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My hope is that a Nice Guy hooks up with a girl who has Borderline Personality Disorder. BPD people (both sexes) LOVE being put on a pedestal and worshiped, and everything will be sunshine and rainbows right up until her mood shifts and she decides that he's not loving her enough at which point she'll probably become suicidal, and he'll make insane sacrifices to make her happy. It will probably end in a murder-suicide, if the guy doesn't wise up and cut ties. Or she might get bored and dump him as long as she has someone else on the hook, and then she gets to deal with a relentless stalker. Either way, the results are entertaining to watch from the sidelines. Fellow Kiwis, take my word on this, if you're getting to know someone and they let drop that they have BPD, cut off all contact and run the fuck away. No good will come of it. People who are insecure or feel a need to rescue others are particularly at risk, as they are especially susceptible to the kind of manipulation that BPDs are natural experts at.
As a bonus, you should tell him that your only 16. Granted, you're taking a chance of scaring him away, but if he still talks to you and wants to meet up with you, or even better, actually admits that he likes 16 year old girls, you got some nice solid gold.
As a bonus, you should tell him that your only 16. Granted, you're taking a chance of scaring him away, but if he still talks to you and wants to meet up with you, or even better, actually admits that he likes 16 year old girls, you got some nice solid gold.
A big red flag is someone who ALWAYS has some sort of crisis going on in their life. Nothing is ever just a small inconvenience. Everything that happens is the end of the world and if you don't drop everything and fix it, you're an awful person. If you won't help them, they'll find someone who will. They may not come out and say it, but the threat is always there. If you're the type of person who's terrified of being abandoned, that is a potent weapon to be used against you. Be mindful, and if someone is constantly expecting you to bail them out their problems (especially ones that are self-inflicted), you need to leave at once, and never look back. It will never get better, and will probably get worse. Run, make sure they understand that they are never to contact you again. If they threaten suicide (a common tactic), that is not your problem. Call the police and tell them that your ex is threatening to kill themselves and you don't want to dismiss it as an idle threat. If they are serious, they will get help. If they're not, a 48-hour involuntary hold is not fun, and they'll learn not to do that again, at least not to you.
Shit like this does make me wish he did have more of an online presence, he was an IRL lolcow just due to how everything he did was somehow related to the fact he identified as Vegeta... and would go on about "Saiyan Pride" IRL. Also tried to compare my fiancé to Yamcha.
Was the cringe level over 9000?
To be honest if they just wanted a fuck buddy (which is all they really want despite the "gentleman facade") they'd be better off just sending messages along the lines of "dat ass" to 100 random girls a day on POF.
And honestly, any woman who would go for one these chumps is probably a conductor on the crazy train express, and I can only hope that the ensuing cataclysm makes it to the internet for us to bask in the schadenfreude.
So your boyfriend is just some guy who has a relationship and has sex with a woman? I think your nice guy was right, that totally sounds like a cuck.
Cuck has been so overused it's lost all meaning. It used to mean "a guy who lets his girlfriend/wife walk all over him". Now it means "guy who did something I don't like/am jealous of".
Did I miss you explaining your role in this drama? Or does he just blame you because he needs someone to blame and your tangential proximity means he may as well pick you?
