fakegambit
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Jesus, I thought that show was bad enough already. They need to pull that shit off the air. That's fucked.
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Jesus, I thought that show was bad enough already. They need to pull that shit off the air. That's fucked.
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If Karen is able to add unlimited people to her health insurance, why aren't the rest of us allowed to do so?
And what could go wrong with allowing unlimited people to have legal claims on her children?
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It seems to be a running theme that who ever opens up the relationship tends to be the one getting fucked over in some way. Either getting cucked into oblivion or their partner just saying FUCK IT im done
It seems to be a running theme that who ever opens up the relationship tends to be the one getting fucked over in some way. Either getting cucked into oblivion or their partner just saying FUCK IT im done
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what o what could be the lesson
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So let me get this straight, this guy is an introverted DJ at a strip club who has problems flirting with people and somehow comes to the decision that opening he relationship was a good idea. It's even more retarded becasue his SO is a striper and according to him a local sex icon how did he not see himself becoming miserable.
Also
he had a loyal stripper girlfriend and decided to fuck up that relationship. God, he deserves to be miserable.
kissbummer
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I would have thought this was a troll but the guy's account is too busy.
This is is where the story started: https://www.reddit.com/r/polyamory/comments/7zs7nt/anyone_ever_given_up_polyamory_to_be_with_a/
Boss Bass
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What a difference a year makes. Those replies are weirdly reasonable.
Reddit really does turn communities insane.
Hux
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Going to anyone who's poly for advice on love and relationships is like taking swimming lessons from a lead weight
sweet-cereal-killer
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Doesn't ever keep them from giving it.
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I call bullshit. I don't get how you could be a DJ in a strip club while being an introvert. The place is full of thirsty dudes who come to gawk at some hotties' bare asses. It's easily in the top five of the places where you shouldn't work if you were an introvert.
I think she was just pity-fucking him on the side, it gave him delusions of being a super attractive dude, he tried to go poly to get more ass and was left with none.
I think she was just pity-fucking him on the side, it gave him delusions of being a super attractive dude, he tried to go poly to get more ass and was left with none.
kissbummer
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I don't see why you couldn't be a DJ and an introvert. When you're DJ'ing, you're mostly concentrating on your music and your equipment. Sometimes people can be drunk and start bothering you into playing a song, but I don't think it's been that common at the events I've seen.
But the dude's post history is very funny, and I'm not sure how he was so delusional about what would happen.
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Hoes not mad, but he mad about hoes.
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During weekends in the 90's, I moonlighted as a DJ on weekends in Detroit; several of my more serious DJ friends had regular spots at a a couple stripclubs, and on occasion I'd fill in for them when they started doing warehouse party gigs.
As far as DJ work goes, strip clubs are the worst, only a step above wedding receptions. The girls & club owners have their own playlists which are provided before the night starts, and strippers get fairly unpleasant when their normal set list isn't followed, or another stripper used it earlier (not that I blame them, but still).
Patrons generally aren't allowed to make requests, and the in the clubs I worked the DJ booths were kept seperate from the patrons.
I've been an introvert my whole life, yet DJ'ing early on allowed me to partake in the social & technical aspects of music, without really having to be social.
But I couldn't wait to not need to do stripclub gigs anymore; the drama alone set my nerves on edge, and I rapidly learned by observation that strippers are a NO-GO under any circumstance.
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Newer to this thread and still making my way through but I'm not new to the concepts polyamory (or watching people and relationships crash and burn over it)
Just jumped over to the r/poly Reddit and found some gems right away (also wtf is up with them all loving steven universe?)
"Non hierarchical" in your harem... How deliciously college hippie.
Being someone's cum dump and side car leaves you feeling less valued? I only have one word for that
Maybe it's because she hasn't had alot of experience yet. I'm sure that self worth thing will go away eventually
"It's like the system of relationships that keep in place the structures of like capitalist misogyny power or something"
It's shit like this that reminds me of the highschool "artsy" types that all preach about not following social norms and being a (que South Park goth references) CONFORMIST and it follows these people usually evolve to the smug college hippies that believe they have transcended judgements.
LMFAO Isn't judging people just apart of human nature?
Like power structures and hierarchies
How is it possible for a person to see someone and not see things in them or evaluate or assess... Are they trying to circumvent the biological necessity for discernment itself
Who are these people and WHY?
Just jumped over to the r/poly Reddit and found some gems right away (also wtf is up with them all loving steven universe?)
"Non hierarchical" in your harem... How deliciously college hippie.
Being someone's cum dump and side car leaves you feeling less valued? I only have one word for that
Maybe it's because she hasn't had alot of experience yet. I'm sure that self worth thing will go away eventually
"It's like the system of relationships that keep in place the structures of like capitalist misogyny power or something"
It's shit like this that reminds me of the highschool "artsy" types that all preach about not following social norms and being a (que South Park goth references) CONFORMIST and it follows these people usually evolve to the smug college hippies that believe they have transcended judgements.
LMFAO Isn't judging people just apart of human nature?
Like power structures and hierarchies
How is it possible for a person to see someone and not see things in them or evaluate or assess... Are they trying to circumvent the biological necessity for discernment itself
Who are these people and WHY?
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I'm curious. How did that work? Was it something along the lines of setting up a corporation or something? (How romantic.)
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I never asked about the details.
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You reap what you sow, and you fucked yourself on Tyrone's dick, you goddamn mong. You deserve nothing short of your rejection.
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I would not know about over there, but I know for the Benelux (and Sweden has something exactly if not very close to it) they have something called a "samenlevingscontract", which literally means "living together contract". It can contain what you want, as much as you want making it like a marriage and more (quite similar anyway), or as little as you want. You cannot just draw one up yourself, it has to be done with lawyers and through a notary, who has to have it on file, if not most judges will declare it invalid when it comes to issues with taxes or government (inheritance, paternity, estates and taxes, etc). In Sweden the term is exactly the same, they call it "sambo" for short (forgot the long word for it), forgot the details for a sambo though but it was quite similar to the Benelux.
A marriage you could import, like from Morocco or Turkey for example (99% of marriages with multiple wives were just that), could be between many wives and a man, as long as you say "religion, racism!" and they just accepted it. And then the government caught on, a dude with 4 wives in 4 homes on welfare as he had a gf in his own house, nope. So now a marriage is strictly between 2 people. So polygamists use the samenlevingscontract but just have a lot more people sign it. And because such a contract can contain exactly what a registered partnership entails (save for a few details) there you go.
Important to note that a registered partnership is a marriage where you do not have to say yes but still have to bring witnesses, and where you do not automatically were the daddy like in marriage, and they changed that to always the daddy in 2014 anyway. There are a few more things, like in case of divorce and then death in marriage all your stuff goes to your ex, the end, which does not fly in registered partnerships. All in all the differences are minor, and it takes 2 minutes and 2 signatures and saying yes to each other and you are now husband and wife instead of partners, the differences are that minor.
You can still make a legal entity to protect assets, and it probably could be made to work like a marriage somewhat, but rules are a bitch to make that work, NV is anonymous as the N "nameless" part implies which bla bla, conclusion will not work, not even mentioning the minimum cashflow, and minimum sold and paid for shares, €40K minimum, personal responsiblity with BV since they are all flex versions now, could try Ltd. but tax service will be eating out of your ass everyday and you can count on extra risk with that, have to start it up in London and then go to Commerce Chamber to transfer shit, lot of work and money and it would not serve its purpose well or at all. Forget fancy stuff and weird shenanigans, just a few contracts and done.