she had a fit and wrote me some nonsense not long after we met which i didn't even understood at the time and thought she was joking because it was completely uncalled for. Really sucks because if nothing else i thought at least we were gonna become good friends.

 

[You're MDNWU]

I dated a woman for a short bit just a few months ago. Liked pretty much everything I liked, could bullshit with her, was extremely attractive, ticked essentially all my boxes.

Just finished a sushi date and somehow got on the topic of hentai and how one of her girl friends was addicted to it. I mentioned how that seemed fairly rare as it's typically just guys. She then proceeds to tell me that, "Oh, well she was born a guy but now goes by she" and I regrettably knew I had to run.

Should've known her friends were the red flags as we made a Nazi uniform joke and she mentioned if she ever said something like that with her friends or posted it on Facebook, her life would be ruined.

 

[Heavy Duty Boots]

and somehow got on the topic of hentai and how one of her girl friends was addicted to it.

Why would you ever bring out that topic during a date?

 

[HahaYes]

Why would you ever bring out that topic during a date?

"Hey I call people niggers all day on a gossip forum, want to come over and watch sometime?"
Fucking flawless pick up line if you ask me, top tier

 

[LinkinParkxNaruto[AMV]]

"Hey I call people niggers all day on a gossip forum, want to come over and watch sometime?"
Fucking flawless pick up line if you ask me, top tier

you have to separate the wheat from the chaff

 

[FedPostalService]

Why would you ever bring out that topic during a date?

Because he was lying and has never actually been on a date?

 

[Flaming_Barghast]

Anyone else get so fucking frustrated about how your family is so, so fucking close to getting it, SO CLOSE.... and then call you crazy if you push just slightly too hard?

A close loved one of mine believes most of the same shit as me, agrees with a lot or if they don't, have reasonable conversations. But I point out a pooner/troon that passes in that androgenous way, and suddenly I'm falling off the deep end/spending too much time in the srs thread? I don't even check it anymore, it's so frustrating. But I don't bring it up because how do you prove it without going up to the person and weirdly asking "hey what the fuck are you"? Now THAT makes you look a little crazy.
I'm tired of being told its all in my head. The worst part is me bitching makes me look even fucking crazier because "who in their right mind even cares that much?"

 

[Arpharp8976Fire]

This isn't as painful as a lot of the stories here since I haven't spoken to this person in years, but I had a dream last night about a high school friend who now identifies as male. It was some goofy irrelevant dream nonsense but I hadn't thought about her in a long time, so I woke up sad.

She was a Lord of the Rings-loving, witchy, bookwormy kind of girl, and never once in the four years I knew her did she express the remotest interest in anything masculine. She had a very difficult relationship with her parents, was always a little shy, and has been overweight her entire life so I guess these days that adds up to a trans man. I checked in on her Instagram and she said she was happy she's gained enough confidence to start wearing makeup again, as it no longer bothers her that it makes people perceive her as female. Her hobby is crocheting little animals. She's trying to lose weight to get approval for surgery, but has apparently plateaued. I can't believe I'm hoping she fails so that she doesn't get her tits lopped off or god FORBID a rotdog installed.

This sweet, naive, lost soul is getting shredded in the gnashing teeth of this fucking pernicious social lie and everyone she knows is cheering it on. I feel like a non-believer amongst pagans, watching virgins get chucked into the volcano.

The Ugly to Not Like Other Girls / Tomboy / "Quirky" to Pooner pipeline

 

[Procrastinhater]

Because he was lying and has never actually been on a date?

I'm pretty sure that was a pasta.
And if it wasn't it is now.

 

[The Gunt Whisperer]

I may have mentioned it before, but a good friend has been a handmaiden / trans widow for a while now.

She has been neck deep in the cult. No doubt because of a lifetime of issues including rejection, inexperience, late blooming etc. So when she met this guy who would give her attention, it didn’t really matter that he was a controlling narcissist. And when he trooned out, she was so dependent on him and on their relationship, that she went along with it. (Typical BPD neediness.)

Anyway… all is not right in their world. And I couldn’t be happier for her.

She is sooooo close to getting it. Soooo close to calling it quits. (Partially thanks to another non-trans suitor!)

I don’t want to jinx it. But I look forward to the day when she’s free and will talk openly about the reality of this relationship, instead of trying to convince herself that everything is butterflies and rainbows.

(Also in typical BPD form, when things go sour she starts to get pretty explicit about the wrongs she’s suffered. The black and white thinking. I’m here for it though,., I can’t wait to affirm her and provide some insight into the brainwashing and emotional abuse she has endured. If all goes well, she will be peaking by the end of the year!)

 

[duckling]

I’ve recycled and lost access to a few accounts here over the years and can’t remember if I posted herr under this alias. Anyways hi I’m back. In previous episodes my ex boyfriend trooned out (after the relationship) and I figured out retrospectively he had been responsible for all my lacy thongs that had gone missing on wash day. My dear friends husband trooned out after they divorced and so now she has to share custody with an ape in a pink wig and extremely inappropriate tiny skirts. My gaming friend divorced his wife and has since trooned out (and is getting the chop this fall ) and now this weekend my spouse and I are visiting some old friends and SURPRISE the man baby-traps his wife and is in the process of “””self discovery”””” while they have an INFANT.

The internet was a mistake.

 

[SpookyObserver]

The feds would have to waterboard that information out of me.

One time on a dating app this woman had "I love to check Kiwi Farms, if you don't know what that is I can explain it" and i felt like i had seen some kind of fed post. Really kind of crazy to find someone in the 'wild' like that, especially these days when the only reputation is tranny killing site