Asked the question during Thanksgiving dinner[.]
So I (19F) went over to my [girlfriend] (18F) for Thanksgiving.
I don’t know if he means her home or her family’s home. I don’t even know if his girlfriend is female. My old family…
(his biological family) …was…
“are”, because they’re still alive …a bunch of conservative [Trump-ers], so I obviously wasn't going to dinner with them despite being invited since…
Troons like to lie and claim that their families rejected them but often the cult grooms them into leaving their families and going “no contact”. See Jeffrey Marsh. …last year I got deadnamed a jillion times.
[A]nyhoozers…
Annoying made-up words won’t make you a woman …this year I go over and immediately I get a ton of stares by her family. My [girlfriend] didn't tell them I was trans…
so his girlfriend set him and the family up? …and I don't know if they knew [I was] or not. I'm a tall girl (6'6)…
they knew, bro …but [I pass] reasonably well.
Sure, bro. Anyways, I put my pie down and introduce myself to everyone with my little "hey, my name[‘s Nova,] my pronouns are she / her, what's your name?". Everything was fine for a while, until after dinner we were about to start having [dessert].
I thought they were eating pie? Or did he bring a pie as an offering and put it down?
There were [a lot] of new faces that trickled in, and as we were about to start [I overheard] this boy[,] maybe 8 or 9 years old[,] saying to his dad something along the lines of "is that a man or a woman". I interrupted and I told both of them, that I'm a woman, and my name is Nova. [T]he dad[, I] kid you fucking not says "Well have you had surgery yet"[?] I started tearing up and my [girlfriend] kicked them out.
So was this the girlfriend’s home or another family member’s? Because I don’t think the latter would fly.
[A]fter that [it] was kinda a blur. I just took some carrot cake and now I'm typing this in my car crying.
I thought the father and the boy were forced to leave? And I thought this was the girlfriend’s house? Why is he in the car? Does he not live with her? Or is this all bullshit, like his womanhood? [But] hey [at least] I managed to score some cake[.]