Off-Topic Losing people to transgenderism support thread - Support group for trans widows and other people who lost loved ones to troonism

[Heavy Duty Boots]

bought a house, and moved them all into it, and now basically lives in his own sort of ivory tower that only includes himself, his troon boyfriend creature thing, and a few other of the same types.

Wait, he lives in a house full of other gender freaks with no contact with his family?
That is cult levels of isolation, and I hope that after living for a time with a swarm of these people he realizes how trash they are. My condolences.

 

[Banquet Meal]

Wait, he lives in a house full of other gender freaks with no contact with his family?

yeah. its insane. like...i still cant believe, honestly. i think he may play the odd round of counterstrike with his siblings or something like that, but no contact. im just amazed that someone could be brainwashed so quickly, he hasnt known these people for more than a few years.

 

[WinchesterWhiskey]

I grew up on different forums before I found KF. A part of me watched the main one, and that friend group just fall apart completely after a bunch of them trooned out. They were all just a bunch of autists, but it was like a mind virus. I don't know if I'm nostalgic for those days, but I just miss when they were just socially awkward dudes.

 

[and I must scream]

I saw a bunch of people trying to argue this about Jo from Little Women after the most recent movie came out, that she was totally a trans man, just that there wasn’t the language for it back then. It’s a book from the 1800s about a girl who wanted a life beyond being a meek housewife. She didn’t want to be a boy, she wanted the freedom that being a boy would have afforded her. And in many ways, gender nonconforming women still want that, just now they’re being told “well ackshually not wanting to be a stereotype of woman means you’re a man”, which is at the core my whole problem with the ideology. Can we not just let people be people and not assign gender to personality traits or interests, we seemed to be on track with that up until the mid-2010s

Yeah, rewriting history, anachronism and cultural appropriation (and appropriation in general) are all favorite hobbies of these people, it seems. Everything to justified their illogical, unfounded, baseless idea of "gender identity".

I'd never forget how an "ally", someone who I thought was a very smart woman, said to me about non-binaries "I realized there have always been people like that". There have always been what? gender nonconforming people? People who didn't fit neatly into strict sex/gender stereotypes? People who felt they don't belong in their sex category, or that they are different than other people in their sex group/class, or hated certain things about the expectations and norms expected of their own sex group/class? Yes, there have always been people like that. But why do you think it means these people had some "gender identity" that is neither male nor female, or both, or something in between? Because it absolutely does not mean that, that's a huge reach considering the simpler and far more logical and reasonable explanation is that humans are complex and have variance while these stereotypes, norms, expectations, etc. are more rigid, so not everyone is going to fit right in. I don't see why you need the elaborate idea of "gender identity" to explain something like that.

 

[FloydsFeedandSeed]

I re-joined the farms for this, can't remember my old account, but it was around 2015~2016.

A friend of mine (male) since childhood trooned out. Four months ago he posted online he was a girl and taking HRT. I was in disbelief followed by disappointment. He used to live with his parents and moved out around this time which is simultaneously the time he said he had mental health issues, I assume there was some real strife going on in his life with them and his trooning out. I know for sure they would have been disappointed in him.
He was a fairly quiet but very intelligent kid. He actually used to be against gays (one can assume troons as well) about 12 years back. We left high school not long after, though that was when there were still final remnants of shame for being a fag still around in schools, at least in my area.

I hadn't seen him since we left. He, like many others I used to hang out with dropped off the map.
He's a programmer who used to sit in the computer rooms during lunch and did his thing. I always used to think about how is he going to turn out like when he's older, I could just tell he's not the guy who would chase women, or even know how to do so due to him being very timid. Be a virgin stuck in his parents basement or dark bedroom where the only illumination is from the monitor?
Quelle surprise now he also claims to be austistic because he took a single online test. I've known this guy for 21 years and know without any doubt he's NOT autistic in the slightest.

I can't contain my disappointment in the guy. It's like he's lost in life, I doubt he's still got much of his original friend circle visiting/catching up (I was probably one of his top 4 friends and we never talked in person for years. He had dropped off the internet for most of that time. I'm assuming sexual frustration and loneliness got to his head for him to do this. Or he got into porn and fell into a coomer rabbit hole.

I actually saw him in person for the first time in years walking around during my work break about a month ago. He looked like a wreck like he'd just been crying half an hour before. he doesn't look feminine and he was wearing stockings and sounded like he was trying to do a mickey mouse impression with his voice.
I contained my thoughts and said how are you doing etc... and talked for about 3-4 minutes before getting an excuse to get away from him.

The worst thing is, he's not the only one, another acquaintance verging on friend was straight, then turned bi, then turned tranny and actually got a frankengina where his dick used to be. He was a rather tall, masculine looking guy too. He had a hell of a sense of humor that would now be "problematic" going by what he posts online.

 

[FedPostalService]

This thread always makes me feel sad.

I’ve been fortunate not to have this madness touch anyone I know IRL and like personally but I am seeing it at the schools of young relatives were crazy mums declare their retard child with behavioural issues a gender special.

I’ve only known one or two people only who have ruined their lives with it, but I’ve spoke about them here before.

I’m also seeing trains on a weekly basis now in my comfy but rough and tumble city.

I’m hoping this is just the peak of the fad and they’ll start disappearing soon.

Stay strong, fellow Kiwis. This madness can’t last forever.

 

[WinchesterWhiskey]

I’m hoping this is just the peak of the fad and they’ll start disappearing soon.

I hope so too. The scary thing is, the damage is done, but the Gen A's that I meme on seem to be noticing it and asking questions. I moved from a big city to a small town of 10k in the midwest and seeing two of them, one pooner, and one MTF was honestly really jarring to me.

 

[CAPTAIN HAPPY]

Troons don't last long and they can't breed.

 

[BIG SHOT Autos]

A bit of a powerlevel, but fuck it, I'm tired. A friend of mine is plotting to run to America through Mexico as an illegal immigrant to troon out, despite openly admitting that she was groomed into it. I hope it goes nowhere. If it does, I will never forgive the third party involved in all this.

 

[Fapcop]

Troons don't last long and they can't breed.

Hence troon-vangelization and “egg cracking”.

 

[Oriental Trading Company]

Lost a few over the recent years. Exclusively nerdy guys with nerdy interests. We're not talking about anime nerd stuff but rather obscure technical 100% male dominated ones. They never displayed any feminine behaviour before transitioning, and even if they were to do so, no one would care. The idea of them "being trans" would've never crossed my mind in the first place.

I had to cut ties because it became so embarrassing to hang out with them. Typical e-tranny fashion sense, horrible makeup, five o'clock shadow, zero voice training, picking tranny tier names etc. The fact that they both actively did the "oh that guy is definitely an egg" was the last straw. Fuck that. Heartbreaking to see these bright and intelligent nerds turn into walking time bombs. Honestly, I don't blame them - they have obviously been brainwashed by some higher power that I hope to be revealed sooner or later.

"Nerd communities devastated by HRT like black neighbourhoods and crack in the 80s."

Guess I'm obligated to post here.. once again.

Adding another one to the list. This one was really unexpected. Came out as trans to me yesterday; "I always wanted to be a girl". Known him for years. Oddball personality type but I never expected him to troon out. Don't really wanna lose him so I need to play the supportive role, but as soon as he starts disintegrating.. I'll pull the plug. Shit sucks.

 

[Fapcop]

Guess I'm obligated to post here.. once again.

Adding another one to the list. This one was really unexpected. Came out as trans to me yesterday; "I always wanted to be a girl". Known him for years. Oddball personality type but I never expected him to troon out. Don't really wanna lose him so I need to play the supportive role, but as soon as he starts disintegrating.. I'll pull the plug. Shit sucks.

You realize you’re encouraging him by playing supportive, yes?

There’s some room between being supportive and cutting them off you know.

(I know, easy to say.)

 

[ScurvyRat]

A bit of a powerlevel, but fuck it, I'm tired. A friend of mine is plotting to run to America through Mexico as an illegal immigrant to troon out, despite openly admitting that she was groomed into it. I hope it goes nowhere. If it does, I will never forgive the third party involved in all this.

Total Illegal Death. They're not sending their best. They're sending rapists and transvestites (one and the same)
You know the problem is out of hand when we have so many women and mothers in this thread. As Dear Feeder Josh has explained, this site used to be primarily male focused, especially before the Beauty Parlor.
Now, I feel like over half of the people I meet on here are women--seeking the farms as the last available place to discuss their disgust with these gender freaks.
Meanwhile, some my male friends, who have no problem calling each other niggers and faggots, will stand behind calling men women if they put on a dress.
Insanity.
Anyway, my cousin who trooned out has truly cut contact with me. His dad (who is funding his transition thru bitcoin money) sent me a happy birthday text. I considered responding in a way that represented my vitriol, but decided against it.
Meanwhile, in my small town, I've had to deal with an irate tranny attempting to get me banned from my LGS (local game store) and from a friend's computer repair shop.
This tranny was going after one of my quiet friends in a discord for being transphobic so I hopped in to tell him "you will never be a woman"
Tranny proceeds to take this to DM's so he can nab a screenshot of me being nasty. Well, the tranny then sent the screencaps to the computer repair friend who DEMANDED an explanation. I told him to chill out and we can talk when he calmed down. A few days later I told him: "I read thru my conversation with [tranny] and I stand by what I said. That dude is a piece of shit"
My friend had a bit of push back, but ultimately told me: "I really respect the way you hold your ground" and we're all good there. The LGS was always a lost cause, run by a shitlib fat fuck who I could go on about at length. However, I did find an older gentleman there playing warhammer 40k with the SS skull on his shirt. I was the only one who knew

In conclusion: Total tranny death. Deport all illegals. MAGA 2024.

 

[Ed Special]

Good news regarding my low-functioning autist sister, who I'm pretty sure was groomed on pony.town and/or discord by genderspecials into experimenting with she/they bullshit:

There's hope for us all, friends. Don't give up the ship yet.

 

[bluegenius8585]

A good friend of mine just told me he is now in a polyamorous relationship with two pooners and that he is considering himself some weird gender indentity. He's has been quite feminine for a while but never was annoying about it and he had a very edgy humor too so I didn't really saw it as a problem. But knowing all of this now makes me really worried about him so I'm writing this as he is probably going to be further to the pipeline of trooning out and becoming annoying about it. Im hopeless but I really wish he realizes this is not the way to go. I guess I'll just see how long until I can't keep considering him a friend before he becomes annoying about this

Slight PL but have said most of this before on here and its relevant to this thread

So I am a former troon. One thing I have noticed is that troons seem to want to convert people into trooners.

I am slightly effeminate homosexual and I sort of got led into it by a therapist, its a bit cult like if you want to leave you are suddenly either brainwashed, abused or some "was never troon in the first place" .

The whole experience has comepletely pissed me off from all of the "progressive" bullshit. Hell now I am socially consevative (within reason I am pro family and I plan to adopt to support that in a way). I used to be borderline chaz level commie

Worst thing is it will get to the point where any femme guy or tom boy will be pushed into trooning out

Its fucking retarded

 

[glass_houses]

Worst thing is it will get to the point where any femme guy or tom boy will be pushed into trooning out

It's already happening and has been for some time.

 

[Idiot Sandwich the 3rd]

Worst thing is it will get to the point where any femme guy or tom boy will be pushed into trooning out

oh, i know for a fact this happens

Spoiler: personal expirience from me and other friend

Another friend of mine we have in common, he could also be considered effeminate as well but the guy is quite conservative in many other aspects. I don't know when this conversation took place but eventually someone asked what this other friend feel about themselves, mainly about his sexuality, he said he was unsure but for thhe most part he was fine calling himself straight, i noticed that the friend that got into a poly who now considers himself a "demiboy" wanted to slightly suggest that my other friend was also a demi-boy just because he was feminine as well.
And i'm pretty sure he also thinks i might be into that shit as well since i'm a pretty masculine woman who is also homosexual.
Ever since i haven't talk to him too much, he has been spending all of his time with his non binary pooner girlfriend so there was no follow up to this, but yeah

these people wait for you to have the slightest confusion about your sexuality or gender to suggest that you should troon out.
I'm sure this is how my friend ended up like this. First he mets this girl and starts to like her, girl will tell him that she is non binary transmasc or some shit, this confuses him as to what his sexuality is "oh, but if she said shes not a female than how can i be attracted to her? i might not be straight!" so starts to question his identity and ends up in some special gender identity and sexuality just to justify his straight attraction to a fucked up female

This is why i cannot stress enough that sexuality is based on biological sex and not gender identity. Gender Ideology confuses people and that confusion is the vulnerability to manipulate others into trooning out

 

[teriyakiburns]

Worst thing is it will get to the point where any femme guy or tom boy will be pushed into trooning out

Wife is a bit tomboyish. She recently admitted that people online have been trying to convince her that she must be non-binary and maybe even trans, simply because she has short hair and wears trousers. She's got a stubborn streak a mile wide, so she reflexively rejects attempts by self-assumed authority figures to coerce her behaviour, but I suspect we may have interesting conversations in the future. No chance of her pooning imo, but afaik she's still at the "live and let live" point when it comes to troonery.

 

[Izdaja Slika]

Troons don't last long and they can't breed.

Well, there are the 'gay male' pooners who have (bareback!) penis-in-vagina sex, and who haven't yet rotted out their ovaries and uterus with wrong-sex hormones, who suddenly discover oh wait my large, female gamete fused with a male's small gamete and now there's a baby a-coming.

Since many of these pooners have been slathering or injecting exogenous testosterone during their pregnancy (and some don't even stop when they discover they are, in fact, pregnant), you may have a point - the offspring are likely to have multiple medical problems and may in fact be sterile.

 

[CAPTAIN HAPPY]

there are the 'gay male' pooners who have penis-in-vagina sex

haven't yet rotted out their ovaries and uterus with wrong-sex hormones

have been slathering or injecting exogenous testosterone during their pregnancy (and some don't even stop when they discover they are, in fact, pregnant)

That sounds like some very fertile bitches alright.

the offspring are likely to have multiple medical problems and may in fact be sterile.

Sterile from such things as having a pulse and breathing.