We all have a limit as to how much empathy we can feel. Compassion fatigue is a very real thing. The fun thing here is that the people who tout their empathy loudly and stridently, who shriek from the rooftops of their social media about how tolerant and progressive and nice they are, are being confronted with people pointing out that it's a lie, that they're not tolerant, they only care about themselves and people just like them, only the people who share their views and never disagree with them.
They're Puritans. They're cult members. They're the same as the Religious Right they so despise, and yet worse in part because their moral certitude doesn't come from a higher power, but their self-belief in their own purity and righteousness. You can see it in their responses - everyone who disagrees with them, no matter what about, no matter what they're saying, have to be Bad People, because if they aren't then they might have to engage in the slightest bit of self-reflection and think about whether they, themselves, are responsible for bad things. Whether they aren't purely victims of misfortune and abuse, but responsible for it as well. And since that can't be true, then the people who are saying 'empathy is good, actually, even to people you don't like' are still the Bad People, and they tie themselves into knots justifying it.
One of the reasons I like the Farms so much is that I reached compassion fatigue dealing with SJWs and the troons and their constant, escalating demands. I reached the point where I realised they would never, ever be happy, especially as long as one person disagreed with them, one person remained who wouldn't just bend over and worship at their feet for being True and Honest and Right. So I've given up trying to empathise with people who have no empathy in return, no matter how loudly they pretend they do - because they are lying, and their actions demonstrate it, and they have no desire to change because they're certain they're right.
And the New Guy meme suggests that there's a chance that other people are starting to give up on them too. I get that people who've been following her longer hold out hope that the glimmers of self-awareness from Jess might mean she's not fully indoctrinated. Her reaction to this, though, suggests to me that unless she has a massive overhaul of her current perspective and personality, there's no reason to give her the benefit of the doubt.
I'd rather empathise with the strawman white guy who doesn't like burglary and the people who are embracing him, than the artist who couldn't take even the slightest criticism and the orbiters who immediately started calling everyone they didn't like Nazi bigot chud monsters. I've found I don't have it in me to care about both, so I've picked a side, because they demand that you're either with them or against them. It's the same peril as the 'it's not my job to educate you' bullshit - because if I go off and educate myself, there's absolutely no guarantee that I'll come back agreeing with you. And, surprise: I don't.