why are you still single - and general discussion of the dating game

[Pendulous Dong]

all of the women that are available either have kids or are batshit insane leftists.

Have you considered improving yourself so that the roster of available women improves in quality?

 

[Honka Honka Burning Love]

Have you considered improving yourself so that the roster of available women improves in quality?

I always hear this, but I never have seen evidence it actually happens.

 

[DavidS877]

Have you considered improving yourself so that the roster of available women improves in quality?

Since he said he was saving money to buy a house that sounds like exactly what he was doing.

 

[Pure Soap]

Have you considered improving yourself so that the roster of available women improves in quality?

Well, let’s see, I have a house within walking distance to the beach, I’m not fat, I have a healthy bank account, a good career, and zero debt outside of a mortgage.

I guess I should take roids? I dunno.

Edit: I don’t use dating apps, maybe that’s the problem (lol…lmao even)

 

[Towoman]

Like seeing what some of these guys think will get them to score literally has made my jaw drop with how weird it is

tell stories faggot

What do yous think? Is it worth trying the move or is it all wishful thinking?

this sounds like the perfect setup to ruin your already above average life
if you are bored and looking for a adventure go for it
also you dont NEED to reverse passportbro(to the US of all places ) to find a girl
i'd 100% be funnier if you did go overseas tho but you have to report back

 

[Sperg_rancher]

because digital media has subplanted my need for love and self actualization to the point where I'm more content choosing to engage in digital slop online than I am going out and doing difficult things like meeting new people and dating.

 

[I'm Retarded?]

women just suck ass. all the ones I've been with were nightmares, every relationship was a one-sided train wreck. if there are good women out there, I haven't met them. I finally threw the last bitch I had out of my life and used all the money I was burning on her worthless ass to move into a nice apartment. for the first time since I started dating, I finally have room to work on myself. I'm becoming a better and stronger person. my mental health is improving steadily. every day I wake up single is another step forward that can't be taken away from me by some selfish, immature shithead I've allowed myself to become attached to. the peace and fulfillment I feel sitting on my balcony and enjoying the outside air and amazing view is something I haven't felt in over 15 years.

I finally feel like I'm okay. all I had to do was get rid of all the fucking women in my life.

 

[Sugriva]

I just don't care right now. I'm way too busy trying to improve myself and my life and a relationship (even just trying to get one) eats up so much of your time. I'm perfectly content being single right now and it doesn't really bother me.

 

[Angelos32]

tell stories faggot

this sounds like the perfect setup to ruin your already above average life
if you are bored and looking for a adventure go for it
also you dont NEED to reverse passportbro(to the US of all places ) to find a girl
i'd 100% be funnier if you did go overseas tho but you have to report back

When I went to a bar a girl tried to get a guy to move and he said”only if you flash me your tits” and then after she went away he was like “doesn’t hurt to try” and I’m just like what the actual fuck just happened

 

[Cybertonia]

it's got me really motivated to find a way to settle in the US

Fuck off we're full

 

[Johnathan Readit]

Women are gay, dating is for fags.

 

[Kujo Jotaro]

After many flings/situationships I finally got my first official gf; then we broke up 3 weeks later. It wasn't a bad experience, and I think I learned something from it. I'm simply not built for relationships.

I'm too selfish, don't want to invest the expected/appropriate amount of time, don't really find others peoples hobbies interesting, and honestly don't think I could live with someone else after having lived alone for years now.

Also, I've finally realized I don't like physical intimacy much. After the initial rush of dopamine fades I find making out uncomfortable, sex is meh for me especially if I've had it recently, and I don't really like cuddling that much. Just another reason to think I might have a touch of the tism.

 

[Big Seej]

After many flings/situationships I finally got my first official gf; then we broke up 3 weeks later. It wasn't a bad experience, and I think I learned something from it. I'm simply not built for relationships.

I'm too selfish, don't want to invest the expected/appropriate amount of time, don't really find others peoples hobbies interesting, and honestly don't think I could live with someone else after having lived alone for years now.

Also, I've finally realized I don't like physical intimacy much. After the initial rush of dopamine fades I find making out uncomfortable, sex is meh for me especially if I've had it recently, and I don't really like cuddling that much. Just another reason to think I might have a touch of the tism.

It's not an "official gf" if you broke up within 3 weeks. That's a hookup with extra steps.

You sound low T, not autistic. Start taking 50mg zinc daily and lifting. Avoid seed oils and processed food, and eat more eggs and red meat.

 

[PikminCollector]

Edit: I don’t use dating apps, maybe that’s the problem (lol…lmao even)

And don't start either. I have been principally against it since it became popular, I find myself more and more alone in this position as time goes on.
One of my friends is married with a woman he met on dating app, and another has just eclipsed a year in a relationship.
They awkwardly lied at the wedding about how they met and that cemented my view on it forever.
It's completely beneath all of us to resort to such desperate measures to use these platforms to meet other people equally desperate enough to debase themselves on a pseudo marketplace of people.
That's before the obvious disparity between men and women on these platforms and personally I wouldn't want to date a woman with so little self worth.
As for alternate solutions, I haven't found any.

 

[Titanium_Piston]

I like coming home from work and not have anyone bother me.
I also don't want anyone complain about how I spend my money, I enjoy my hobbies and I think they keep me sane. Some sim racing, occasionally modding my car.
I'm a homebody and I don't particularly like going out. Recently I moved out of the city to a rural area near a small town. My property has almost 8 acres so I can spend time outside but not necessarily outside my "home" .

I have two passports (dual citizenship) and I don't like traveling. But if one goes to any dating app, almost every woman profile has how much they love to travel.
I know that any woman that would start a relationship with me will become very frustrated with my lifestyle, and be bored very fast.

I don't care, I live a simple, quiet life. I mind my business, don't bother anyone and my only debt is my mortgage, which I hope to be done with it in 5 years or so.

I admit that sometimes I feel lonely, but when looking at what my brothers have gone and go through, cousins and uncles and aunts. I think I'm fine just the way I am right now.

 

[heh]

I’m probably too defensive, autistic, and have no desire to be in a relationship just for the sake of being in a relationship, so I’ve never been in one.
It’s hard to find someone you’d actually see yourself with permanently, let alone for them to also feel the same way. Having no ‘relationship experience’ is also seen as bad nowadays, especially when you’ve had flings.
Sporadic FWBs are all that’s in the cards for me, unless I get lucky and draw the out.

 

[Vibromatic Heart Bed]

Turns out I was single forever because I was dating the wrong gender lol. Turns out it's much easier to find a partner when you actually enjoy spending time around them, you have things in common and you're not scared to be alone with them.

If you're single and unhappy, try being gay. Russell Greer was actually onto something!

 

[National Defense Advocate]

Turns out I was single forever because I was dating the wrong gender lol. Turns out it's much easier to find a partner when you actually enjoy spending time around them, you have things in common and you're not scared to be alone with them.

If you're single and unhappy, try being gay. Russell Greer was actually onto something!

Prison turned another, sad to see.

 

[Jesus Swept]

Prison turned another, sad to see.

No, child, I will enjoy prison, stalker child.

 

[Forsaken Wanderer]

I think I speak for a lot of men here - I am in my 30s and I've never had a date.

I am short, chubby, balding, and fuck ugly (but not fuckable ugly, that isn't a thing).

Women aren't into those sorts of genetics that I and most other men have.

Every woman has a partner already. The few that don't aren't looking for one.

If you didn't manage to get a girlfriend pre 2010s then you are just as fucked as I.