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Uncanny Valley said:
I've also had classmates in HS that looked like they could be somebody's creepy aunt/uncle. Autism does that to you.
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autism so powerful it physically distorts you...

lets hope it doesnt start distorting the stuff around the autist too
 
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look at this cuck lol

hes happy when his wife's son meets his actual dad
 
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Crunchy Leaf said:
the biographical equivalent of gore
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God. I might mock polyamory as an ideology, I might laugh at the cucks and weirdos, but these people are so fucking broken, to the extent that you can see the damage in their faces. Sometimes this shit switches from darkly funny to just fucking dark.

The people who criticize kiwifarms are partially right, reading about other people's grotesque dysfunction does actually make people feel better about themselves. Watching strangers flail and struggle and tragicomically fall on their own faces time after time, only to pick themselves up so the cycle can repeat.

If you've been following Null's coverage of Mumkey, you've probably noticed that Null is rooting for the guy, and despite laughing at Mumkey's misfortune also wants to see him unfuck his own mind. Well I'm rooting for this moon-faced polyamorous addict and I hope she fucking finds a way to live a life of health and happiness.
 
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Not from reddit directly, but as long as we're talking about those broken people: it turns out the Dayton shooter might have gone nuts after leaving a polyamorous relationship.

My Ex-Boyfriend was the Dayton Shooter

This is not an excuse for Connor Betts. This is just the Connor that I knew.
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Starting in the March 2019 section:

Connor and I kept our relationship on the down-low due to the polyamorous nature of it. I was engaged to another man while dating Connor, and all parties involved knew about the situation. Everything was consensual, even if it was a bit of an adjustment. Connor didn’t know that when I first asked him out for coffee, though. He didn’t drink coffee, so we went out for drinks that night instead.

...He was a perfect gentleman throughout our relationship. He never pushed me to do things I didn’t want to do. His biggest concern was that I was comfortable. Polyamory is confusing for everyone involved, but luckily he and my fiance at the time were both understanding and consenting.
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"Polyamory is confusing for everyone involved", you say? What an understatement. Maybe they should have sought relationship advice from r/polyamory. Too late now.

But hey, as long as everyone is so understanding and consenting, it's fine, right? Surely every poly relationship doesn't end in emotional upheaval and disaster.

I knew then that I had to break things off with him, but I waited a few days to cool off. I wanted to wait until my fiance got back from a work trip, but then Connor started asking inappropriate questions. He texted me to ask how often my fiance and I had sex, to which I told him I wasn’t comfortable responding. Then he asked if I ever thought about killing myself. Now, we had spoken about suicide before. He knew that I had. This felt like he was trying to play mind games with me. In the gentlest way that I could, I told him that I didn’t think he was ready for a relationship in the mental state that he was in. He needed to do more work on himself and find more coping mechanisms so he didn’t become so dependent on other people.

I didn’t have the emotional capacity to be his therapist, and that wasn’t my job. I just wanted to be his girlfriend and it was clear that he was not in a position that that was possible. He texted back a snarky reply to the effect of, “I hope you find peace and never have to stress about anything again.” Honestly, it was a better reply than I had been anticipating.
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And they all lived happily ever aft-- oh. Nevermind.

Surprise surprise, both he and the ex-girlfriend were mental cases:

We also were very open about our mental illnesses from the very beginning. He told me that he had bipolar disorder and possibly OCD; that didn’t scare me, some of the sweetest people I know have those conditions. I told him that I have depression, generalized anxiety, and ADD. We bonded over depression humor, something that only people who have been in the throes of it really ever understand and find humorous.
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This is usually the point where you say "I know, it's a stereotype that all X are Y", but I'll submit the prevous 80+ pages of this thread as evidence why we don't need that disclaimer here.
 
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Harvey Danger said:
Not from reddit directly, but as long as we're talking about those broken people: it turns out the Dayton shooter might have gone nuts after leaving a polyamorous relationship.

My Ex-Boyfriend was the Dayton Shooter

This is not an excuse for Connor Betts. This is just the Connor that I knew.
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Starting in the March 2019 section:



"Polyamory is confusing for everyone involved", you say? What an understatement. Maybe they should have sought relationship advice from r/polyamory. Too late now.

But hey, as long as everyone is so understanding and consenting, it's fine, right? Surely every poly relationship doesn't end in emotional upheaval and disaster.



And they all lived happily ever aft-- oh. Nevermind.

Surprise surprise, both he and the ex-girlfriend were mental cases:



This is usually the point where you say "I know, it's a stereotype that all X are Y", but I'll submit the prevous 80+ pages of this thread as evidence why we don't need that disclaimer here.
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Time for the memory hole!
 
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Lissamine Green said:
"Conservatives believe poly is a justification for raping her." WTF is with these tards confusing mainstream republicans with the fucking Taliban?
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Because they can feel immediately threatened by people they don't like, while not actually going anywhere near anyone who would threaten them for real.
 
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TaimuRadiu said:
It's actually possible to set up a legal entity with the protections of a civil marriage for three or more people in the USA. My ex knew a lawyer whose specialty involved doing this for people.

No prizes given for guessing why she's my ex.
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It was also possible to do that for gay couples before gay marriage got legalized, minus the potential for a federal tax break. But that wasn't good enough for the gays, and the system won't be good enough for polys who have decided they are oppressed just like the gays.
 
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iafiv said:
Uhm where did this whole 'polys are opressed' thing come from??The most you would get from people who are not ok with this is 'i find your behaviour kind of weird' maybe some religius nutjob would say 'you'll burn in hell' but opression?Come on.I can't exactly consider there is an actual equivalence even close equivalence between actual incidents in which a gay guy got murdered because he was gay without doing anything threatening towards others like some incidents in the US military in the 1990's and 'not everyone thinks i'm doing what's right'.I'm not including murders commited out of passion those happen quite often regardless of sexual orientation.So a murder in a poly relation because of jealousy doesn't count.I mean actual murders because someone was opposed to this lifestyle out of principle.Also i don't think you can claim yourself to be LGBT if you only have sex with straight folk but you have multiple partners.At this rate LGBTSQW etc is gonna mean any person that has had more than one opposite sex sexual partner in their lives which would probably mean 90% of all americans.If you keep redefining what LGBT means you're gonna end up including everyone.
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You're talking about Generation Snowflake who thinks even minor disapproval of their antics is a hate crime.

God I hope Gen Z is different.
 
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Karen isn't queer because queer means experiencing same-sex attraction or being a troon. She's only 'queer' in the older sense of the word--being weird.

If Karen was a divorced and re-married woman, which is acceptable in all but the most conservative corners of Western society, her husband would not get custody over children that were not biologically his either, absent the biological father having given up his parental rights, which is unusual. You don't get to adopt someone else's child because you're in a relationship with one of that child's parents.

Children are at immense risk for abuse from their mother's male partner who is not the child's biological father.

Also, saying she has six boyfriends and minor children does not make her appear sympathetic. Everyone's heard about single mothers who ignore their kids in favor of trying to find a man, and seen parents talking about how hard romance can be when you have children. How much is she paying attention to her children when she has six partners?
 
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sweet-cereal-killer said:
This poly shit is very common in asexual circles where some asexuals, for unknown reasons, decide to get together with people who aren't asexuals. The partners feel "rape-y" for having sex with someone who isn't into it and use it as an excuse to cheat. I'm pretty sure many only get into relationships with these "asexuals" for the security of marriage and so they can have an excuse to slut around.

What bothers me the most is how there's often children involved and the asexual partners keep taking these cheating pieces of shit back every time. There's two types of miserable people who feed each other and damage everyone around them like the cancer they are and it's always the same types of people: the slutty poly partner and the cucked "asexual" partner. The former is usually a bisexual and the latter effectively asexual (even if they don't identify as such).

The former likes to whore around while the latter is a glorified babysitter who more often than not has an incestuous closeness to the kids (either literal or psychological).

Animals and trash, the lot of them.
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what's the deal with asexuals who date non-asexuals. has this ever gone well.
Tanner Glass said:
Aside from the answers you have gotten already, "Polyamory" folks don't have legal rights (and are more commonly referred to as criminals in some red leaning areas).

From a legal standpoint, your "poly" husband is not your real, legal husband and is instead legally nothing more than a roommate. This massively complicates matters where you need to specify family members/legal spouses and frequently putting down your non-legal spouse in these places literally constitutes fraud.

There are obvious parallels to gay marriage here, but even crazier.

Example - You and your real, actual wife work at the same company, which has amazing health insurance. Your other wife is in poor health with her fibromyalgia and works retail; therefore having no insurance to speak of. You cannot add your other wife to your good insurance legally and if you get caught it's a real ass crime.



This would be an "asking for it" rape, not a "corrective" rape. If a girl already has 3 to 6 boyfriends shes sees each week, would she really mind one more forced on her? She'd probably like it - would be the thought process.

It's all about the promiscuity - posting on reddit about how much fun it is getting fucked by different guys all the time is the internet version of "in a bad alley wearing a short skirt".
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of course the sick poly wife would have fibromyalgia
 
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