Dad conned into thinking baby was his 'devastated' - Ryan Hampson says his proudest moment was becoming a father but the child was not his

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A man whose ex-partner forged paternity test results to make him believe he was the father of her child said what she did had ruined his life.

Ryan Hampson was at the child's birth after rekindling his relationship with Beth Fernley after she forged DNA test results to make it appear there was a 99.9% probability he was the father.

Fernley, 26, of Warrington, Cheshire, admitted fraud by false representation at Liverpool Crown Court and was sentenced to 13 months in jail, suspended for 18 months.

Mr Hampson - whose name was on the child's birth certificate - said his proudest moment was becoming a father, but when he found out it was a lie he was "left grieving over a child that was still alive".

He called for a change in the law to allow for mandatory paternity testing before a birth is registered.

But the Home Office said there were no plans to do so.

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Beth Fernley forged documents claiming Mr Hampson was the child's father
Mr Hampson told BBC North West Tonight that he asked for the DNA test in 2019 after Fernley told him she was pregnant.

The court heard how Fernley had asked Mr Hampson for £300 towards the test, and then sent him screenshots which she claimed were from company EasyDNA.

Mr Hampson then rekindled his relationship with Fernley.

She later forged another letter when the child was a toddler.

That letter suggested the DNA company had made a mistake and he was not the father, the court heard.

When Mr Hampson contacted the firm, the forgery and deception started to unravel.

He said: "They told me that there was no record of me.

"They never sent the letters to me and they actually told me to seek legal advice because they actually thought I was a victim of fraud."

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Ryan Hampson said he wants more recognition and punishment for paternity fraud
He described feeling "shocked", "numb" and "devastated" at the news.

"I honestly couldn't believe it," he said.

His mother, Claire Hampson, said it was "heart-breaking" to watch her son's "whole world fall apart" while trying to process "the fact there's been so much deceit not just to Ryan, but to us as well".

Mr Hampson contacted police in July 2022 and Fernley was arrested.

On sentencing, the Recorder of Liverpool, Judge Andrew Menary, described it as "a particularly dreadful offence".

He said when police became involved she continued to deny she had lied, in a "perpetuation of sinister dishonesty".

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Ryan Hampson said he "adored" the child
Mr Hampson and his family want more recognition and punishment for paternity fraud.

"The actions that were committed were utterly dire.

"We are a victim of fraud and I felt like this should have been taken a lot more seriously."

He wanted to keep a relationship with the child who he said he "adored" but the biological father is now back.

"The hardest thing I ever done was to let [them] go," he said.

"I felt like it was the only right thing for me to step away and I have done that to protect [them]."

Mr Hampson said he is having counselling and with the help of his family, was working to rebuild everything that was taken away from him.

'No changes planned'​

A Home Office spokesman said it took such cases seriously.

The spokesman said: "Fraud, and specifically paternity fraud, is a truly terrible crime, and those who provide false information on a birth certificate already face a criminal conviction.

"Work is under way on a new, expanded Fraud Strategy and we continue to work closely with private industry, law enforcement and tech companies to go after those committing fraud."

However, he added: "There are no plans to change the Births and Deaths Registration Act 1953 to include mandatory paternity testing prior to a birth registration taking place."
 
Every "single father" should get a DNA test unless he was trapped on an deserted island with the mother for a year ahead of time. No exceptions.

In fact, all babies should be DNA tested to match both parents. All it takes is a mouth swab on a baby, no big deal. We live in an age of baby trafficking, mail order sperm purchasing, IVF, rampant cheating and sky-high child support payments.
 
On sentencing, the Recorder of Liverpool, Judge Andrew Menary, described it as "a particularly dreadful offence".
Fernley, 26, of Warrington, Cheshire, admitted fraud by false representation at Liverpool Crown Court and was sentenced to 13 months in jail, suspended for 18 months.
Ah yes, particularly dreadful, but not dreadful enough to actually sentence her to anything.

WTF does "13 months in jail, suspended for 18 months" even mean.
 
In the US he would still be on the hook for child support.
If your name is on the birth certificate , you pay for the kid.
The only way out of it is if the actual father shows up, takes a DNA test and agrees to start paying.

Needless to say that rarely happens.

I am firmly in the paternity testing should be standard camp.

It is sad that this is even controversial.
 
Given that is Britain we are talking about, the guy will probably go to jail for failing to pay child support now.
There was an even more hilariously British case some years ago where a twelve year old boy supposedly fathered a kid with his 15-year old girlfriend. He was pictured smiling by the hospital bed with his new kid on the front page of several newspapers as "Britain's youngest father". Only it turned out that said 15-year old mother was a bit of a slapper, and the real father was some other young lad she had been shagging. Alfie thought he'd got his 15-year-old girlfriend Chantelle Steadman pregnant when he was just 12 after they had sex at a sleepover in Lower Dicker, East Sussex.
 
I don't think there's a need to mandatory full dna collection of every kid born in britian. 1. It's invasive of the government and that's bad enough already over there (and the US frankly). 2. You don't need to spend the money on all the muzzie and jeet dna. That's definitely a trap.

That said I do think any situation like this, the dads are going to have to demand a paternity test and I think there should be something in the law that the mother cannot refuse this if the father demands it. And there has to be a way for it to be done so the mother can't pull this stunt. Which shouldn't be that hard. Have the hospital send it off.
 
Ah yes, particularly dreadful, but not dreadful enough to actually sentence her to anything.

WTF does "13 months in jail, suspended for 18 months" even mean.
It means that her 13 months sentence will not be activated, unless she commits another crime within 18 months.

She's basically in the 'very last chance saloon'.
 
WTF does "13 months in jail, suspended for 18 months" even mean.
It means if she doesn't commit a serious crime in the next 18 months, all the suspended jail time will be dismissed. It's like "unsupervised probation" in the US, for 18 months.

In reality, she could commit any serious offense short of murder, aggravated assault or rape and they'd just give her another suspended sentence and a small fine. Look at the rap sheet for your average black/brown criminal who finally kills someone. Tons of suspended sentences and unenforced non-jail penalties.
 
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